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Bill O'Reilly Reveals the Real Donald Trump After 35 Years of Friendship and Conflict

Bill O'Reilly has known Donald Trump for 35 years, interviewed him dozens of times, and watched him transform from New York real estate developer to the most powerful man in the world. In this revealing portrait, O'Reilly shares what he's learned about Trump's relentless drive to win, his refusal to admit mistakes, his ability to survive career-ending scandals, and the family dynamics that shaped him. From double dates to ball games to private conversations at Mar-a-Lago, O'Reilly offers an unfiltered look at the showman, dealmaker, and competitor who defied every establishment to achieve the greatest political comeback in American history.

January 23, 2025

The Man Who Lives to Win

Bill O'Reilly has known Donald Trump since the early 1990s. He's interviewed Trump dozens of times, often combatively, and beyond that they've chatted privately, gone to ball games, and even went on a memorable double date. As a journalist, presidential historian, and outspoken political observer, O'Reilly has seen Trump from angles few others have witnessed.

When asked to describe Donald Trump, O'Reilly doesn't hesitate: "Donald Trump is a unique individual for a lot of reasons. Primarily, he's a man who lives to win. He is the most competitive person I have ever encountered. In his mind, the worst thing you can be is a loser."

This drive to win separates Trump from nearly every politician O'Reilly has covered in his career. Trump separates winners from losers, wants to associate with winners, and above all wants to be a winner himself. Everything else flows from this fundamental trait.

From Queens to Manhattan: The Making of a Mogul

Trump's path to becoming a mega-success wasn't guaranteed. He went to Fordham during the turbulent Vietnam era, when everyone dressed like Janis Joplin and Jim Morrison. Trump wore a jacket and tie, walking around campus focused solely on real estate.

Two people emerged in New York at the same time who would shape Trump's vision of success: Joe Namath and Donald Trump himself. O'Reilly explains that Trump admired people who were daring. When Joe Willie won the Super Bowl after predicting victory, he became the biggest star in New York. Every door opened for him, every woman stared. Trump saw that and wanted to be that, but he couldn't be that as an athlete. He could be that in business.

Trump came from a wealthy family in Queens. His father was successful, but his father didn't want to be mega-successful. That clashed with Donald's ambitions. He kept pushing his father for more, more, and more. His father would say they had enough, that they dominated Queens and Brooklyn in real estate and didn't need to go into Manhattan. But Donald Trump, from a very early age, wanted to be a mega success.

At age 33, Trump began construction on the 68-story Trump Tower on Fifth Avenue, helped by a $140 million tax abatement. He dragged his father into buying the Commodore Hotel, which his father thought was a dump. Trump turned it into a big success as a Hyatt, and that started everything.

The Showman Emerges

O'Reilly calls Trump "the ultimate showman," comparing him to Elvis Presley and Michael Jackson. Trump admires larger-than-life figures because he admires the fact that they have the skill set and the courage to go out and present themselves that way and then get enormous positive feedback.

A memorable double date illustrated this perfectly. Trump asked O'Reilly to accompany Marla Maples' college roommate to a Paula Abdul concert. O'Reilly assumed they'd watch from a suite with free food and a decent view. Instead, Trump wanted to walk around the arena. When they went into the concourse, it was bedlam—screaming and yelling. Trump loved it. That's when the light went off for O'Reilly: this guy wants to be a star.

Trump feels he has to entertain his audience as well as put forth his point of view on various issues. That's why he says wild stuff and keeps audiences engaged for an hour or more. Most American press people don't care to understand this about Trump—they just want to put forth a caricature.

The Apprentice was perfect for Trump. He was in charge, making decisions, with everyone trying to please him. It couldn't have been a better venue. He became far more well-known than any other politician in the country, though he wasn't a politician yet. After a while, he got bored with it and decided to up the game again.

The Uncensored Politician

Trump is absolutely not in the same universe as 95% of American politicians. He doesn't think "if I say this, that will happen." He says what he wants and doesn't give a fig about the consequences. That's why he won in 2016.

O'Reilly remembers watching the first Republican debate in August 2015 on Fox. Trump got on stage with eleven other politicians, looked at them, and thought: you're boring, you're a liar. These guys had never heard anything like it. O'Reilly and his crew sat there with their mouths open. It captured the disenchantment of the American people about career politicians and phonies. Trump wiped them out.

Trump never admits he's wrong and never says he's sorry. Don Jr., very loyal to his father, said he has never in his entire life heard his father admit to a mistake. Don Jr. said Trump sees admission of error as a weakness.

But there's a romance of reconciliation with Trump. He can insult people, and when they're willing to come back into the fold and compliment him, he loves having them. Little Marco became Secretary of State Marco Rubio. Little Marco went to Big Marco. What Marco Rubio did, along with Ted Cruz and other Republicans, was surrender.

Everything Is a Deal

Trump's first book was The Art of the Deal. To Trump, everything in politics is a deal. He's transactional and wants to win every transaction. When he feels he's won, it's over, and he can be the most gracious guy in the world.

Trump will say nice things about whoever is giving him what he wants. If he gets what he wants, you'll hear how excellent the president of Panama is, how he's the greatest guy. Most people have pride that prevents them from saying nice things about people they don't like in order to get what they want. Trump doesn't have that limitation.

In New York City, if you want to get something done, you better have the right connections. Trump knew the mob controlled the cement union workers and other construction elements. If the mob didn't like you, they could sabotage your project. Trump sat in rooms with these guys. Is that any different than talking to Putin or Kim Jong-un? O'Reilly points out this is an excellent comparison—Trump will talk with anybody if he can get what he wants out of them.

There are people Trump sincerely loathes, though they are few. He loathes Joe Biden. The reason Trump doesn't like Biden is because he sees Biden as a loser. Trump looks at trade deals and thinks they're insane. He looks at Biden giving Iran unfrozen money to people fostering terrorism and disdains that. In Biden's case, it's personal—Trump thinks Biden is weak, not honest, and doesn't have any use for him at all.

The Survivor

What impresses O'Reilly most about Trump is the simple fact that he's still standing. Nobody could have done what Trump did, taking the vitriol and hatred directed at him. Throughout history, no president except Abraham Lincoln took the hatred that Trump took, and Lincoln was killed because of it. Trump was almost killed. You have to be strong to continue that way. Most people would have folded.

Trump has been through booms and busts. In 1987, during the real estate crash, he doubled down, doubled down again, and finally found his way out. That unwavering never-quit attitude is the same thing that brought him back after losing in 2020 to run again in 2024.

Trump does not live in an introspective world. He doesn't journal, doesn't meditate, doesn't regret. He lives in the moment. If the moment is bad, the next moment he's going to make it good. He's disciplined enough to think about mistakes that hurt him, but he doesn't carry them around as a burden. He puts it aside and keeps going. Trump has an innate ability to survive through almost anything.

After January 6th, many thought Trump might be done. O'Reilly was disappointed that Trump didn't assert himself quickly enough and considers that a mistake. But O'Reilly is clear: if he believed Trump wanted people to invade the Capitol and defile the system, he would never have anything to do with him again. He believes things got out of hand and Trump didn't act quickly enough.

How did we get from that moment to January 20, 2025? Joe Biden was a terrible president who created massive problems—the border, massive inflation. Then we learned his team deceived everybody and the guy was faltering from the beginning. When Trump demolished Biden in the debate last June, it was a shock. Then they replaced Biden with an extremely weak candidate with no frame of reference: Kamala Harris.

America First Values

Trump has a view of the country rooted in nostalgia. He loves the 1950s, loves Dwight Eisenhower, loves traditional America coming off the big win against Japan and Germany. When Trump says "Make America Great Again," he's referring to Leave It to Beaver time—an era that was fairly calm.

Trump's worldview has three parts: First, the country is the strongest and best in the world. Second, it should be run in a traditional way—no woke, no DEI. Third, he believes American dominance is positive for the world. That's values, not politics.

Critics accuse Trump of racism against blacks, Mexicans, Muslims. O'Reilly says it's all garbage, and that gets him angry because that's what the liberal press is selling. Trump has been very generous to African-Americans throughout his history. He loved black athletes. O'Reilly has been around Trump a lot and has never seen or heard him disparage any minority. One of Trump's proudest accomplishments from his first term is that real wages went up for African-Americans faster than other ethnic groups.

On the Muslim issue, Trump analyzed countries where there was no supervision about who was getting visas and passports. He said these countries aren't regulating anything, they have big terrorist populations, so we're not taking anybody. Is that illogical after 9/11? On Mexico, Trump says we can't absorb 14 million foreign nationals unsupervised. Is that irrational? But he gets racism against Mexicans around his neck. O'Reilly calls this pernicious and says it's why the American press is evaporating—Americans know this is blatantly unfair.

The Common Touch

How has Trump the billionaire developer, jet-setter, sports team owner, Mar-a-Lago owning, golfing tycoon convinced the folks that he's with them? Because his tastes mirror theirs. Trump really does like McDonald's. At games, when O'Reilly is with him, Trump wants a milkshake and a cheeseburger, not caviar or escargot. His tastes are Queens.

Trump has what they call the common touch. That's why he went into McDonald's and worked the drive-through. Imagine Kamala Harris at McDonald's at the drive window—there'd be eighteen makeup people. Trump won the election because Americans are suffering when they buy food, fuel, and insurance. They trust Trump to get that under control because it was under control in his first term. It's a simple equation: people vote their wallets.

Trump doesn't care much about uniting the country. He thinks the people who hate him are not worth uniting. But Trump does want to help people who are marginalized—he wants to help all the people. It's not a tribal thing with him. He wants to please his MAGA base, but he doesn't want to exclude anybody. He feels that DEI and people getting hired based on skin color or lifestyle weakens the country. He firmly believes that, so he's against it.

The Family Man

Trump's kids love him. There aren't many men who are twice divorced, have had affairs, and yet their kids worship them. Trump set his children up in a way where they learned a lot. All of his children are super intelligent—Tiffany, the child he had with Marla Maples, is a lawyer. Trump gave them opportunities to use their skills.

In most American families, there's tremendous tension between parents and offspring. But there doesn't seem to be that between President Trump and his children. Trump was omnipresent but not your typical father. The kids loved going to construction sites with him rather than playing t-ball.

O'Reilly stays out of discussing Trump's personal relationships but notes one thing: Trump listens to Melania. When she says something to him, he's got it.

Will there be a Trump dynasty? O'Reilly predicts Donald Trump Jr. will run for office. But as far as a dynasty is concerned, nobody knows. It's a changing landscape in America. The populist Trump has broken down a lot of traditional hierarchy because he's been so successful as an outsider.

The Legacy Question

Trump is very interested in his legacy. He wants to be on Mount Rushmore, and he'll buy another mountain to put himself on it if he has to.

What has to happen for Trump to earn the legacy he wants? He has to fulfill his campaign promises. He's got to stop the madness in immigration. He's got to provide a stimulus to raise wages for working-class Americans—that's why he wants the tariffs. And he has to calm it all down overseas, which he succeeded in doing his first four years. If he does those three things, he'll have a very successful second term.

Trump has beaten the Bushes, the Clintons, the Obamas, the Cheneys, Biden, Harris, the media, the Republican establishment, the Washington establishment, Hollywood, academia, and the Biden Justice Department. It's a staggering rundown of the people he's defeated.

The inauguration of Donald Trump the second time around represents the greatest political comeback in American history. Never before has a president overcome more obstacles than Donald Trump, and some of those obstacles were self-imposed. But never before has a man overcome as much as Trump has overcome.

When O'Reilly was at Mar-a-Lago in early January as Trump prepared to take office for the second time, he witnessed something remarkable. Trump was as clear and authoritative as O'Reilly has ever seen him in 35 years of knowing the man. When Trump was elected in 2016 and took over in 2017, he didn't know what he was doing, and he'll tell you that. He came out of the New York City real estate world into Washington where everybody hated him. The first year was chaos. Now, eight years later, Trump knows. He has the pathway. Trump promises more wins than ever over the next four years.

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