[00:00] Good morning. Happy Sunday, you guys. I
[00:03] should not have started off my morning
[00:05] like this, watching Ian Carol's um video
[00:09] from yesterday and catching up on
[00:11] Candace because I have not watched the
[00:13] last like two days of Candace. And
[00:16] because of the stuff that was shared, I
[00:19] had to get on here in my pajamas.
[00:22] [snorts]
[00:22] So, we are just going to jump right into
[00:25] the first clip that I want to watch and
[00:28] talk about because this is I mean we
[00:31] already knew Rod McCoy was a weirdo.
[00:33] Okay, we already had icky vibes. He just
[00:36] gives you the ick but this it just it
[00:40] just is so fitting honestly. So, let's
[00:43] just jump right into that and watch it
[00:46] and then we will do like a live
[00:49] reaction.
[00:49] >> Right. Imagine yourself at 8 years old
[00:51] in third grade. I have every memory of
[00:54] being in third grade. I have memory of
[00:55] traumas in third grade when a cousin of
[00:57] mine died in a car accident.
[00:59] Despite his conviction, despite having
[01:02] spent years that Camino should have
[01:04] access to Rob McCoy, the pastor who
[01:08] makes my skin crawl, struck up
[01:10] thereafter,
[01:12] >> the pastor that makes everybody's skin
[01:15] crawl
[01:15] >> and maintained a long friendship with
[01:18] Thomas Camino across decades. Now,
[01:20] that's not exactly a problem per se.
[01:22] Rehabilitation is a thing. The problem
[01:26] comes in when Rob then decides that
[01:28] Camino should be involved in the Calvary
[01:30] Chap Chapel church and more specific.
[01:33] That's a great idea. Let's go to
[01:36] rehabilitation and then afterwards put
[01:39] them in front of a bunch of ch children
[01:41] or alone with children. Sounds about
[01:45] right. We should take an alcoholic and
[01:46] just throw them in a barically
[01:49] that commamino should have recovering
[01:51] alcoholic. Sorry. access to young
[01:53] children in a program called Home
[01:55] Fellowship, which put him inside the
[01:57] homes of children. And he almost got
[01:59] away with it until some mothers went
[02:02] online, remembered exactly what had
[02:03] happened, and raised hell about it in
[02:05] 2022. Now, in response to this being
[02:08] discovered, Rob McCoy did not apologize.
[02:10] No, no, no, no. That's not how this
[02:11] works. Instead, you are about to see Rob
[02:16] basically employ tactics of
[02:18] psychological gaslighting. Maybe he
[02:20] learned this from his father who did
[02:21] this for Navy intelligence, right? Um,
[02:24] but he is going to host Thomas Camino
[02:27] for a podcast episode on the Bryce Eddie
[02:29] show. He's going to vent his frustration
[02:32] at the people who are up in arms about
[02:35] the placement of this man in uh in
[02:39] closed confine with young children
[02:40] without people recognizing that, okay,
[02:43] um, this guy has literally spent eight
[02:45] years in prison uh for abuse. This is
[02:48] how Rob McCoy intros Thomas on his
[02:52] podcast. Take a listen.
[02:54] >> I was so compelled because of uh the
[02:58] gossip and the slander um of my friend
[03:01] who's going to join me that
[03:04] >> McCoy just said defamation and slander
[03:08] of his friend. Bro, your friend went to
[03:12] jail. Okay. He is a convicted
[03:15] sex offender. Period. This is not
[03:18] slander. This is not defamation. He was
[03:19] found guilty in a court of law.
[03:23] This is disgusting. He is delusional.
[03:25] He's disgusting. He is This is pathetic.
[03:27] I He He belongs near no church.
[03:33] And then to sit here and say that he
[03:34] belongs doing the program that he wants
[03:37] to put him in where he would be taking
[03:40] just
[03:42] um
[03:43] >> he obviously doesn't know what
[03:44] defamation and slander are.
[03:47] And that's really fucking annoying.
[03:48] Don't use words that you don't know the
[03:50] definition to.
[03:51] >> I I wanted him to tell a story. So 20
[03:54] years ago,
[03:55] >> I wanted him to tell a story. I wanted
[03:57] him to explain why he's into little
[03:59] girls and why that's okay. I wanted him
[04:02] to tell a story because little girls are
[04:05] lying. Three little girls are lying.
[04:08] >> We were over at Skyline.
[04:10] The introduction uh was you walked in
[04:13] and you said, "I I need to talk to you."
[04:16] Uh, and I got to share with you. And you
[04:19] were just pretty blunt. You just laid it
[04:20] out there. And
[04:22] >> you guys, he's like so happy about this.
[04:24] Like he's like excited to like, oh,
[04:26] we're going to get this out there.
[04:28] >> You said this is this is what it is. And
[04:32] um, [clears throat] you you follow
[04:33] >> I like little girls. It just is what it
[04:35] is.
[04:36] >> Followed the procedures. You did what
[04:37] was required of you. And you and I have
[04:40] been friends. There's been no issues. It
[04:42] It's remarkable how you've served this
[04:44] community. I personally made the call
[04:47] that they can make fun of us and they
[04:50] can claim whatever they want to claim,
[04:52] but I wanted your family protected. So,
[04:54] I pulled that um I guess I guess it was
[04:57] a advertisement for the home fellowship,
[05:00] which we do for all the home
[05:01] fellowships.
[05:03] >> Precookie for life.
[05:05] >> Tired of cooking for one?
[05:07] >> Sorry guys, I don't have the ad free
[05:10] YouTube yet. I will get that.
[05:14] >> So, he's upset and he goes on to talk
[05:16] about how people online who don't know
[05:18] the full story are digging stuff up and
[05:20] like this guy's really a good guy. And
[05:21] I'm going to have Camino actually
[05:23] explain what really happened that put
[05:25] him into prison. Let me know if you're
[05:27] buying this story that he's about to
[05:29] tell. Take a listen.
[05:30] >> The fact that he's even giving this guy
[05:32] a platform to even fucking explain
[05:34] himself says everything, by the way,
[05:36] because there's no excuse. There's just
[05:39] no excuse.
[05:40] At least for me, there's no excuse. I
[05:42] don't know about you. Let me know in the
[05:43] comments, but uh this is delusional at
[05:45] its finest.
[05:47] >> So, this is like early 90s. Um a nice
[05:50] little beach.
[05:50] >> Also, guys, you're you're going to hear
[05:52] this down line. I don't want to spoil
[05:53] it, but I'm going to spoil it. His wife
[05:56] divorced him. Okay, so Rob McCoy saying,
[06:00] "Oh, I I didn't want your family to to,
[06:03] you know, be out put out there and in
[06:06] danger." Um he is not involved with his
[06:09] family. He lost his family when he went
[06:11] to jail for eight years for what he did.
[06:14] >> Community in Orange County and I get
[06:17] accused of a crime that I did not
[06:19] commit. It's a a falsely
[06:22] >> You didn't commit, but they had evidence
[06:24] enough to convict you. Yeah. You didn't
[06:26] do it.
[06:27] >> Accused. It's an underage girl thing.
[06:30] And the premise of the case is there's a
[06:33] guy running around asking people about a
[06:35] lost cat. And this happens 15 20 times
[06:38] over the course of six, eight months.
[06:39] and the whole town is getting in an
[06:40] uproar over them. They bring this girl
[06:42] and they film an interview
[06:45] >> after I got involved in this whole
[06:46] thing. We didn't know this was part of
[06:48] the thing. They just spring this in
[06:50] trial
[06:51] >> and it's this interview where the kid
[06:53] doesn't care what she's saying. She's
[06:54] not upset. She thinks she's waiting for
[06:56] her mom in a dentist office and then
[06:58] they just keep asking her leading
[07:00] question after leading question and the
[07:02] kid's not giving them what they want.
[07:03] Eventually, they get her to say that
[07:05] there was some inappropriate touching on
[07:07] that. She sort of says it, sort of
[07:09] denies it, but it's all they needed. Now
[07:11] they can go out and arrest somebody. And
[07:12] they obviously don't care who they
[07:14] arrest. And the cops had lined up like
[07:17] 16 different guys of a certain look or
[07:20] whatever. And some of us, I was one of
[07:22] them, were under surveillance. And so
[07:24] they had pictures of us and they got
[07:26] enough people to say,
[07:27] >> "If you were not
[07:30] doing anything or if you were not on the
[07:32] radar of police, why were you in the
[07:33] lineup? Why were you being surveiled?"
[07:37] prior history. Maybe
[07:40] >> that looks like the guy. So, they went
[07:42] and got me. Then they come over to my
[07:44] place with a search. They bring me in
[07:46] the search warrant over to my place and
[07:48] they have 17 specific items that they're
[07:51] looking
[07:52] >> 17 items, you guys. 17 items, okay,
[07:57] that match
[07:59] DNA
[08:01] >> four. They get 11 of them, which kind
[08:04] sounds kind of bad until you read what
[08:06] it is. I get arrested. So, they throw me
[08:10] in jail and the next day you're supposed
[08:12] to get a hearing for bail.
[08:13] >> Let's pause for a second. So, they throw
[08:15] you in jail. Next day you get a hearing
[08:17] uh for bail.
[08:18] >> They're nice enough to do it on
[08:20] >> How long ago was this?
[08:22] >> Like 28 years.
[08:24] >> 28 years ago.
[08:25] >> Yeah.
[08:25] >> So, because it was 28 years ago, you
[08:27] shouldn't be concerned about your
[08:29] 78-year-old daughter with this man who's
[08:31] been in trouble several times.
[08:33] >> Nothing to see here. It was 28 years
[08:35] ago. It's like it never happened.
[08:37] >> Oh, 28 years ago. All right. Go ahead.
[08:39] So, they I'm just saying some of these
[08:42] details because this whole thing is a
[08:44] >> you guys, the fact that Rob McCoy is
[08:46] using that to try to like wipe away what
[08:49] this man has done. You realize that,
[08:51] right? Like when he says, "Oh, that was
[08:52] the point. How long ago was this?" Oh,
[08:54] it was 20 like 28 years ago. Uh, so it's
[08:57] wrong for people to still essentially be
[08:59] punishing you or, you know, looking down
[09:02] on you for something that happened 20
[09:04] years ago. I mean, this isn't like you
[09:07] had got a DUI. This isn't like you used
[09:10] to do drugs.
[09:12] This is much bigger.
[09:14] >> Total sham. My lawyer comes to me and
[09:17] goes, "Uh, they say they have footprints
[09:20] and frenzy evidence. footprints and a
[09:21] palm print of yours that they lifted
[09:23] from a scene and they want to cut a deal
[09:25] with you and they want to see if you
[09:27] want to do a plea bargain before we get
[09:28] to a pre-trial hearing. Jury goes comes
[09:31] back guilty unbelievably guilty and I
[09:36] wind up doing they give me an eight-year
[09:38] sentence. Didn't have a record. So, you
[09:40] get a did four years of change. So, I
[09:42] did 1536 days for a crime that I didn't
[09:44] commit. It actually gets worse. So you
[09:47] get an appeals process and there's a
[09:50] free process. So they take the three
[09:52] main issues they can find that are
[09:54] breaking the law or violating your
[09:55] rights and they they submit it. So the
[09:58] appellet court reads it and they say
[10:00] yes, we agree they broke the law twice
[10:02] out of out of the three points and they
[10:05] violated your rights. Um but we don't
[10:08] see how it affected the outcome of the
[10:10] case. Dismissed. Wife divorced me right
[10:13] before I got out. So, it's my ex-wife's
[10:15] best friend and she goes, "Tom, I got to
[10:16] talk."
[10:17] >> Shocker. Shocker. Your wife divorced
[10:20] you.
[10:21] >> Talk to you.
[10:23] >> How many of you women, let me know in
[10:25] the comments, would stay with someone
[10:27] like this.
[10:29] Disgusting.
[10:30] >> You got convicted and you went away and
[10:33] your wife was dating your lawyer. And
[10:36] I'm like, the dating the public
[10:38] defender? How do you know this? She told
[10:40] me. So,
[10:43] what incentive does the lawyer have to
[10:45] get me acquitted when he's after my wife
[10:48] and he get
[10:49] >> What incentive does the lawyer have to
[10:52] get you out when you're fucking guilty?
[10:56] What incentive? What lawyer in their
[10:58] right mind would ever want to get a
[11:01] child
[11:03] lover off?
[11:07] Sir,
[11:09] >> imagine bringing your side product.
[11:11] >> Maybe because he thought that he was
[11:12] guilty. That's why he didn't try to get
[11:14] you off
[11:15] >> a complete AI.
[11:17] >> And good for his wife. I'm glad that she
[11:19] >> So, it's all one big conspiracy that
[11:21] involved two counties, uh, neighborhoods
[11:24] filled with parents and children, uh,
[11:28] witness who still to this day remembers
[11:30] and emailed me to remind me about this,
[11:32] people who posted and said, "This is
[11:33] absurd." and brought it forward into
[11:36] Rob's church and said it's absurd that
[11:38] you are allowing him to be around youth
[11:41] despite his record. Um, also his ex-wife
[11:44] and the appellet court. Everyone
[11:47] everyone just wanted to get this
[11:48] conviction. Uh, despite the fact that
[11:50] the caps the cops as he said found a
[11:52] footprint, a palm print plus 11 out of
[11:56] 17 items that they were looking for in
[11:58] his home. You are free uh to pursue that
[12:02] conversation in its entirety. like we're
[12:04] trying to include as much as we can for
[12:06] the sake of this podcast without going
[12:07] too long. So that's basically all she
[12:10] shared and maybe I will go back and look
[12:13] at the actual podcast in its entirety so
[12:17] we can go uh deep dive into that even
[12:19] more. But the point here is is that this
[12:22] guy is disgusting. Okay? And for here's
[12:28] the problem. Okay? Here's the problem.
[12:29] [snorts] In some instances, guys like
[12:32] this slip through the holes. And I'm
[12:34] going to talk about a personal
[12:35] experience. I've had very
[12:37] traumatic things happen in my life. I've
[12:40] said in a previous podcast that I had a
[12:42] stalker from when I was a very little
[12:44] girl. I'm talking like 5 years old until
[12:47] I was I mean until I moved until I was
[12:49] 25 years old. Um and he was in and out
[12:53] of jail. He had been arrested several
[12:54] times for uh inappropriate behavior with
[12:57] young girls and um he had been arrested
[13:00] several times. Actually, one time when
[13:02] my parents called the police uh for the
[13:05] stalking, what would happened was he put
[13:07] candy and I'm going to do a separate
[13:09] podcast on this, but he put candy on the
[13:10] fence and the candy was poisoned. So, in
[13:13] a bag, he knew our favorite candy
[13:15] because we would go to the gas station
[13:16] and get candy. But long story short, um
[13:19] he had a prior record and even the
[13:22] police, even though he had a prior
[13:23] record, couldn't do anything until he
[13:25] physically harmed me, right? Uh the
[13:29] other story I want to talk about is a
[13:32] couple years ago, probably like seven
[13:33] years ago, my husband and I were living
[13:36] in Savannah and we were attending a very
[13:38] small gym and I was taking personal
[13:40] training classes. Now, I understand this
[13:43] is totally different. I'm an adult. But
[13:45] the reason I tell you this story is
[13:46] because um to work at a gym, most gyms
[13:50] run a background track, especially for
[13:51] personal trainers, whatever. This was a
[13:54] gym that was like a 24-hour gym. You can
[13:55] scan in at night. And so I was doing my
[13:59] training because I was going to do a
[14:00] competition.
[14:02] And so he they put me the general
[14:05] manager puts me with this guy. His name
[14:07] is Anthony. I'm not going to go any
[14:08] further than that. And um he's training
[14:11] me at 5 in the morning. I worked in, you
[14:12] know, the medical field and in surgery,
[14:15] so I had to go to work early. So, we
[14:17] were going extra early to do my workout
[14:19] and then I would go straight from there
[14:20] to work. So, one morning they put you on
[14:24] this machine. You hold on to the bars
[14:26] and you get down to your bra and your
[14:27] underwear and basically it scans you and
[14:29] it tells you all this information about
[14:32] fat, muscle, all these different things.
[14:36] And so after you've been training for a
[14:37] while, I think it was like once a month,
[14:39] they would put me on this machine to see
[14:40] where we're at, to see, you know, how
[14:42] I'm doing and how we need to adjust
[14:44] things, whatever. [snorts]
[14:45] So that morning, it was just me and him
[14:47] in the gym. And, you know, he was a very
[14:50] big dude, you know, and uh,
[14:54] you know, like I'm talking like 250 lbs,
[14:58] 63, 6'4, huge. Against little me, I
[15:02] wouldn't have stood a chance. So he
[15:04] tells me, "Hey, you know, get down to
[15:06] this and this and then you can push the
[15:08] button or if you're if you're
[15:10] comfortable, you could just throw your
[15:11] workout shorts off or whatever and you
[15:15] know, we could scan." As a professional,
[15:19] you've seen people in their, you know,
[15:21] it's like when you watch the girls that
[15:22] are boxing that are in like basically
[15:24] almost underwear and a sports bra,
[15:25] right? You've seen girls in bikinis. So
[15:28] in my mind, I was like, "Oh, I don't
[15:29] care." like I'm in a normal pair of
[15:31] underwear, like you know, not a thong,
[15:33] not anything crazy, you know, I'll just
[15:36] like slip off my workout, whatever. And
[15:39] I have I just had my sports bra on top.
[15:40] So, I was like, "Okay, no big deal." So,
[15:43] I tell him, you know, to shut the door.
[15:46] Well, next thing you know, he comes in
[15:48] the room. And mind you, it was just me
[15:50] and him in the gym. It's very early in
[15:52] the morning. And he's looking at me. And
[15:53] when he's looking at me, you guys, his
[15:54] eyes were black, okay?
[15:56] >> [snorts]
[15:57] >> And I start to think, "Oh my god, this
[16:00] is where I get R a, you know, you finish
[16:03] off the rest." And I just had this
[16:06] feeling and it didn't look like a person
[16:08] was inside of there. And it was
[16:09] extremely scary. And so I'm like sort of
[16:13] backing up and all of a sudden I hear a
[16:16] ding-dong, which is someone entering the
[16:18] front door. Someone scanned in to come
[16:19] in
[16:21] and he had the door shut and he looks at
[16:24] me and he hears the doorbell. So he
[16:26] looks towards the door and he decides to
[16:28] open the door and slip out.
[16:32] After that, we still to do our workout.
[16:35] So he's training me and now he's talking
[16:37] to me about, "Oh, you got me so hard."
[16:40] And mind you, this is a married man with
[16:42] children. Oh, you know, this or this or
[16:45] this, like all these comments and I'm
[16:46] just like trying, you guys, I'm trying
[16:48] to ignore this. I'm like mortified. I
[16:50] can't even believe that this just
[16:51] happened. I'm so uncomfortable. I want
[16:52] to get through this hour workout and
[16:54] just get the fuck out of there. So, I
[16:57] leave. I go to work and when I get to
[16:59] work, I'm crying and I'm just like
[17:00] totally beside myself. I'm like, "What
[17:02] just happened to me?" And uh my
[17:05] co-workers, the other nurses were like,
[17:06] "What happened?" And I'm explaining to
[17:08] them what happened. They're like,
[17:09] "Nicole, that you have to call the gym.
[17:11] This is crazy. That's not right."
[17:13] Whatever. So, I called I called my my
[17:16] husband. I tell my husband. My husband
[17:17] was pissed. He's like, "I'm coming home
[17:18] from work. We're going to call the
[17:20] police. We're going to go to the gym.
[17:21] whatever. We go to the gym, we tell the
[17:24] GM, and he's like, "I'm disgusted. He's
[17:30] getting fired." Write uh a report.
[17:34] And uh so next thing you know, I'm
[17:37] thinking to myself when, you know, we're
[17:38] there, I'm like, I'm going to look this
[17:40] guy up. I just have a really bad feeling
[17:41] about him and I don't know. And I look
[17:44] him up and he has essay
[17:48] three women while he was in the
[17:50] military. He was dishonorably discharged
[17:52] from the military
[17:55] for R a you can finish the rest three
[17:58] women. Okay.
[18:01] And so I bring this up and I show all of
[18:05] the you know um he has to register as a
[18:09] sex offender, right? So I show this to
[18:12] the gym manager and the gym manager is
[18:14] like you could just see he is like oh my
[18:16] gosh, how did this He goes, we do
[18:18] background checks. How did this get how
[18:19] do you get around this background check?
[18:21] Turns out the company that they had
[18:22] doing the background checks uh somehow
[18:26] it slipped through and this guy never
[18:28] actually got a background check.
[18:31] So now the gym had to go through and
[18:33] look through all the other women that
[18:35] he's trained to see if they have ever
[18:37] been treated the way I have or if
[18:39] something worse hasn't happened because
[18:40] they were so worried about getting sued.
[18:45] So if you don't think that there are
[18:47] these people living and walking among
[18:49] you in positions of power or in
[18:51] positions just because they have a past
[18:53] and you think a background check is
[18:55] done, you guys are wrong. Things slip
[18:58] through the holes. You have to do your
[18:59] own due diligence. You have to do your
[19:01] own research. And this comes back to
[19:02] anything. If you've been watching me on
[19:03] my podcast, it all comes back to do your
[19:05] own research. Use your brain. Use your
[19:07] critical thinking. I don't say this to
[19:08] be offensive. I say this because you are
[19:10] your best advocate. [snorts] Even in
[19:13] medicine, when I was getting my
[19:14] diagnosis for lupus, you guys, if I did
[19:17] not advocate for myself, I was going to
[19:19] get nowhere. And this is one of the
[19:20] reasons why I'm not in the medical field
[19:22] anymore because they don't care. You
[19:24] don't make them money if you are well.
[19:28] Sick patients make you money. Not every
[19:31] doctor is like this, but there are a
[19:32] good amount of them that are just driven
[19:33] by paper. And so, you have to be willing
[19:38] to fight for yourself. You have to be
[19:40] willing to go the extra mile. You cannot
[19:43] be lazy about who you are around and who
[19:45] your children are around. And I say this
[19:48] for even women. If someone gives you the
[19:51] creeps and they're in a position like
[19:54] that, you need to be looking them up. I
[19:56] did a simple Google search and I found
[19:58] all this stuff, guys. I didn't even have
[19:59] to pay for a background check. Okay.
[20:03] I I have another story of a friend who,
[20:07] you know, same thing. She was like, "Oh,
[20:09] well, we never got to know my husband's
[20:12] ex-wife's new boyfriend and like they
[20:14] broke up and and she said, you know,
[20:16] they're broken up and she don't want him
[20:17] to know where they live or, you know,
[20:19] there's just all these things." And then
[20:20] next thing you know, I I do some digging
[20:22] and turns out, you know, he's the same
[20:24] way. He's been charged with a million
[20:25] things. He's been to jail. He went to
[20:27] jail for like eight years for um
[20:31] you know, crimes against children. And
[20:34] um he's around children, you know what I
[20:37] mean? and she the the woman had no idea.
[20:40] Everyone has to start doing their due
[20:42] diligence and research, you guys,
[20:43] because these people walk among you more
[20:46] than you think.
[20:50] So, that was that's the bottom line. And
[20:53] yes, I'm an adult and yes, people I'm
[20:55] sure are going to judge and say, "Well,
[20:57] why would you, you know, take your
[20:58] workout shorts off and and let him stand
[21:01] right there or whatever." I told him he
[21:03] he could leave, just shut the door
[21:04] behind him. But either way, you've seen
[21:06] a woman in a bikini. And the bottom line
[21:07] is is this is a professional. This is
[21:08] somebody who is a personal trainer who
[21:11] literally trains people to do
[21:12] competitions. He has seen people and
[21:14] next to nothing when they weigh in and
[21:16] do all this stuff. He should have been
[21:18] able to be professional. That's like me
[21:20] working in the medical field. I I seen a
[21:23] million naked bodies and never acted
[21:25] that way. You're a professional.
[21:29] Period.
[21:32] And till this day, I say that God was
[21:35] with me that morning because I can tell
[21:37] you that that man, his eyes were so dark
[21:40] and black.
[21:42] He was possessed. He was of the devil.
[21:44] And God
[21:47] was watching over me and stopped that
[21:49] situation from happening. And I'm trying
[21:51] so hard not to get emotional. I'm
[21:53] starting to shake because I really was
[21:56] in my head preparing myself to to be
[22:00] victimized by this person.
[22:05] And when you come out of that situation,
[22:06] you are so shocked and numb and like
[22:09] confused. Like you know what happened,
[22:11] but you you you're trying to compute
[22:13] everything in your brain. And it's it's
[22:15] a very awful experience.
[22:18] Um,
[22:20] and you expect these companies to be
[22:23] doing their due diligence to protect
[22:24] people
[22:26] and they and incences happen where they
[22:28] just don't. [snorts]
[22:30] And that was one instance and it could
[22:32] have ended very bad. And it's not so
[22:34] much like
[22:37] it's the trauma once that happens, you
[22:40] can't undo it. You can go to therapy,
[22:42] you can get help, but it's always going
[22:44] to be there. And I feel for victims of
[22:47] those crimes because you ne I don't
[22:49] think you ever fully get past it no
[22:50] matter what kind of therapy you go
[22:52] through.
[22:53] And it's like having my stalker. I'll
[22:56] always be a paranoid person. I'll always
[22:58] carry my pepper spray in my hand when
[23:01] I'm walking from one place to the other.
[23:05] You know, I'll always conceal and carry
[23:08] because that's over. But it's not over
[23:11] for me.
[23:12] >> [snorts]
[23:12] >> And I have a real trust issue with men
[23:14] after what happened in the gym. I'm very
[23:16] leerary of men.
[23:18] Um, as a woman, I'm sure a lot of people
[23:22] can relate to this. Um, you feel
[23:24] uncomfortable in public sometimes. You
[23:27] know what I mean? It you get victimized
[23:29] every day by men. So, um, I don't know.
[23:33] I I'm sorry if I got off on a tangent,
[23:35] guys, but the bottom line is I just want
[23:37] everyone to understand like you need to
[23:39] be looking into people who are involved
[23:42] with your children, coaches,
[23:45] people in church, you know what I mean?
[23:47] And it's not offensive. It's just you
[23:49] have to know, especially if someone rubs
[23:51] you the wrong way. Guys, please just
[23:54] Google a name.
[23:56] you know, it's or go on the registry and
[24:00] just look up their name just to verify
[24:02] that they've never had any issues. And
[24:04] Rob McCoy in this interview is
[24:05] insinuating that it's wrong that people
[24:08] are looking into him.
[24:12] He's going to be around their children.
[24:13] They should just take Rob McCoy's word
[24:15] that oh, like this is 20 years ago. It's
[24:17] it's fine. It's fine. No big deal. It
[24:21] really didn't happen. These three seven,
[24:23] eight year olds are lying. Nothing to
[24:25] see here. You guys have to like I don't
[24:27] even understand how you guys can justify
[24:28] Rob McCoy right now.
[24:32] I don't know. Let me know what you guys
[24:33] think in the comments. As always, it has
[24:36] been so nice being here with you guys.
[24:38] Sorry for the Christmas pajamas. And um
[24:42] yeah, [clears throat] I'm in the
[24:43] Christmas spirit this year. You know, my
[24:45] dad died two years ago, so this will be
[24:46] my third Christmas without my dad. And I
[24:48] just find that the earlier I put the
[24:50] tree up and start getting in the mood of
[24:52] the holiday, it's just uplifting. So, I
[24:55] try to do that. So, don't judge me. Um,
[24:57] [clears throat] but we're about to get
[24:58] ready. We're going to go to church and
[25:00] then we are going to go get lunch and
[25:02] just have like a little day date
[25:03] afterwards. So, that'll be nice. Um, per
[25:05] usual, I'm going to tell you guys thank
[25:08] you for your support. Thank you for
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[25:19] just really really love being here with
[25:21] you guys and being able to talk about
[25:22] the the hard stuff. And I really look
[25:24] forward to seeing you guys later in the
[25:27] day. Um, I will have another video
[25:29] that'll be coming out uh going over what
[25:31] Ian Carol went over yesterday, digging
[25:33] more into Rob McCoy. And uh, yeah, juicy
[25:37] juicy stuff, guys. And uh as usual, I
[25:41] will see you all in the next