Dave Rubin on Charlie Kirk's Murder: Honoring a Friend Who Bridged Political Divides

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Dave Rubin on Charlie Kirk's Murder: Honoring a Friend Who Bridged Political Divides

Dave Rubin reflects on the murder of his friend Charlie Kirk and addresses the lies spreading about Kirk's legacy. Rubin shares how Kirk brought him closer to conservative values through thoughtful debate, refutes claims of homophobia despite Kirk's religious beliefs, and condemns those mocking Erika Kirk's grief. He discusses Kirk's mission to welcome diverse voices into the conservative movement and warns that America sits on a powder keg following this tragedy. Rubin vows to honor Kirk by continuing the work of bridging divides and encouraging civil discourse across political differences.

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September 17, 2025

A Friendship Built on Open Dialogue

Dave Rubin, host of the Rubin Report, reflects on his friendship with Charlie Kirk and the profound impact of Kirk's murder on America and the world. Rubin recalls how he and Kirk first connected in 2017 when Rubin was still a man of the left and Kirk was a man of the right. Kirk approached Rubin at an event with a simple proposal: go on tour together, debate everything, visit colleges, and let students ask whatever they wanted.

"Let's just battle it out the way you're supposed to battle it out in a free society, which is with words, of course, not with bullets," Rubin recounts Kirk saying. The two went on to do dozens of events together, facing protests, fire alarms being pulled, and bomb threats. Nothing, however, compared to what happened when Kirk was murdered.

"Charlie was a great human being," Rubin emphasizes. "Putting aside the politics for a second, Charlie was undoubtedly a good husband and a wonderful father and his wife is now a widow and his children will grow up without a father."

The Power of Nuanced Conversation

Rubin credits Kirk's debate skills and thoughtful approach to nuanced conversations for bringing him closer to conservative viewpoints over the years. "I came a lot closer to Charlie's opinions over the years than Charlie came to mine," Rubin admits. "I think I did move him on a couple things, but he definitely brought me more within a wide tent conservative movement."

Kirk devoted his life to talking with the other side, often receiving criticism from both political extremes because he constantly sought new people to engage with. Rubin believes Kirk's mission was exactly what society needs and vows to honor his friend by continuing that work.

"I'm really devoting myself right now, my show, and my upcoming tour in Australia to finding the people that want to break bread again, that want to figure out, okay, hey, we're different, but we got to learn to live together," Rubin explains. "That's going to be my mission. I think it's the only way that I can honor Charlie appropriately."

Addressing the Homophobia Allegations

Rubin directly confronts allegations circulating in media that Kirk was deeply homophobic and hostile to the LGBT community. As an openly gay man who was Kirk's friend, Rubin offers a nuanced perspective on Kirk's actual views.

"Charlie was entitled to his own personal religious beliefs," Rubin states. "Did he want America to be restored with Judeo-Christian values? And did he believe that his personal views were best explained through Christianity? Well, the answer to that is absolutely yes. But Charlie was not crusading against marriage equality. Charlie was welcoming gay people into the conservative movement."

Rubin points to a video that Elon Musk shared where someone asked Kirk how he could welcome gays into the conservative movement. Kirk's response, according to Rubin, was "wonderfully thoughtful" and made clear that while he had his own religious beliefs, "America is not a religious theocracy."

"Charlie was at my house not too long ago. My husband and I sat at weddings next to he and his wife. We broke bread many, many times," Rubin shares. "People are allowed their own personal religious beliefs. I for one would not force a religious institution to do anything that it didn't want to do. But that's the difference between a religious belief and a secular institution which is the government of the United States."

Rubin credits Kirk's open approach with helping to expand the MAGA movement enough to welcome former liberals like Elon Musk, Joe Rogan, Robert Kennedy Jr., and Tulsi Gabbard. "There was no hatred in his heart," Rubin insists.

America Sitting on a Powder Keg

Rubin describes the current moment as a terrible time not just for America but for the world, noting that what happens in America tends to spread globally. "Right now we're sort of as a country going through a degree of mourning although there's a lot of people that are quite angry too and it just feels like we're kind of sitting on a powder keg right now if one or two other weird things happen. It feels like all bets are off."

Responding to Jimmy Kimmel's Lies

Rubin responds to Jimmy Kimmel's characterization of Kirk's killer as "one of them" (referring to conservatives). Kimmel mockingly mentioned the killer's "trans boyfriend" while insisting conservatives were trying to score political points.

"Jimmy Kimmel exists as a quote unquote comedian, and I use air quotes there because I've never heard him say anything funny, but he exists as a political operative in some ways more than Charlie himself existed as a political operative," Rubin fires back. "Charlie was out there talking to people and open to ideas. Jimmy is doing a show where he makes, I don't know, probably about 15 mil a year to only force one political ideology down the throats of Americans."

Rubin clarifies that the killer came from what sounds like a decent two-parent household with some conservative values, then went to college and apparently became radicalized there. "The fact that Jimmy knows he can go up there and just lie to his audience" exemplifies what Rubin sees as a massive misinformation war where those who control the strings think they can "just lie about absolutely everything, tell you up is down, left is right, boy is girl, and get away with it."

The Obligation to Mock Grief?

Perhaps most disturbing to Rubin is streamer Steven Bonnell (known online as Destiny) defending the mocking of Erika Kirk, Charlie's grieving widow who must now explain to her three-year-old child why daddy is never coming home.

Bonnell argued that because Kirk's grief was being "weaponized" for political recruitment, people not only have the ability to mock it but "the obligation to mock it."

"I would say this is shocking except I've seen enough clips of this guy endorsing violence and saying all sorts of crazy things for years that I'm not surprised at all," Rubin responds. He points to other streamers like Hasan who have literally called for "blood in the street violence of capitalists" yet remain on their platforms.

The Radicalization of the Left

Rubin sees these responses as part of a broader pattern where the left in America has "purged all of the decent liberals" and become "a radical party that is trying to usher in Marxism, communism and socialism."

"Years ago, they started calling themselves Democrat socialists. They don't really even say the Democrat party anymore. Now they're outright socialists," Rubin observes. He connects this with what he calls the "red green alliance" seen in movements like "queers for Palestine."

"What do they have in common? It's that they would love to take out Western society. That's what they have in common," Rubin concludes. "So it is not surprising that these people would either endorse violence or mock those who have just lost their loved ones because of violence. It's actually a fairly obvious extension of everything else that they tell us."

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