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Connor Boyack challenges the conventional wisdom that college is necessary for success, arguing that the world has fundamentally changed from half a century ago. With college degrees costing tens of thousands of dollars and taking years to pay back, many young adults are being pushed onto a conveyor belt that no longer serves them well. Boyack examines why college has become prohibitively expensive, how universities have transformed into ideological echo chambers rather than centers of free inquiry, and why degrees no longer function as effective signals to employers. He presents alternatives including internships, apprenticeships, boot camps, and building portfolios that demonstrate real competence. While acknowledging that certain professions still require degrees, Boyack encourages parents to have eyes wide open about the true costs and benefits before committing their children to the traditional college path.
The Costly Reality of College Degrees
The first major concern with sending kids to college is the overwhelming financial burden. While community colleges and high school dual enrollment programs offer cheaper alternatives, obtaining a diploma from most universities has become an extremely costly proposition. From a return on investment perspective, parents and students need to calculate how much money must be spent to obtain a degree versus how long it will take to pay back that investment.
Many people spend decades trying to pay back school loans, and some are banking on future rounds of loan forgiveness rather than planning realistic repayment strategies. This is no way to structure finances or investments. For most professions, a degree is not actually necessary, making the massive debt burden even more questionable. The list of professions truly requiring a degree is very small.
Spending all that money to obtain a degree saddles young adults with debt for years to come, minimizing their earnings and investment potential to build wealth. The math simply doesn't add up for most people when comparing degree costs against average salaries in their chosen fields.
From Free Inquiry to Propaganda Centers
Colleges and universities originally served as institutions of free inquiry, challenging people through debate and open investigation of new, emerging, and controversial ideas. Today, that mission has largely reversed. Modern colleges have devolved into institutions of ideological infection where students are bombarded with agenda-driven content from clubs, teachers, and textbooks.
Countless students report feeling that their professors expected a correct answer, that disagreeing with their professor was not allowed, and that only one path of approved ideas existed. Students who tried to answer or argue differently were reprimanded by teachers and shunned by their peers. Across the country, speakers coming to college campuses are being protested and canceled simply because of the views they represent.
These institutions no longer serve the role of open inquiry and debate. Conservative parents especially should be concerned about sending their kids to these left-leaning, highly progressive institutions where students often turn out to be social justice warriors rather than academics and thoughtful individuals who critically think about the world around them. Sending a kid to college unprepared is like sending them into an ideological battlefield without a sword and shield.
The Meaningless Signal Problem
Decades ago, when far fewer people attended college, a college degree served as an effective signal to employers. It indicated that an individual was competent, could follow basic orders, and had a baseline level of knowledge. Employers could sift through resumes and focus on candidates with college degrees as a shortcut to finding qualified applicants.
However, the government and college industry have pushed the narrative that everyone should go to college. High schools now see their mission as preparing students to be college and career ready, creating a conveyor belt into a system that has become massively bloated and inefficient. When everyone is pushed into college on the expectation that everyone needs a degree, many people attend who shouldn't be there.
When everyone has a degree, that degree becomes meaningless. The signal loses its effectiveness when it no longer distinguishes top-level players from others. Companies are increasingly recognizing that degrees are no longer effective signals. Major companies across the country are dropping the requirement to have a college degree.
Google, for example, announced they would treat their own two-month certification course as equal to a four-year college degree. Spend two months in focused study rather than four years, at far less cost, and get your foot in the door at Google. Countless companies are treating other credentials as equal to four-year degrees or dropping the requirement entirely.
Creating Better Signals Through Portfolios
The question becomes: how can young adults create a signal to potential employers that demonstrates their worth without a college degree? There are countless other ways to create signals demonstrating competence, and the best way is through a portfolio.
Young people should find freelance clients to develop skills, work for free if necessary, and point to actual things they've done when approaching future employers. Showing fifteen completed projects for various clients demonstrates capability far better than a degree.
Even better is signaling something specific to a target company. For example, if someone wants a marketing job at a specific company, they should subscribe to that company's email newsletter, follow them on social media, and watch their YouTube videos. Then create a five-page document listing major opportunities for improvement and how they can help. Create sample memes, write a superior email newsletter, and film a simple YouTube video. Send that package to the marketing director showing hustle and company-specific knowledge.
Companies don't care whether applicants have a degree. They care whether candidates can do the work effectively. College degrees are no longer serving as effective signals. Young adults need to understand how to develop specific signals for their chosen career and industry. That's how they will succeed over time, rather than relying on an antiquated college degree that has become just noise.
The Wasted Years Problem
The years when children become young adults are when they can tolerate a significant amount of risk. They can work for free at places where they want to move up the ladder. They can travel and see the world. They can pursue eighteen different apprenticeships and internships to figure out what they really want to do, rather than sitting at a desk for four years assuming they'll be interested in a career they're spending time and money learning about.
Many people find after graduation, after paying all that money and time for a degree, that they don't love that job. Then they do something else entirely and have wasted all that time. When young adults don't have many bills, can live at home a bit longer, or share housing with others to minimize expenses, they can embark on numerous adventures, including professional adventures, to experience life and figure out what they actually want.
Sitting in college for four years, learning from professors who often don't know their subject matters well and have been out of the profession for twenty years, becomes an impediment. Students often graduate and realize they don't really want to pursue that field. Better to expose children to as much of the world as possible through job shadowing, internships, and working for free at different places to experience different professions.
Young adults should try forty-three different things while they have time and can do it cheaply. This helps them better, more quickly, and more affordably find their path in life rather than predicting what it will be four years in the future when signing up for college to pursue a degree in an industry they may not love after all.
A World Full of Opportunities
The world today is vastly different from decades ago. There are trade schools, code camps, boot camps like Praxis that help young adults get jobs without college. There's online learning and entrepreneurial adventures. People can drive for Lyft and Uber or pursue countless other opportunities.
The traditional conveyor belt path of high school to college to job no longer reflects today's reality. Parents must be careful not to project their own experiences onto their children's lives and impose the expectation that they should go to college when the world is abundant and full of opportunities if we just open our eyes and hit the pause button on that conveyor belt.
There are so many opportunities to support young adults in figuring out what they want to do through job accelerators, career fairs, and internships. Remote work opportunities after COVID have expanded possibilities, allowing young people to work with companies all over the place. They can live on a beach in Costa Rica while holding a full-time job for a tech company or whatever they want to do.
Parents should be careful not to project their experience onto their kids and make them think they need to stay on a conveyor belt when the world is much different. We need to prepare children for that world, and the best way to do so is by allowing them to participate in it, experience it, and figure out what they want to do.
A Personal College Regret
Going to college was a regret for Connor Boyack himself. He didn't know any better and was part of the expectation that his parents and others placed on him. He followed the conveyor belt from high school to college, assuming that's what he had to do because everyone told him so.
When Boyack started his career as a web developer, he sat in class being taught by older professors about websites and computers. These professors had learned computers in earlier eras and were themselves trying to keep up with new technology. Meanwhile, Boyack sat in class behind his laptop doing freelance work for clients he was finding online.
Because of those client projects, he was incentivized to learn new things. Clients had expectations and wanted things done for their websites that he didn't know how to do. So he sat in class Googling and learning how to do these things to complete client projects while being taught by professors how to do things that were two months behind what he was already learning himself.
He started accelerating because he sat in class with the incentive to learn himself when he didn't really need that class. That thought never came to mind until after graduating college, when he looked back and questioned why he even needed that degree. His first full-time job out of college didn't care about his degree at all. They handed him a worksheet and asked if he could solve the problems. When he did, they said he was hired.
They wanted to know if he knew how to do the work and had the basic knowledge necessary. Knowledge is abundant on the internet. Anyone can learn all kinds of skills for free and acquire basic competency in numerous industries without a paper certificate, without tens of thousands of dollars of debt, and without four wasted years.
Skip College, But Keep Eyes Wide Open
While some professions make college important or necessary, the argument is not necessarily that everyone should skip college. It's that everyone needs to have eyes wide open about the experience. If someone must go for their chosen career or wants to go for various other reasons, that's fine, but they should understand it will cost a lot of money. They should understand they're spending, if not wasting, their highest risk, greatest reward years. They should understand they'll be subject to all kinds of propaganda and ideas and will just have to go through that. As long as they have eyes wide open, they'll do fine.
For most people, rather than going through it and sucking it up and toughing it out, they should just skip it entirely. There are so many opportunities to help young adults do that. Learning is amazing, and this message is not meant to suggest that higher education or more education is awful. Education is amazing. We should always be students in whatever career we choose.
Education looks so much different than it did centuries and decades ago. Generally speaking, people don't need to go to college to acquire knowledge. It's almost entirely free online for the taking, and there are so many opportunities for young people.
Parents should make sure they're not projecting their experience onto their kids. They should expose children to all the opportunities outside that conveyor belt and give them permission and support to explore the world, even if that's just taking a gap year to have some experiences and pursue adventures and internships before potentially returning to college with eyes wide open and better understanding.
Young adults may find they can earn great money without paying back school debt and immediately get into the job field. Four years later, they've worked their way up the management chain with raises and promotions, while their age peers who went to college are now starting at the bottom with tons of school debt to pay. Young adults who skip college can go further faster, unshackled from that debt and those four wasted years.
It's a different world, and parents need to understand that and support their kids in participating in that world. While we should love and support education, we shouldn't necessarily push kids down the conveyor belt of college because there are many reasons why that's a bad idea.
Video Transcript
I'm Connor boyak and this is five
reasons not to send your kid to college
there's been a lot of chatter in the
Press recently about school debt
bailouts school loan forgiveness that
it's too costly there's a lot of people
who want free college we have this
societal expectation that college is
necessary certainly the colleges love to
maintain that expectation because they
profit a lot from it but that's not true
we're in a different world today and
what was half a century ago is no longer
today and yet so many of us as parents
grew up in that environment where there
was that cultural expectation already
we're now passing it over to our kids
unnecessarily because the world has
changed and no longer is a degree really
necessary to succeed in life so today I
want to talk about five reasons why
maybe you should not send your kid to
college reason number one why not to
send your kid to college it costs too
much and yeah there's Community College
and there's cheaper ways of doing things
there's also those awesome kids who even
in high school are taking college
classes to kind of accelerate things but
gen generally speaking obtaining a
diploma is a very costly proposition
especially at most universities across
the country so even from an Roi
perspective if you look at how much
money you have to spend to obtain that
degree and then for whatever degree you
choose how long it's going to take you
to pay back there are people who are
spending decades trying to pay back
school loans perhaps a lot of people are
now just going to be hoping that you
know another president's going to come
along and do another round of school
loan forgiveness and just Bank on that
but you shouldn't Bank on that that's no
way to structure your investment your
finances on the hope that someone else
will wash your debt Away We Should Have
Eyes Wide Open about what the costs are
versus the benefits and recognize and do
the math okay for this degree this is
how much it pays on average this is how
long it's going to take me to pay back
degrees are extremely expensive and
while for certain professions a degree
might be necessary that list of
professions is very very small for most
people you don't need a degree there are
ways to enter that profession without a
degree and so to spend all the money
money to go obtain the degree is going
to saddle you with a lot of debt for a
long time to come and minimize your
earnings and your investment potential
to build wealth in later years and so we
have to look at it first from an Roi
perspective and say does going to
college make Financial sense and
increasingly it does not reason number
two to not send your kid to college is
they're becoming propaganda centers
colleges universities originally were
institutions of free inquiry of
challenging people in debate in you know
open investigation of new and emerging
and controversial ideas that's largely
the opposite of what colleges have
devolved into today today colleges are
these institutions of ideological
infection where parents send their kids
there in hopes of a you know good
outcome and the kids are just bombarded
with all this kind of crazy garbage from
the clubs and the teachers and the
textbooks and everything that's done
there that is pushing an agenda on these
kids I can't tell you how many people I
have talked to who went to college and
felt like their professors expected a
correct answer that they could not
disappear agree with their Professor
that open debate and difference of
opinion was not allowed but that there
was only one path of approved ideas and
that if students in these cases I'm
familiar with tried to answer or argue
differently they were reprimanded by the
teacher and they were shunned by their
peers right we see across the country
how different speakers coming to college
campuses are being protested and
canceled simply because of the views
that they represent these institutions
no longer are serving that role of open
inquiry and debate we need to look
elsewhere for that and there are
institutions and organizations where we
can kind of have access to that open
inquiry but it's no longer the
universities and so if you for example
are a conservative parent right you
should be very concerned about sending
your kids to college because these are
left-leaning highly Progressive
institutions where kids are turning out
to be social justice Warriors you know
rather than academics and thoughtful
individuals who are you know critically
thinking about the world around them so
that's the second reason and this is
becoming an Ever bigger reason why not
to go to college even if it makes
Financial sense even if there's other
reasons to you got to recognize that
sending your kid there is like sending
them into an ideological battle and if
your kid is not prepared with a sword
and a shield right they're gonna be very
vulnerable to being exposed to what's
happening on that Battlefield around
them reason number three did not send
your kid to college it is a useless
signal what do I mean signal well
decades ago when far fewer people went
to college a college degree was a signal
to an employer that this individual who
had the degree was competent they could
follow basic orders right they had some
baseline level of knowledge and so to an
employer looking at a bunch of resumes
and candidates for a position that might
allow you to sift the candidates and say
well let's focus on the ones that have a
college degree so increasingly over the
years companies started requiring a
degree as a way to sift out the people
who were you know insufficiently
prepared for a job like that but now
where the government and certainly the
college industry itself has been really
pushing this narrative that everyone
should go to college when high schools
themselves see as their mission to
prepare prepare the students to be what
they call now College and Career ready
it's a conveyor belt into this system
that is massively bloated massively
inefficient and it's because we've
created this societal expectation that
everyone should get a college degree
that's simply not the case because when
you push everyone into the college
institutions on the expectation that
everyone needs a degree a lot of people
go there who shouldn't be there and then
it becomes easy you know C's get degrees
right so even if they have a degree and
you got A's but you both have this same
signal that signal loses its
Effectiveness if it no longer serves as
a way to distinguish the you know top
level players from other people when
everyone has a degree then a degree
becomes meaningless and companies are
increasingly recognizing that degrees
are no longer effective signals right
and left companies across the country
are dropping the requirement to have a
college degree major companies think of
Google they came out recently and said
that they're going to treat as equal to
a four-year college degree their own
two-month certification course spend two
months be laser focused if that's what
you want a job like that right far
cheaper far less this time you get your
signal to say hey I've learned all the
cool Google stuff you get your foot in
the door and you get a job at Google
there's tons of companies like this that
are saying well we'll treat other things
as equal to a four-year college degree
or we'll just drop a requirement
entirely and that's important because
where college degrees once served as a
signal now they're just noise everyone
has a college degree so they become
meaningless it's just noise so the
question for your kids is how can we
create a signal to a potential employer
that that individual your child is worth
hiring there are countless other ways to
create signals to demonstrate competence
and the best way to do that is with a
portfolio right go out and find
freelance clients to start to develop
those skills work for free if you need
to be able to point to actual things
that you've done so that when you go to
a future employer and say look I don't
have a degree but look at these 15
things I did for these other clients I
can do it for you that is a huge signal
even better is if you were to signal to
an employer something specific to their
company imagine if your child wanted to
get a job at you know Acme widgets and
so your child said I want to get a
marketing job at the Acme widget company
I'm going to subscribe to their email
newsletter I'm going to follow them on
social media I'm going to watch their
YouTube videos now I'm going to create
this five page document that lists where
I see the major opportunities for them
to improve and how I can help and even
better I'll go create these six memes
I'll write an email newsletter that's
Superior to their own I'll even film a
low budget simple YouTube video I'll
send that whole package over to the
marketing director and say hey I've been
subscribed all your stuff for a while
here's some examples you're welcome to
use them you know use them or don't but
I created them to show you what I think
would be good here's the reasons why I
think this is going to improve your
bottom line decrease your marketing
costs etc etc imagine if you're the
marketing director and you get reached
out to by some young Scrappy kid who
shows hustle like that something
specific to your company that's showing
how you know you can improve your
overall performance your mind is going
to be blown that is going to be a huge
signal to that employer to say this is
an individual who's competent who I want
to hire they don't care about the
college degree right companies don't
care whether you have a degree they care
whether you can do the work and you can
do it effectively and so college degrees
are no longer serving as effective
signals if you want your child to be
successful in the future your young
adult you know teenager you've got to
help them understand how to develop a
specific signal for the career the
industry that they're interested in that
is how they're going to succeed over
time is by developing that signal rather
than relying on an Antiquated college
degree as a signal because now it's just
noise reason number four to not send
your kid to college is that it's a waste
of time these are the years during your
child's life where they can tolerate a
significant amount of risk they can work
for free for places where they want to
go move up the ladder they can go see
the world they can go have 18 different
apprenticeships and internships to
figure out what they really want to do
rather than sit at a desk for four years
on the assumption that they're
eventually going to be interested in
that career that they're spending all
that time and money learning about of
course many people find after they
graduate and pay all that money and time
for a degree that they don't love that
job and then they go do something else
entirely and they've wasted all that
time right when our children are young
adults they can tolerate a high degree
of risk because they don't really have a
lot of bills they can live at home a
little longer if that's okay with you
right they can live on the cheap they
can shack up with eight other people in
an apartment and not have many expenses
and therefore they can embark on a
number of Adventures including
professional Adventures of different
styles to go experience life and figure
out what they actually want but when we
have our kids sitting in college for an
additional four years right sitting at a
desk learning from professors who often
don't know very well the subject matters
that they're teaching and they've been
out of the profession for 20 years and
just you know teaching rather than doing
it becomes an impediment to our kids
because oftentimes again they'll
graduate and realize that well wait a
minute I don't really want to do that
better instead to have our children
exposed to as much of the world as
possible send them out do job shadowings
you know they should do a bunch of
internships go work for free at
different places go you know experience
the different professions that they
think they might be interested in and
figure out out of that something they
actually want to do try 43 different
things right you got plenty of time you
can do it on the cheap and that's going
to help our kids better and more quickly
and more affordably find out what their
path in life is rather than predicting
what it will be four years from the
future when we sign them up for college
and when they sit in the classroom to
pursue a degree in an industry that
maybe they won't love after all and so
it's a lot of wasted time during some of
the most formative years of our
children's growth better instead to have
them get out into the world rather than
sit behind a desk now the fifth and
final reason to not send our kids to
college is that the world is full of
opportunities it is so different than
when it was for you and I growing up
decades ago going through this there are
so many opportunities there's trade
schools there's code camps there's boot
camps like Praxis that help kids get
right into you know getting a job rather
than having to go to college there's
online learning there's you know
entrepreneurial Adventures you know
people can go drive for Lyft and Uber or
like all kinds of stuff right so many
opportunities out there for our kids to
pursue so where decades ago there was
the traditional conveyor belt path and
you go to high school and you go to
college and then you get a job that is
not today's world and so we need to be
very careful as parents that we're not
projecting our experience onto our
children's and imposing upon them the
expectation that they should go to
college when in fact the world is
abundant full of opportunities if we
just open our eyes hit the pause button
on that conveyor belt look around a
little bit and let our kids go
experience life there's so many
opportunities to support young adults in
figuring out what they want to do and
getting going through job accelerators
and doing different you know Career
Fairs and internships and all kinds of
stuff whether you know even remote after
covid now there's all kinds of remote
you know Zoom opportunities and they can
work with companies all over the place
and they can go live on a beach in Costa
Rica while having a full-time job for
some tech company or whatever they want
to do the world is full of opportunities
so let's be careful as parents that we
don't project our experience onto our
kids and make them think that they need
to stay on a conveyor belt when the
world is much different and we need to
prepare our children for that world how
better to do so than by allowing them to
go participate in it experience it and
figure out what they want to do now if
any of this has resonated with you you
should check out the book skip College I
put this together with a number of other
authors who are really experienced in
this Arena title is Skip College launch
your career without debt distractions or
a degree now going to college was
actually kind of a regret for me I
didn't know any better I was part of
that expectation that my parents and
others put on me I went from the
conveyor belt High School to college and
I assumed that that's what you had to do
everyone told me but that's what I had
to do so I sat behind a desk now the
silly thing for me is when I started my
own career back in the day I was a web
developer right so I built websites for
a living and I would sit in class being
taught by professors various things
about websites and computers and these
gentlemen were you know rather old and
they kind of learned computers back in
the day and they themselves were having
to learn and keep up with all the new
technology meanwhile I was sitting in
class behind my laptop doing freelance
work for clients that I was starting to
find online and as a result of those
clients projects I was very incentivized
to go learn new things because they had
expectations for me they wanted me to to
do things for their website that I
didn't know how to do and so I would sit
in class Googling and learning how to do
these things to then do them on their
website while I was being taught by a
professor how to do stuff that was like
two months behind what I was already
learning myself and so I started
accelerating quite a bit because I was
sitting in class and I had the incentive
to learn myself when I didn't really
need to even go to that class that
thought really never came into my mind
until after I graduated college and I
looked back and I said why did I even
need that degree because the first
full-time job that I got out of college
they didn't care about my degree at all
didn't even come up they handed me a
little worksheet and said can you solve
these problems and I did and they said
awesome you're hired they wanted to know
if I knew how to do the work they wanted
to know if I had the basic knowledge
that was necessary and knowledge is
abundant on the internet you can learn
all all kinds of stuff are free and
acquire basic competency in a ton of
Industries right without a paper
certificate without tens of thousands of
dollars of debt without four Wasted
Years now again some professions it is
important or necessary to go to college
but though the book is provocatively
titled skip College the argument
ultimately is not necessarily that
everyone should skip College it's that
everyone needs to be Eyes Wide Open
about the experience if you're going to
go if you have to go for your chosen
career if you want to go for a variety
of other reasons that's fine but bi is
wide open about it understand it's going
to cost a lot of money understand your
you know spending if not wasting parts
of your you know most high risk greatest
reward years that you can do understand
that you're going to be subject to all
kinds of crazy propaganda and ideas and
you just got to go through that but as
long as you have eyes wide open you're
going to do fine now for most people
rather than go through it and suck it up
and tough it out you should just skip it
entirely and there are so many
opportunities to help kids today do that
learning is amazing skipping College
this video is not meant to suggest that
higher education is better that more
education is awful education is amazing
right we should always be students in
whatever career that we choose it's just
that education looks so much different
than it did centuries and decades ago
and you largely speaking don't need to
go to college to acquire that knowledge
it's almost entirely free online for the
taking and there's so many opportunities
for our kids so as parents let's just
make sure that we're not projecting our
experience onto our kids let's make sure
that we're exposing them to all the
opportunities outside that conveyor belt
that exists and give them the permission
and the support to go explore the world
even if that's just taken a gap year and
just taken a year off go have some
experiences pursue some adventures and
internships before coming back to
college and having eyes wide open and
better understanding what's going on but
your kids may find that they can be
earning great money right without having
to pay back all this school debt and
immediately get into the job field four
years later they've worked their way up
the management chain and they've gotten
raises and promotions and then their age
peers who went College are now starting
at the bottom but they have a ton of
school debt to pay so your kids are
going to be able to go further faster
Unshackled from that debt and that
wasted four years of time it's just such
a different world right and we as
parents need to make sure that we
understand that and that we're
supporting our kids and participating in
that world so check out skipcollege if
you've got a teenager or young adult in
your family and let's make sure that
while we love and support education that
we're not necessarily pushing our kids
down the conveyor belt of college
because there's a lot of reason why
that's a bad idea