Tomi Lahren Reflects on the Assassination of Charlie Kirk and the Future of Conservative Activism

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Tomi Lahren Reflects on the Assassination of Charlie Kirk and the Future of Conservative Activism

Tomi Lahren shares her deeply personal thoughts on the assassination of Charlie Kirk, a friend and fellow conservative activist who was gunned down on a college campus. She reflects on their decade-long friendship, Charlie's impact on the conservative movement, and the dangerous escalation of political violence. Lahren also discusses the hostile environment faced by conservative speakers on campuses, the role of radical ideology in inspiring violence, and why conservatives must continue speaking out despite the risks. Joined by Breitbart Editor-in-Chief Alex Marlow, they honor Charlie's legacy and call for a return to civil dialogue.

Categories: Tributes
September 15, 2025

A Friendship Forged in the Conservative Movement

Over a decade ago, Tomi Lahren and Charlie Kirk found themselves on parallel paths, both committed to bringing conservative values to young Americans. From the early days when TPUSA events were small gatherings to the massive conservative rallies they became, Lahren witnessed Charlie's vision take shape. She remembers him not just as a powerful voice in his own right, but as someone dedicated to lifting others up. When she was fired from The Blaze for stating she was pro-choice, Charlie stood by her, defending her against backlash from within their own movement despite disagreeing with her position.

Charlie's personality was infectious, Lahren recalls. During the turbulent 2016 election, when setbacks seemed insurmountable, Charlie always had a plan and never appeared defeated. His optimism spread to everyone around him. But what she treasures most are memories from before the fame, when it was just about the mission—no influencer culture, no rock star status, just dedication to country and to elevating the next generation of conservative voices.

The Horrific Reality of Political Violence

The assassination of Charlie Kirk hit Lahren like a ton of bricks. She watched someone she knew well be taken from the world and from his young family in an instant. Charlie was sitting peacefully in a tent on a college campus, offering himself up for dialogue and debate, when he was gunned down. The 31-year-old husband and father became a victim of the very hatred he spent his career trying to counter through conversation.

For Lahren, this tragedy is deeply personal on multiple levels. She does what Charlie did—stands on stages at college campuses, looks out at hostile crowds and protesters, and wonders whether she or the people who came to hear her will be safe. She recounts her experience at the University of New Mexico in Albuquerque, where SWAT teams and state police had to be called in, and she was escorted out through a kitchen. The violence and hatred directed at conservative speakers on campuses has reached a crisis point, and Charlie's assassination represents the tragic culmination of years of escalating hostility.

The Qualifying Condolences and Moral Bankruptcy

Initially, Lahren was heartened to see people from across the political spectrum express heartbreak and outrage over Charlie's assassination. But within days, true colors emerged. Social media filled with qualified condolences: "I'm sorry he died, but he said things I didn't like" or "Condolences, but he was offensive." To Lahren, this represents a fundamental moral bankruptcy—the idea that disagreeing with someone somehow means they deserve to die.

She poses a crucial question: How did we reach a point where people, especially young people, genuinely believe that disagreeing with someone means they should lose their life? She chooses to believe that these voices, though loud and amplified by algorithms, are not the majority. Most people, she believes—even many on the left—are heartbroken by what happened to Charlie. But the fact that anyone feels compelled to qualify their condemnation of political violence reveals something deeply disturbing about our current moment.

A Conversation with Alex Marlow

Breitbart Editor-in-Chief Alex Marlow joins Lahren to share his personal reflections. Marlow reveals that Charlie got his start writing for Breitbart News as a teenager, submitting a story about bias in textbooks. That first story went viral, getting Charlie on Fox News and elsewhere, giving him the bug that would lead to founding Turning Point USA. Marlow watched as Charlie slowly built momentum, eventually cracking the code on how to reach students on campuses.

Charlie's approach was revolutionary, Marlow explains. He didn't lecture students from a position of superiority. Instead, he met them where they were, invited leftists to speak first, and engaged them on their preferred platforms. This made him a problem solver on a crusade from God, someone who wasn't satisfied with just activism and podcasting but wanted more for his country. Marlow emphasizes that Charlie was even kinder in private than he appeared in public, always respectful of people while still knowing how to get attention.

Both Lahren and Marlow express rage at those equivocating in their condemnation of political violence. Marlow pulls no punches: anyone qualifying their condemnation needs to put down the microphone and let the adults talk. This political violence has been building for a decade, and campuses cannot continue to harbor left-wing terror.

The Role of Radical Ideology

Lahren and Marlow discuss what they see as a core element of the current climate: radical attachment to LGBTQIA narratives, particularly around transgender issues. They're careful to note that not everyone in these communities is violent or hateful, but they observe that for many young people, this ideology has replaced religion. The Rainbow Mafia, as Lahren calls it, has created zealots who cannot tolerate any criticism, especially of trans ideology.

Marlow describes what he calls a "trans death cult" organizing online. He clarifies that not all trans people are part of it, but there exists a group that has replaced God with the internet and believes that changing their gender is the path to peace. They note that reports suggest Charlie's assassin was allegedly in a romantic relationship with someone who identified as transgender, and Charlie was discussing transgenders and gun violence when he was killed.

They also point out a glaring contradiction: the same people who claim to support LGBTQ rights and call themselves "Queers for Palestine" also embrace radical Islam and fundamentalist Islam, ideologies that are violently opposed to LGBTQ people. Yet these same individuals saw Charlie as the enemy because they perceived him as anti-trans, despite the fact that Charlie was respectful of gay people and never advocated violence against anyone.

The Progression from Cancel Culture to Violence

Lahren traces what she sees as a clear progression in tactics used to silence conservatives. From 2020 until recently, cancel culture was the weapon of choice—make someone lose their job, their platform, their influence. But as cancel culture was defeated and even some on the left realized it was ridiculous, the zealots had to escalate. If cancel culture didn't work, Lahren observes, physical violence became the next step.

The alternative to free speech is much worse, Marlow notes. If you're opposing free speech, what are you for? People want to express themselves and their disagreements. They can do so either by sitting peacefully in a t-shirt and dialoguing with people with whom they differ, or by using the barrel of a gun. Those are the choices facing America, and anyone who doesn't see that clearly at this point isn't worth the time—though they must remain aware of these individuals because they're lurking and trying to figure out who their next target will be.

The Jealousy Factor and Lost Young Men

Lahren suggests that many individuals who carry out horrific violence have something fundamentally wrong mentally, but she also sees a pattern of self-hatred among young people who become perpetrators. They hate themselves, see no value in their own lives, but believe that if they do something they've been told advances society—like eliminating people portrayed as evil—their lives will finally be worth something.

Marlow agrees and adds another dimension: Charlie was a giant. He was big on campuses, big on TikTok and Instagram, had a major activist outlet, was helping pick people in the White House, and had a beautiful family. For a young male who feels lost, this can inspire jealousy. When combined with being out of touch with God, lacking a strong family, and having no meaningful career, some people find perverse ways of dealing with that jealousy. This is why returning to church, spending time with nature and strong community, and building strong families is so important.

Why Conservatives Must Keep Speaking

Despite her fear—and Lahren admits she is afraid, that she re-evaluates her surroundings every day wondering if she'll be next—she knows conservatives cannot stop. They cannot be intimidated. They cannot be silenced. They must keep picking up the microphone, walking into places where they're hated, and speaking anyway, because that's the only way to save the country.

Lahren issues a call to action: whatever platform you have, whether it's your school, your city council meeting, your local school board, or just around your dinner table, keep going. If you haven't started yet, if fear has kept you quiet or you've been afraid of being judged or losing friends, now is the moment to find your voice. Pick up the microphone, even if it starts with a whisper. Do it for Charlie. Do it for America. Do it for yourself.

She notes positive changes already emerging from this tragedy. Conservative public figures who had previously remained quiet—athletes, musicians, entertainers—are speaking up. When someone takes a bullet for their beliefs, it flips a switch in others who realize they can at least speak up. The Dodgers pitcher who put Charlie Kirk on the side of his cap, country artists talking about the Kirk family at concerts, sports teams putting Charlie's memorial on jumbotrons—these would never have happened before 2024.

A Legacy That Will Grow Exponentially

Marlow shares that he had the "dubious honor" of being at Andrew Breitbart's right hand when he passed away and being close with Charlie when he was assassinated. Andrew's legacy grew exponentially because he died too young, and Marlow sees the same pattern with Charlie. In the days following the assassination, Marlow realized he had no idea Charlie was as powerful as the worldwide outpouring of love revealed. From South America to Europe to Asia, people understood the power of his message.

The numbers tell the story: over 32,000 new applications for Turning Point chapters in just days. Before the assassination, there were 4,000 chapters. The movement will now go international, on every continent. People are going to go back to church. They're going to start thinking about living more godly lives. Young people will propose to their girlfriends and boyfriends to start creating the families Charlie advocated for. There will be a coupling of spirituality and politics where people reconsider that America's founding was divinely inspired.

Charlie understood that if America is an exceptional country, you have to look at the evidence of what informed the founding fathers—the sheer miracle that these brilliant individuals were all walking the earth at the same time in roughly the same geographical area and pulled off the incredible revolution that became America. This is the wildly positive direction forward, a legacy that includes not just remembering Charlie, but living out the principles he championed.

Taking the High Road

Lahren closes with an appeal to her fellow conservatives. She knows it's easy and natural to be angry and enraged—she feels it too. But she asks that conservatives try their best to take the high road, to remember their faith and godliness as they respond to what is often filth and evil coming from the other side, especially on social media. Taking the high road is what Charlie would have wanted.

The memorial service on Sunday will fill an NFL stadium to capacity, a testament to Charlie's impact. But the real memorial will be the continued work, the voices that refuse to be silenced, and the young people who take up the mantle of defending freedom and engaging in civil dialogue even when it's dangerous. Charlie Kirk's assassination was meant to silence a movement. Instead, it ignited one.

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