Brilyn Hollyhand Remembers Charlie Kirk: The Mentor Who Changed a Generation and Never Stopped Working

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Brilyn Hollyhand Remembers Charlie Kirk: The Mentor Who Changed a Generation and Never Stopped Working

Brilyn Hollyhand shares intimate memories of his friend and mentor Charlie Kirk, who took a chance on an 11-year-old podcaster when no one else would. Hollyhand recalls Kirk's tireless work ethic, his authenticity with young people, and his unwavering faith. Kirk's approach to engaging Generation Z, sitting down for genuine conversations rather than lectures, transformed conservative outreach and played a decisive role in the 2024 election. Despite tragedy striking at a college campus where Kirk was doing what he loved most, having open dialogue with students, Hollyhand vows that the next generation will not be silenced. He remembers Kirk not just as a political force, but as a devoted father who always flew home on Sundays to take his family to church, phone turned off, honoring the Sabbath no matter how demanding the campaign trail became.

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September 11, 2025

The Mentor Who Said Yes When Others Said No

Brilyn Hollyhand remembers the moment that changed his life. At just 11 years old, in the fourth grade, he started a podcast. As he candidly admits, not many people wanted to join an 11-year-old's podcast. But Charlie Kirk did. Kirk didn't need to—he was appearing on television constantly, in the prime of his career as a political commentator and activist. But he took the opportunity anyway.

Months later, Hollyhand asked Kirk why he had agreed to come on his show. Kirk's answer revealed everything about his character: "Because I was giving speeches about getting the next generation involved and here was a young person involved, I wasn't going to just ignore you."

The Advice That Defined a Work Ethic

At the end of that early interview, young Hollyhand asked Kirk for advice. What could an 11-year-old just starting out learn from this titan in the political arena? Kirk's response became a defining memory: "Brian, the left will always out fundraise us, but they will never outwork me. I will stay up as late as I need to. I'll get up as early as I need to. I will work every hour of the day to save this country."

That work ethic wasn't just talk. Kirk went state by state, door by door, campus by campus, fighting to get the next generation off the sidelines. According to Hollyhand, the only reason Donald Trump sits in the Oval Office is because of Charlie Kirk's tireless efforts to mobilize young voters. Arizona might not have gone for Trump in November 2024 without Kirk's work on the ground.

The Secret to Reaching Generation Z

Kirk accomplished something that perhaps no conservative before him had managed—he made being conservative cool to Generation Z. Not even Reagan had achieved that cultural shift. How did he do it? According to Hollyhand, Kirk talked to young people. He was authentic. He didn't lecture or scream at Generation Z. Instead, he sat down in a chair in a tent and invited conversation.

"Please come talk to me. Let's have a conversation," Kirk would say. And if someone left still disagreeing, that was all right. The conversation itself mattered more than immediate agreement. This approach stood in stark contrast to previous generations' methods of engaging young people.

Kirk would set up on college campuses with lines where anyone could come to the front and debate him, have a Q&A session, and engage in civil discourse. He believed college campuses should be places for free expression and open dialogue. Tragically, this commitment to conversation on a college campus in Orem, Utah, cost Kirk his life.

A Friend in a Lonely Business

Hollyhand describes politics as a business where it's rare to have friends, where loneliness is common. But Charlie Kirk was one of his closest friends in that world, a genuine mentor. In their most recent conversations about politics, Kirk emphasized that getting Trump into office was great, but it was short term—a patch on a deeper problem. There would be more elections. That victory was small in a longer-term war.

This perspective revealed Kirk's strategic thinking and his understanding that the work was never done. He wasn't interested in resting on victories but in building sustainable change across generations.

A Man of Faith Above All

What many people didn't know about Charlie Kirk was that he was deeply a man of God. No matter how demanding the campaign trail became, Kirk always flew home on Sundays to take his children and wife Erika to church. He turned his phone off on the Sabbath—you couldn't reach him on Sundays even if you needed him, because he respected that time with the Lord and his family.

Booking producers would often be frustrated on Sundays because when something happened over the weekend and everyone wanted Charlie Kirk on their show, he was unreachable. It wasn't that he didn't want to help—he simply didn't have his phone on so he could be fully present with his family and in worship.

About thirty minutes before Kirk was shot on a college campus, his wife Erika tweeted: "God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble." The timing of those words, just before tragedy struck, sent chills through those who learned of it later.

A Legacy That Cannot Be in Vain

Hollyhand is adamant that Kirk's memory cannot be in vain. His legacy must be one that inspires others to get off the sidelines and continue the work he started, not just in the midterms but in 2028 and beyond. If the person who committed this act thought he would shut up Hollyhand's generation with this tragedy, he was wrong. The only thing he accomplished was waking them up.

Generation Z is now more engaged, energized, and aware of the high stakes than ever before. Kirk died doing what college campuses are supposed to be for—having free conversations and free expression. How does one explain to his two young children that their father went to talk on a college campus, a place designed for open dialogue, and never came home?

Despite the tragedy and despite his team's understandable concerns about safety, Hollyhand is speaking at a youth event in South Carolina, refusing to let fear push the next generation into submission. Kirk's example demands nothing less than continued courage and engagement.

A Community Remembers

In Orem, Utah, near where the tragedy occurred, a vigil gathered with remarkable outpouring of support. People who were not at the event, who may not have sons or daughters at the school, who perhaps didn't know much about Charlie Kirk, lined the streets with American flags. Patriotic Americans came together, saddened but touched by what happened and by the life and legacy Charlie Kirk leaves behind.

Hollyhand will remember his friend Charlie in many ways, but above all as a bold father of faith. Someone who, despite the hustle and bustle of the campaign trail, always took time to fly home on Sunday, take his children and wife to church, and turn his phone off to respect the Lord with that time. Hollyhand is thankful that this man got to hear "well done, good and faithful servant" because that should be the example and legacy Kirk leaves the next generation—not just to vote Republican, but to give your life to the Lord.

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