Modern Dating: Charlie Kirk's Advice for Men and Women

Showing 7 Modern Dating videos from Charlie Kirk's video collection.

Charlie Kirk addressed modern dating frequently across campus events and podcast appearances, generally arguing that both men and women have contributed to a breakdown in courtship through unrealistic expectations and instant gratification. In one exchange, he described asking rooms of young women and young men separately whether they were satisfied with the dating pool. Both groups reported widespread dissatisfaction, he found, despite blaming each other for the problem.

On the Whatever podcast, Kirk debated five progressive women directly about pornography, hookup culture, and whether sex should be reserved for committed relationships, sharing his own experience of abstaining before marriage while several of his co-panelists defended their choices in adult entertainment and open relationships. He argued in a separate conversation that women who present themselves provocatively online, including on platforms like OnlyFans, undermine their own stated goal of finding a committed partner, while acknowledging pushback that men's behavior shouldn't be women's sole responsibility to correct. He also took a firm position on dating etiquette specifically: men should always pay on dates regardless of the couple's financial circumstances, part of a broader provider mindset he believes modern dating culture has eroded.