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A Celebration of Ten Years and Gratitude
Erika Kirk opened her address at Young Women's Leadership Summit by celebrating a significant milestone—ten years of the event. She expressed deep admiration for her husband Charlie Kirk and the team behind Turning Point USA, emphasizing that their success is the result of collective effort. With her daughter's stuffed animal, Baby Buff Buff, placed on stage as a good luck charm, Erika reflected on how much has changed over the past decade. From shifting presidential administrations to evolving culture war issues, including society's confusion over basic questions like what defines a woman, she noted that the cultural landscape has become increasingly turbulent.
Despite these challenges, Erika reminded the audience that God is never caught off guard by what's happening in the world. She encouraged women not to be caught off guard either, but to recognize that they are positioned exactly where they need to be for such a time as this.
Raising Children for This Generation
As a mother, Erika shared her perspective on raising children in 2025. Rather than wishing her children were born in a different era, she expressed gratitude that they are appointed for this specific time period. She emphasized to her daughter that she was made, fashioned, and appointed for this generation—not placed in the wrong time or wrong place. The spiritual battle, Erika noted, is palpable. You can walk into a room and feel the presence of the enemy. The battleground is for hearts, homes, and futures.
The enemy's mission is simple but devastating: to steal joy, kill peace, and destroy legacies. However, God provides strategic weapons—prayer, scripture, obedience, submission, and holiness. Erika warned against mistaking God's silence for His absence, reminding women that though each faces her own unique battle, the call is universal.
A Call for Revival of Biblical Womanhood
Erika issued what she described as a universal call: a revival of biblical womanhood. As she teaches her young daughter about womanhood, she grapples with how to explain it to a two-year-old in a culture saturated with conflicting messages. Rather than pointing to influencers or social media personalities, Erika turns to biblical examples as blueprints for her daughter.
Her vision is to raise a daughter who is a warrior—one who wears modesty like armor, carries truth like a torch, and conviction like a crown. The devil fears a woman anchored in Christ because she cannot be bought, swayed, or distracted. For Erika, the nursery is a sanctuary where she prays over her children and hears her daughter sing "Jesus Loves Me" on repeat. These moments represent everything she values.
Esther: Courage in a Culture of Fear
Erika addressed college and high school students specifically, pointing them to the story of Esther. Esther's battle was not fought with swords but through silent obedience. She stepped into royal halls not by accident but by divine appointment, standing between death and deliverance in a palace not built for her voice. Yet she spoke anyway.
Erika emphasized that women don't need to be masculine to be strong, and they don't need to be loud to be heard. A woman under authority allows God to use her life in powerful ways. For students who feel silenced in college classrooms, Erika offered encouragement: degrees fade, but godliness does not. Professors' opinions won't outlive you, but your faithfulness will. Stand for Christ boldly, even when you're alone, and let your conduct preach even when you're silenced.
Erika challenged the cultural narrative that demands women own businesses by age 23 or go viral on social media. Whenever feeling behind, she urged women to declare: "I am not behind. I am becoming." The enemy wants women to feel they're running out of time, but careers and LLCs will always be available. Children, family, husbands, and marriages are not renewable resources. Don't delay the eternal for the temporary or sacrifice the sacred for the secular.
Motherhood as a Launch Pad, Not a Pause
Erika acknowledged that many young women aren't yet thinking about marriage and family. She understood this mindset, having been raised by a single mother who ingrained in her the importance of self-sufficiency and never relying on a man. Before meeting Charlie, she wasn't on a path toward six kids and a white picket fence. But when she met the right man, everything shifted. She no longer cared about career ambitions in the same way.
She wanted to plant a seed of encouragement: motherhood is not a pause—it's a launch pad. Raising children with wisdom, love, and truth is not wasting a degree. Mothers are culture shapers and legacy builders. No government can outpace a righteous mother, and no platform can match the prayers of a righteous mother.
Erika urged women not to chase paychecks, titles, and corner offices at the expense of the short window they have for raising a family. Build your family first, raise your children, and then create your platform with a tender heart rather than in the furnace of exhaustion.
Deborah: Leading in Times of Devastation
For women called to lead during times of devastation, Erika pointed to Deborah. Deborah led when the men around her wavered. She judged, prophesied, and marched when others stalled. Her battle was to lead boldly in a generation that had forgotten how.
This is relevant for women who carry burdens in their homes, ministries, or workplaces when others won't step up—bearing responsibilities others have abandoned. Like Deborah, strength doesn't come from oneself but from God who goes before you. Deborah did not fall because God was within her.
Ruth: Starting Over in Unknown Fields
Erika spoke to women starting over in unknown fields of life, directing them to Ruth. Ruth buried her past and followed Naomi into foreign soil with no husband, no title, and no plan. Her battle was the ache of rebuilding with no guarantee. She chose loyalty over comfort.
Women who are widowed, divorced, betrayed, or starting new lives in unfamiliar worlds can find hope in Ruth's story. God writes redemption stories out of broken soil. Ruth did not fall because God was within her.
Wisdom for Single Women and Dating
Erika addressed single women and those navigating the dating world, which she described as a "total circus" based on stories from friends. She declared that singleness is not a disease—it's a stewardship. Women were never meant to audition for their own worth. They are not backup plans, placeholders, or maybes. They are definitely not someone's emotional experiment.
If a man won't pray with you, lead you, honor your purity, or envision a future serving God together, let him go. You're not losing a man; you're shedding a distraction. A godly man is not looking for a woman who fits into culture but one who will kneel before Christ.
Marriage is a beautiful calling, but so is becoming a whole and healed woman who doesn't need a man to complete her because she's already complete in Christ. Wait until you are complete in Christ before seeking someone to complete you.
Hannah: Wrestling with Waiting and Surrender
For women wrestling with waiting and the surrender season, Erika offered Hannah as a blueprint. Hannah's pain was private. Her womb was closed, but her heart was open. Her battle was the quiet ache of unanswered prayer and misunderstood grief.
Hannah echoes the prayers of those praying for healing, children, or purpose—when the silence feels louder than the answer. God treasures the tears of the surrendered. Erika offered special encouragement to women dealing with infertility, noting that the matriarchs also dealt with it: Sarah laughed in unbelief and God gave her Isaac; Rachel wept with bitter longing and God gave her Joseph; Hannah poured out her soul and God blessed her; Elizabeth conceived in old age.
God opens wombs. Keep praying. Don't despise the waiting. Don't mistake silence for absence. God sees all unseen acts of obedience and will weave them together for something greater than you can imagine. What God builds in the dark, He unveils in glory—in His time, not yours. Hannah did not fall because God was within her.
Mary: Carrying What Others Don't Understand
For women called to carry what others don't understand, Erika pointed to Mary, the mother of Jesus. Mary bore the greatest assignment in human history and the greatest scrutiny. Her battle was not only spiritual but social. Vulnerable and young, she said yes anyway, accepting the weighty task of motherhood to the Savior.
Mary's obedience speaks to women with invisible callings that no one understands—motherhood that no one values, purity that no one respects, obedience that costs popularity. You don't need the world's approval when you have heaven's assignment. Mary did not fall because God was within her.
Divine Preparation in the Waiting
While battles rage and women go through various forms of spiritual warfare within their families, friends, and spheres of life, Erika reminded them that what feels like delay is often divine preparation. What feels like stagnation is actually sanctification. It's powerful to shift patterns from "I have to" to "I get to."
The hidden years, the years of uncertainty, the battlefield of silent faithfulness—these are never wasted. They're a refining fire, chiseling your soul so you can carry the weight of the calling God has for you. One day you'll look back and understand why certain things had to fall away, why that guy was a distraction, and how it all led to the life you always wanted. You just have to trust.
While trusting, don't grow dull. Agreement without action is disobedience. The enemy disguises bondage as empowerment. Revival won't come through louder politicians or more influencers. Revival will come through the living rooms of mothers praying with and over their children, loving their husbands. It will come through college campuses where students like Esther let their voices echo through halls even when told not to. It will come through quiet prayers and bold actions of unshakable devotion to Jesus Christ.
Welcome to the Spiritual War
Erika welcomed the audience to the spiritual war. Put on the armor. Stand your post. Be a woman of the word. When you feel isolated or unseen, go back to the blueprint—Ruth, Deborah, Hannah, Esther, Mary. Fix your eyes on Christ because this is not for the faint of heart. This is not for "Coachella Christianity" where people go with the wind of whatever the Christian flow is. This is for women who fix their eyes on the Lord and speak truth in love.
Women are not dainty decorations. They are weapons in the hand of Almighty God. Though the biblical women lived in different times and cultures with contexts that may be hard to relate to, what is relatable is that they said yes when they didn't see the full picture. They had no idea how history would write out their yes, but heaven knew exactly what would happen.
A Mission to Confuse the Culture
Erika urged women not to worry about school or jobs, suggesting that obsession with career is a form of feminism designed to distract. The enemy wants women anxious, on anti-depressants, numb, and unable to feel. She wanted to release women from that anxiety.
Her mission for everyone leaving Young Women's Leadership Summit: confuse the culture. Don't conform to it. Let them stare. Let them write mean Instagram comments. Let them wonder. Let them whisper. While they make noise, build your family. Raise a family. Build a life of holy defiance. Love your husband. Love your babies. Teach your children to blaze a trail of glory. Lead in truth. Be the light. There's no time for their noise. Don't seek their applause—it's not worth it. Fulfill your purpose because you just need Jesus.
While the world is watching, heaven is cheering you on. Just like the women before you in the biblical blueprint, God is within you and you will not fail.
Nothing is by Coincidence
Erika closed by encouraging women to pour into each other over the weekend and get everything they can from the experience. She reminded them that they're sitting in their exact chair for a reason, next to the person they're meant to sit next to. Nothing is by mistake.
She shared a personal story from her first trip to Israel with her mother on a pilgrimage. While standing in a ticket line, she noticed a guy behind her in the snake of the line who looked very familiar. Her mother suggested she say hi, but Erika refused, thinking it would be weird and they were late for their flight. That man turned out to be Charlie Kirk. They didn't realize until three months into their relationship that they'd both been in Israel at the same time, confirmed by time stamps. Nothing is by coincidence when God is within you.
Erika blessed the audience and sent them out to blaze a trail of glory.
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[00:23] Hello. Love you. You guys look so
[00:26] beautiful. Young Women's is always my
[00:28] favorite. It's very special in my heart.
[00:31] First, I have to do a shout out to my
[00:32] daughter because she's watching. Baby
[00:34] Buff Buff is here. He's safe. She gave
[00:38] it to She always gives me something
[00:39] before a speech. Last time it was a
[00:42] flower. It's always a thing. Baby Buff
[00:44] Buff this time is in the house, so I'll
[00:46] just place him right here to just guard.
[00:49] I think he's a bobcat, so we'll just go
[00:52] with it. But 10 years, you guys,
[00:57] that's unbelievable. I'm so proud of my
[01:00] husband. I mean, I'm obsessed with my
[01:02] husband. I love him deeply. But he has
[01:04] an amazing team. He does. And it it
[01:07] takes a village. And everyone that's
[01:09] backstage, everyone that you've met in
[01:11] registration, everyone that you meet in
[01:14] the exhibit halls, it's it's a team.
[01:17] It's a family. But thank you guys for
[01:20] still showing up every 10 years. And
[01:22] it's been an interesting 10 years. Think
[01:24] about how much has happened in 10 years.
[01:26] You have different presidents. You have
[01:28] different culture war issues going on.
[01:31] People used to know who a woman was or
[01:33] what a woman was and now you don't. Like
[01:35] it's really it's like a you a wave that
[01:37] we're going through. But it's
[01:38] interesting because the enemy is having
[01:40] a total heyday with how everything is
[01:42] going right now. And the it's so all
[01:46] that to say, thank you guys for being
[01:47] here. Cheers to 10 more years after this
[01:51] and 10 more years even further than
[01:53] that. Um, but again, the Lord is
[01:56] definitely not caught off guard in
[01:59] what's happening in this world right now
[02:02] and in our nation. And neither should we
[02:05] be. We should we should not. And being a
[02:08] mom in this time and during this 2025
[02:13] era, if you will, puts a lot into
[02:15] perspective because when I look at my
[02:18] kids, especially my daughter, because
[02:21] she's older now, you you realize that
[02:26] you're raising these children that are
[02:28] meant to be in this time in this time
[02:32] period. So many people have said before
[02:34] and I've mentioned this before
[02:35] previously that you know some people are
[02:38] like oh well years past I would have
[02:40] loved to have lived in XYZ generation.
[02:43] I'm so grateful we're in this
[02:45] generation. I'm so grateful we're in
[02:47] this day and age cuz we get to fight
[02:51] metaphorically but we get to fight in
[02:53] the spiritual battle and we get to see
[02:56] things happening that are just in ultra
[02:59] speed. And again, being a mom seeing
[03:03] this, I love being able to tell my
[03:05] daughter that you are made, fashioned,
[03:07] and appointed for this time. You are not
[03:11] in the wrong time, the wrong place.
[03:13] You're exactly where you have to be. And
[03:15] the spiritual battle is,
[03:19] I know you guys feel it. It is so deep
[03:21] in the soul. You can just you can walk
[03:25] into a room and feel the enemy.
[03:29] It's it's a wild time right now. And the
[03:34] battleground is for your heart. It's for
[03:36] your home. It's for your future. And the
[03:39] enemy is is very cunning. But his
[03:42] mission is very simple. He wants to
[03:44] steal your joy. He wants to kill your
[03:47] peace. And he wants to destroy your
[03:49] legacy. But God gives you very strategic
[03:52] weapons. He gives you prayer. He gives
[03:54] you scripture. He gives you obedience.
[03:57] He gives you submission and holiness.
[04:00] But our life is a battlefield. And our
[04:02] faith even more so. And the enemy's main
[04:06] goal
[04:07] is to disconnect you. It's to isolate
[04:11] you from your relationship with the Lord
[04:14] and put something in the middle of it.
[04:16] Whether that's you thinking that you're
[04:18] not good enough, whether that's any type
[04:21] of disconnection you could even think
[04:24] of, but all of us need to remember not
[04:27] to mistake God's silence for his absence
[04:32] and really know that yes, we are all
[04:36] going through a unique battle right now.
[04:39] We are all in our own battlefield,
[04:42] separate but also together. And I think
[04:46] the call for all of us right now is very
[04:49] universal.
[04:50] And I've really prayed on this and I and
[04:52] I see it in Technicolor with how
[04:55] different waves of things that are
[04:58] happening in culture and in society, but
[05:00] then also seeing it through the the eyes
[05:03] of my child is we our call is for a
[05:07] revival of biblical womanhood.
[05:10] And that is something that is so
[05:12] important right now. And as I teach my
[05:14] daughter,
[05:17] it's again, I know it's so simple, but
[05:20] when you really go down a rabbit hole
[05:22] with it, as a woman raising a daughter,
[05:26] raising another young raising a woman,
[05:28] raising a young woman, raising a woman
[05:30] in society,
[05:32] you you are you're looking at womanhood
[05:35] from the standpoint of how do I explain
[05:37] to a two-year-old what womanhood is? I
[05:41] can have her obviously see how my
[05:43] actions are, but I'm not gonna give her
[05:46] a phone and say, "Look at this
[05:47] influencer who's a homemaker that's
[05:50] making sourdough bread and is having
[05:52] like, you know, selling shampoo and all
[05:55] these things." Like, that's I can't show
[05:56] that to her because she doesn't get
[05:58] that. She watches Bob Ross and Charlie.
[06:00] Those are like her two things. So, it's
[06:02] like, but
[06:05] for me, it was like, okay, who are the
[06:08] people that I can have her kind of look
[06:10] to as a blueprint? And for me, again,
[06:13] it's biblical womanhood. It's
[06:17] realizing like I want to raise my
[06:19] daughter
[06:21] to be the type of woman
[06:24] that is literally a a little warrior. I
[06:28] don't want to raise a weak a weak woman.
[06:30] I want to raise a little warrior who
[06:33] wears modesty like armor, carries truth
[06:37] like a torch and conviction like a
[06:40] crown. Because the devil fears a woman
[06:43] who is anchored in Christ. He cannot buy
[06:46] her. He cannot sway her. He cannot
[06:48] distract her. That's what I want my
[06:51] daughter to be like. That's what I want.
[06:55] And so as I'm to me, and I'll get into
[07:00] this further, the nursery and my
[07:02] daughter's room, my son's room, that's
[07:04] like a sanctuary to me. Being able to
[07:07] pray over them, pray with them, hear my
[07:09] daughter sing Jesus loves me on repeat,
[07:11] like that is that's everything to me.
[07:15] And I want her to be able to see
[07:19] and hear the stories of women who were
[07:22] anchored by the strength of the Lord.
[07:25] And I know that, you know, previous
[07:29] speaker was talking about Esther and and
[07:31] I'm going to I'm going to follow suit in
[07:33] that because it's important. I I feel
[07:36] like we need to look at these women as a
[07:38] blueprint. So for who? Raise your hand
[07:42] if you're a student in college or in
[07:44] high school. Okay, good. Great. It's
[07:48] important because I feel that for women
[07:51] that are called to courage in a culture
[07:53] of fear,
[07:55] that's when Esther enters the chat for
[07:57] that one. Because Esther's battle was
[08:00] not fought with swords. It was silent
[08:04] obedience.
[08:06] She stepped into the royal halls, not by
[08:09] accident, but by divine appointment.
[08:12] And she stood between death and
[08:14] deliverance in a palace that was not
[08:16] built for her voice.
[08:19] But she spoke anyway.
[08:21] You don't need to be masculine to be
[08:23] strong, and you don't need to be loud to
[08:26] be heard.
[08:29] a woman under authority.
[08:32] When you are a woman under authority,
[08:34] you get to see how God uses your life in
[08:38] such a powerful, beautiful way. And if
[08:42] you feel like in college you're in your
[08:44] Esther era from the standpoint of you
[08:47] feel like you can't say the things you
[08:49] want to say,
[08:51] remember that your degree fades.
[08:54] It's a piece of paper. Your knowledge of
[08:56] everything that you gained is always
[08:59] going to be with you. But your degree
[09:00] fades, but your godliness does not.
[09:04] The opinions of your professors, they
[09:06] won't outlive you.
[09:09] They're going to come and go, but your
[09:11] faithfulness
[09:13] that will stay with you. If you stand
[09:16] for Christ, do it boldly even when
[09:18] you're alone. And let your conduct
[09:21] preach
[09:23] even when you're silenced. and be found
[09:26] faithful. Because although culture is
[09:28] saying you're not doing enough, culture
[09:31] is saying you need to own a business by
[09:33] the time you're 23. You need to go viral
[09:36] for this on Instagram. You're falling
[09:38] behind. Whenever you feel that, I want
[09:41] you to say out loud, I don't care if
[09:43] you're looking at a mirror. I don't care
[09:44] if you're writing it down. I want you to
[09:46] say, "I am not behind. I am becoming."
[09:49] Do not feel like you're running out of
[09:51] time. The enemy loves to make you feel
[09:53] like you're running out of time, but you
[09:54] can always have a career. It is not
[09:57] going anywhere. LLC's will always be
[10:01] able to be created. There is a
[10:03] government institution for that. Like,
[10:06] it's not going away. You will always be
[10:07] able to create your own company. But
[10:09] children, family, your husband,
[10:12] marriages, that is not a renewable
[10:15] resource.
[10:17] That is not Don't delay the eternal for
[10:21] temporary and do not sacrifice the
[10:24] sacred for the secular. It is not worth
[10:26] it.
[10:33] And I know some of you especially the
[10:35] students are not even thinking about
[10:38] husband, kid, life like that. I get it.
[10:42] Trust me. I was wired at a very young
[10:45] age because I was raised by a single
[10:48] mom. Never let never let yourself be in
[10:51] a position where you can't support
[10:52] yourself and don't rely on a man. Those
[10:55] that was ingrained in me. So before I
[10:58] met Charlie, I was not on the path of I
[11:02] want to have six kids and a white picket
[11:05] house fence. That was not my mindset.
[11:08] But this is how amazing God is. When you
[11:10] meet the right man,
[11:13] everything shifts. Everything changes.
[11:16] When I met Charlie,
[11:19] that was it. I could care less about the
[11:21] career. It was
[11:24] it was a beautiful moment. And I that's
[11:27] why I just want to plant the seed of
[11:29] encouragement because motherhood is it's
[11:31] not a pause. A lot of people think it's
[11:33] a pause in your life. It's a launch pad.
[11:36] It's not something where you feel like,
[11:38] you know, you wasted your degree. You're
[11:41] not wasting a degree when you're raising
[11:43] your children with wisdom, love, and
[11:45] truth. That's that's not wasting a
[11:48] degree at all.
[11:55] And being a mother is incredible. And I
[11:57] know you guys, some of you aren't there
[11:59] yet, but it's amazing. It is so special
[12:02] to be able to see the world through your
[12:05] baby's eyes all over again and to
[12:08] relearn things that you kind of forgot
[12:10] and just be able to see that
[12:13] again the nursery is sacred.
[12:16] Mothers are culture shapers. They're
[12:18] legacy builders and no government can
[12:21] outgo a righteous mother and no platform
[12:26] can match the prayers
[12:28] of a righteous mother. you just it'll
[12:32] never match up.
[12:34] And I never want you to think that when
[12:38] you have a family
[12:40] that that makes you in a position where
[12:44] you you can't be what God has called you
[12:47] to be. It's the exact opposite. When you
[12:50] become a mother, that is what God has
[12:52] called you to be.
[12:55] Don't
[12:57] I know a lot of you do want a career and
[12:59] I respect that because I do still have
[13:00] my own, you know, my my Bible ministry,
[13:04] but hold it into perspective. I don't
[13:06] want you to be chasing a paycheck and a
[13:10] title and a corner office and sacrifice
[13:14] such a short window that you have in in
[13:19] this time period. So just hold that in
[13:21] your heart because if you build your
[13:23] family, you raise your children, then
[13:25] you can create your platform with a
[13:30] tender heart and not in the furnace of
[13:33] exhaustion.
[13:35] It's it's a special perspective.
[13:38] And so Esther's position, if you're in
[13:41] the boardroom, if you're in the schools
[13:43] or social sphere and you have it on your
[13:45] heart, if I speak, will I lose
[13:48] everything? Esther reminds you that God
[13:50] has placed you in those holes for a
[13:53] reason and your voice was meant to echo
[13:56] in those holes. So speak
[14:00] truth because Esther did not fall. God
[14:03] was within her. And for the women that
[14:06] are called to lead during a time of
[14:08] devastation, you have Deborah to look
[14:11] towards for that blueprint. Deborah led
[14:14] when men around her wavered. She judged.
[14:17] She prophesied. She marched when others
[14:20] stalled. And her battle was to lead
[14:23] boldly in a generation that had
[14:24] forgotten how.
[14:26] This is relative to women who carry the
[14:29] burdens in her home, in her ministry, in
[14:31] her workplace when others won't step up,
[14:34] bearing the responsibilities that others
[14:36] have abandoned. But like Deborah, your
[14:39] strength does not come from yourself.
[14:41] Your strength comes from God who goes
[14:43] before you. So remember that because
[14:45] Deborah did not fall. God was within
[14:48] her.
[14:50] For women who are starting over
[14:53] in unknown fields of life,
[14:56] Ruth is your girl.
[14:59] Read read the book of Ruth. Ruth buried
[15:02] her past and followed Naomi into foreign
[15:04] soil. She had no husband. She had no
[15:06] title. She had no plan.
[15:09] and her battle was the ache of
[15:11] rebuilding a life with no guarantee.
[15:15] She chose loyalty
[15:17] over comfort.
[15:20] And you might be a woman who stands in
[15:21] that same field. You might be widowed.
[15:24] You might be divorced, betrayed, or
[15:26] starting a whole new life in a world
[15:28] that is very unfamiliar. But Ruth's life
[15:31] whispers, "God
[15:34] writes redemption stories out of broken
[15:36] soil."
[15:38] And I want to speak to this for a second
[15:40] because I know that after a breakup or
[15:43] even to the single women in this room,
[15:46] singleness is not a disease.
[15:50] It's a stewardship. It's not a disease.
[15:53] And I know I've heard horror stories
[15:54] because my friends have told me horror
[15:56] stories of dating right now and how it's
[15:58] a total circus.
[16:00] Um, but hear me when I say this. You
[16:03] were never meant to audition for your
[16:06] own worth.
[16:09] Never.
[16:13] You are not a backup plan.
[16:16] You are not a placeholder. And you are
[16:19] not a maybe. You are definitely not
[16:22] someone's emotional experiment. If he
[16:26] won't pray with you, if he won't lead
[16:29] you, if he won't honor your purity or
[16:32] envision a future of serving God
[16:34] together, let him go.
[16:37] Let him go.
[16:42] You are not losing a man. You are
[16:45] shedding a distraction.
[16:47] Let him go.
[16:50] So if you are in this Ruth season, don't
[16:53] waste it. Don't despise it. Use it to
[16:57] strengthen your roots, to know the Lord
[17:00] more deeply, and to pray and prepare for
[17:02] the upcoming season. Because a godly man
[17:05] is not looking for a woman who fits into
[17:07] culture. He's looking for a woman who
[17:09] will kneel before Christ. That is what a
[17:11] godly man is looking for.
[17:15] And marriage is a beautiful calling. But
[17:20] but
[17:22] so is becoming a whole and healed woman
[17:25] who doesn't need a man to complete her
[17:27] because she's already completed
[17:29] by Christ in Christ. Remember that.
[17:34] before you try to seek someone out to
[17:35] complete you.
[17:38] Wait until you are already complete in
[17:40] Christ.
[17:42] Ruth did not fall. God was within her.
[17:47] For the women who are wrestling with the
[17:49] waiting and the surrender season, that's
[17:53] Hannah.
[17:55] Hannah's pain was private.
[17:57] Her womb was closed, but her heart was
[17:59] open.
[18:01] And her battle was the quiet ache of
[18:03] unanswered prayer and misunderstood
[18:05] grief. And for those of you in this
[18:07] battlefield, Hannah echoes your prayers.
[18:11] If you're praying for healing, you're
[18:12] praying for children, purpose,
[18:15] and sometimes the silence feels louder
[18:17] than the answer. But like Hannah, you
[18:20] learn
[18:22] God treasures the tears of the
[18:23] surrendered.
[18:26] And so I just want to say an
[18:28] encouragement to the women who are
[18:30] dealing with any form of infertility or
[18:33] the waiting season for having a family.
[18:37] The matriarchs, they also dealt with
[18:39] infertility.
[18:41] You have Sarah who laughed in unbelief
[18:44] and God still gave her Isaac. You have
[18:47] Rachel who wept with bitter longing and
[18:49] God gave her Joseph. You have Hannah who
[18:51] poured out her her heart and her soul
[18:53] and God didn't forgive her. And you have
[18:55] Elizabeth who conceived in her old age.
[18:57] God opens wombs. Remember that
[19:01] he opens wombs. So just wait for him.
[19:05] Keep praying. Don't despise the waiting.
[19:08] And don't mistake again the silence for
[19:10] absence because God is near even now.
[19:14] And he will see all of your unseen acts
[19:18] of obedience. and he'll weave it all
[19:20] together for something so special and so
[19:23] great, something greater than you could
[19:25] ever imagine.
[19:27] And so what God builds in the dark, he
[19:29] always unveils in glory. And he he does
[19:33] it at his time, not yours, which is
[19:36] tough. That's not always fun. Does it on
[19:39] his time, but Hannah did not fall. God
[19:42] was within her. And then we have Mary,
[19:46] the mother of Jesus.
[19:48] For the women called to carry what
[19:50] others don't understand,
[19:53] that's Mary.
[19:55] Mary bore the greatest assignment in
[19:57] human history and the greatest scrutiny.
[20:00] Her battle was not only spiritual, it
[20:02] was social. Vulnerable and young, she
[20:05] said yes. Anyways, she accepted the
[20:07] weighty task of the motherhood of to our
[20:10] savior. And Mary's obedience speaks
[20:12] volumes because you might be dealing
[20:14] with an in invisible calling to that no
[20:17] one no one gets, no one understands. The
[20:20] motherhood that no one values, the
[20:22] purity that no one respects, and the
[20:24] obedience that costs you popularity.
[20:27] But Mary reminds you, you don't need the
[20:29] world's approval when you have heaven's
[20:31] assignment.
[20:34] Mary, the mother of Jesus, did not fall.
[20:37] God was within her. And so while the
[20:39] battle rages, while all of you guys are
[20:41] going through your own form of spiritual
[20:42] warfare within your family, your
[20:43] friends, your sphere of life, if you
[20:46] will, uh what feels like a delay is
[20:48] often divine preparation. So just hold
[20:51] on to that because it could feel like
[20:53] stagnation,
[20:55] change it in your mind to
[20:57] sanctification.
[20:58] Two totally different mindsets.
[21:01] I have to to I get to. It's powerful
[21:05] when you shift
[21:07] those patterns. The hidden years, the
[21:10] years of uncertainty in the battlefield
[21:12] of silent faithfulness, they're never
[21:13] wasted. They're a refining fire,
[21:17] chiseling your soul so that you can
[21:19] carry the weight of the calling that God
[21:21] has for you. And one day you'll look
[21:23] back on the season, you'll be like, I
[21:24] get it now. I see why I had to let that
[21:26] go, that guy go. He was the distraction.
[21:28] I'm married to this guy. I have amazing
[21:30] babies. I have the life that I've always
[21:32] wanted. You just have to trust.
[21:35] You have to trust.
[21:38] And while you're trusting, don't grow
[21:39] dull. Agreement without action is is
[21:42] disobedience. And the enemy disguises
[21:45] bondage as empowerment. So resist
[21:48] deception.
[21:50] Revival is not going to come through
[21:52] louder politicians and
[21:55] other and more influencers.
[21:58] It's just not. Revival is going to come
[22:00] through the living rooms of mothers who
[22:03] are praying with their children, praying
[22:05] over their children, loving on their
[22:07] husbands. It's going to come through
[22:09] college campuses of the you ladies that
[22:11] are students that are going to be like
[22:13] Esther. You're going to let your voice
[22:15] echo through those halls, even when they
[22:17] tell you not to. That's what you're
[22:19] going to do. And it's going to come
[22:21] through quiet prayers and bold actions
[22:24] of unshakable devotion to Jesus Christ.
[22:27] That's how revival is going to happen.
[22:30] So, I'm here to say welcome to the
[22:32] spiritual war. If you're not aware of
[22:35] it, put on the armor. Stand your post.
[22:38] You're a woman of the word. And when you
[22:41] feel isolated or unseen, go back to that
[22:43] blueprint.
[22:44] Ruth, Deborah, Hannah, Esther, Mother
[22:48] Mary, any of them. Go back to the
[22:50] blueprint. Fix your eyes on Christ
[22:54] because this is not for the faint of
[22:56] hearts. This spiritual battle,
[23:00] it's not also for Coachella Christianity
[23:02] where people are like, I'm just going to
[23:03] go with the wind of whatever the
[23:06] Christian flow is. Don't. No, no, no.
[23:08] This is for someone who is fixing their
[23:11] eyes on the Lord, who speaks truth and
[23:14] love because you are not some dainty
[23:16] decoration.
[23:17] You are a weapon in the hand of Almighty
[23:20] God.
[23:21] [Applause]
[23:27] And yes, these women that I talked
[23:28] about, they were in different times.
[23:30] They were in different cultures. They
[23:31] were, you know, you can't really relate
[23:33] always to their context. But what you
[23:36] can relate to is that they said yes when
[23:39] they didn't see the full picture. They
[23:42] had no idea how history was going to
[23:43] write out their yes
[23:46] when they said yes to God. But heaven
[23:48] did. Heaven knew exactly what was going
[23:51] to happen. So, I want you to take heart.
[23:55] Don't worry about the school. Don't
[23:57] worry about the job. I actually think
[24:00] that that's some form of feminism to be
[24:03] so caught up in I have to have this
[24:06] career and I have to have this and I
[24:07] have to that. It just is it's a
[24:09] distraction.
[24:11] The enemy loves that. But it's a total
[24:13] distraction. I think that that anxiety
[24:16] is what feminism is all about for what
[24:19] they want. They want you to be anxious.
[24:21] They want you to be on anti-depressants.
[24:26] They want you to be numb.
[24:29] They want they don't want you to feel.
[24:32] They don't want you to feel. So, I want
[24:34] to release you from that. Don't shrink
[24:36] back. This world and this generation
[24:39] needs women who echo the gospel.
[24:42] This world needs women who are marked by
[24:44] the cross.
[24:46] So my mission for all of you after you
[24:50] leave here,
[24:52] please
[24:54] go confuse the culture.
[24:57] Confuse the crap out of it. I don't even
[24:59] know if I'm allowed to say that, but
[25:00] confuse them. Go and confuse them. Do
[25:03] not conform to it. Let them stare at
[25:06] you. Let them write the meanest
[25:08] Instagram comments.
[25:11] Let them wander. Let them whisper. And
[25:13] while they're doing all of that, because
[25:15] that's just noise.
[25:17] Build your family.
[25:19] Go raise a family.
[25:22] Go build a life of holy defiance. Go
[25:25] love your husband. Go love your babies.
[25:28] Go teach your children how to blaze a
[25:31] trail of glory.
[25:33] Go lead in truth and go be the light.
[25:36] You don't have time for their noise.
[25:37] Don't seek their applause. It's not even
[25:39] worth it. Not even worth it. Go f go
[25:43] fulfill your purpose because you just
[25:45] need Jesus.
[25:46] It's all you need.
[25:49] So while the world is watching, heaven's
[25:51] cheering for you,
[25:54] cheering you on
[25:56] because just like the women before you,
[25:59] that blueprint, God is within you and
[26:03] you will not fail.
[26:06] You guys are so loved. I'm so proud of
[26:09] you. Pour into each other this weekend.
[26:12] Get everything you can out of this
[26:14] weekend. You're sitting in that chair
[26:16] for a reason.
[26:18] That exact chair,
[26:21] that person that's sitting right next to
[26:22] you was meant to sit right next to you.
[26:29] I'm not telling you to have figure out
[26:30] why,
[26:33] but just know that nothing is by
[26:35] mistake.
[26:37] nothing.
[26:39] I will never forget the time I was in
[26:41] Israel with my hus well not with that
[26:42] was the second time but the first time
[26:44] with my mother on a pilgrimage
[26:46] and I was standing in the ticket line
[26:49] and I remember looking behind me and in
[26:52] the snake of the ticket line was a guy
[26:54] who looked very familiar. I had no idea
[26:56] who he was and I told my mom, "This guy
[26:59] looks so familiar." And as a typical
[27:01] mother, she said go and say hi.
[27:04] No, we were late for our flight and I'm
[27:07] not going to come off like a crazy
[27:09] person with a That's just weird.
[27:12] That ended up being Charlie.
[27:17] Nothing is by coincidence. Now, did I
[27:19] did we know that that No, not until we
[27:21] were like 3 months into our relationship
[27:23] and looking at time stamps seeing that
[27:24] both of us were in Israel at the same
[27:26] time.
[27:28] But nothing is by coincidence
[27:31] when God is within you. Okay?
[27:34] See you guys go blaze a trail. Okay, God
[27:37] bless you all.
[27:46] [Music]
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