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Erika Kirk's Deleted 2021 Speech Reveals Manipulation Tactics and Hollywood Ambitions
A previously deleted hourlong video from 2021 shows Erika Kirk speaking at the Good Things Women's Convention in California, where she made several eyebrow-raising statements about her marriage to Charlie Kirk and her relational philosophy. The Patriotic Housewife breaks down five clips from this resurfaced footage, examining statements about manipulation in marriage, transactional relationships in Los Angeles, her silver screen aspirations, volatile arguments with neighbors listening, and her focus on how young girls dress. The video raises questions about the authenticity of the public image Erika Kirk has cultivated and whether her relationship with Charlie was as biblical as presented.
The Deleted Convention Speech Resurfaces
A previously scrubbed video from the 2021 Good Things Women's Convention in California has emerged, featuring Erika Kirk making statements that contradict her carefully crafted public image. The hourlong speech, which Erica apparently tried to hide, contains multiple clips that reveal a different side of her personality and marriage philosophy than what she typically presents to audiences.
Project Constitution on X (formerly Twitter) secured and shared the footage, breaking it down into what they call "five smoking gun clips" that expose inconsistencies in Erica's public narrative about her marriage, her faith, and her intentions.
The "Upgrade" Comment and Transactional Relationships
In the opening moments of her speech, Erica introduces herself by saying, "Last time I was here, I was a Fronve. Now I upgraded my last name to Kirk." The use of the word "upgraded" to describe her marriage raised immediate red flags among those analyzing the footage. Rather than describing a biblical union or expressing deep love for her husband, she frames the marriage in terms of social advancement.
The speech takes a more revealing turn when Erica discusses the nature of relationships in different cities. She describes her experience in New York as "very transactional" and in Los Angeles as "Hey, nice to meet you, but what are you going to do for me? One, yes, closer to being on the silver screen."
This "silver screen" reference directly contradicts Erica's repeated claims that she never had aspirations of fame. The comment suggests she was navigating Hollywood circles with specific career ambitions, viewing relationships through the lens of what they could do to advance her toward acting opportunities.
The Neck Moves the Head: A Confession of Manipulation
Perhaps the most controversial moment in the resurfaced footage comes when Erica references the movie "My Big Fat Greek Wedding" to illustrate her marriage philosophy. She quotes a line from the film: "The man is the head, but the woman is the neck, and the neck can make the head move whatever way she wants."
Immediately after making this statement, Erica appears to realize how it sounds and quickly backtracks: "And it's not meant to be manipulative. Some people are like, 'Oh, I'll move the head wherever I want because I'm going to manipulate my husband.' That has nothing to do with it."
The defensive clarification only drew more attention to the original statement. Critics argue that this represents a fundamental misunderstanding of biblical marriage, which emphasizes partnership and mutual respect rather than one spouse manipulating the other, regardless of how it's framed.
The Neighbors Can Hear Us Fighting
In another portion of the speech, Erica attempts to be relatable by sharing a saying about the stages of marriage: "They say that the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. And then the second year of marriage, the woman speaks and the man listens. And the third year of marriage, they both speak and the neighbors listen. So, we're on track."
She laughs while admitting that her arguments with Charlie were loud enough for neighbors to overhear. This casual admission of volatile fighting contradicts the image of a peaceful, biblically grounded marriage that she has promoted in other venues.
The Patriotic Housewife, who analyzed the footage, points out that in healthy marriages, couples generally work to keep disagreements private and respectful. The fact that Erica treated loud, neighbor-disturbing arguments as normal and even humorous raised concerns about the actual state of her marriage to Charlie Kirk.
Fixation on Young Girls' Clothing Choices
In a segment that many found uncomfortable, Erica focuses extensively on how young girls and teenagers dress. She states: "Call me old school, but I think a 16-year-old should dress like a 16-year-old. I think a young woman should dress like one young woman."
She continues by discussing 12-year-olds wanting to be 22 and the importance of going through proper "seasons of womanhood." While the message about age-appropriate clothing might seem reasonable on the surface, critics argue that the intensity of focus on minors' bodies and clothing choices, combined with other allegations surrounding Erica's behavior, creates an uncomfortable pattern.
The Patriotic Housewife notes that parental oversight is the real solution to inappropriate clothing choices, not public lectures that zero in on young girls' physical appearance.
Overuse of the Word "Love"
Near the end of the analyzed clips, Erica transitions to discussing how culture "overuses the word love." The irony of this statement was not lost on observers, given that Erica herself has frequently used love language in public statements about Charlie while simultaneously describing manipulative relationship dynamics.
The disconnect between her stated beliefs about genuine love and her admitted approach to marriage raised questions about authenticity throughout her public messaging.
Why Wasn't This Scrubbed Earlier?
The Patriotic Housewife raises an important question: if there was indeed a coordinated effort to manage Erika Kirk's public image, why wasn't this footage removed earlier? The answer may lie in overconfidence that no one would scrutinize old speeches, or perhaps the deletion came too late after the video had already been archived by others.
The pattern of scrubbing social media accounts has become noticeable among several figures in Turning Point USA's orbit. Andrew Kolvet, for example, reportedly wiped much of his online presence, with only posts from October forward remaining visible. Such wholesale deletions often draw more suspicion than leaving potentially embarrassing content online with appropriate context.
The Problem with Pretending Perfection
One of the key criticisms leveled at Erika Kirk is the attempt to present a flawless image rather than acknowledging past mistakes and growth. The Patriotic Housewife argues that authenticity and relatability come from admitting imperfection, sharing how one has changed, and being honest about the journey.
"We've all been through teenage years. We've all made bad decisions," the Patriotic Housewife notes. Being open about mistakes and how faith transformed one's life creates genuine connection with audiences. The alternative—pretending to have always been a saint—comes across as inauthentic and makes people more suspicious when contradictory evidence emerges.
Broader Questions About the Kirk Marriage
The resurfaced footage adds to existing questions about the Kirk marriage that have circulated since Charlie's death. Rumors had suggested marital problems, including reports that the couple had sold their "forever home" after only a year and moved back into an apartment, and that they weren't sleeping in the same rooms.
Erica's behavior after Charlie's death also raised eyebrows. Rather than taking time to grieve privately and focus on her children, she immediately embarked on a press tour and assumed the CEO role at Turning Point USA with what appeared to be enthusiasm rather than reluctance.
The handwriting in the "love letters" that Erica continues to post on Instagram has also been questioned. Some observers find it hard to believe the nearly illegible scrawl represents Charlie's actual handwriting, though this remains speculation.
The Importance of Genuine Faith Leadership
At the heart of the criticism is a concern about authentic Christian leadership. When public figures claim to represent biblical values while demonstrating behavior that contradicts those values, it undermines the broader faith community and gives ammunition to critics of Christianity.
The Patriotic Housewife emphasizes that being Christlike doesn't mean claiming perfection—in fact, the entire point of the Gospel is that humans cannot achieve perfection, which is why Jesus's sacrifice was necessary. Honest acknowledgment of struggles, failures, and ongoing sanctification is far more biblical than presenting an airbrushed image.
Conclusion
The resurfaced 2021 convention speech has added fuel to ongoing questions about Erika Kirk's authenticity and the true nature of her marriage to Charlie Kirk. From admissions of manipulation to revelations about Hollywood aspirations and volatile arguments, the footage presents a picture that differs significantly from the carefully managed public image.
Whether these clips represent isolated moments taken out of context or genuine glimpses into Erica's actual beliefs and behavior remains a matter of debate. What's clear is that the video has intensified scrutiny of her role at Turning Point USA and her claims about her relationship with Charlie Kirk.
Video Transcript
Welcome back for another episode of Patriotic Housewife. Well, guess what? I want an ex. And of course, there is more coming out of Erica Kirk's mouth. She just can't stop speaking. She just she's another one. Silence just is not her thing. Even though you have the right to remain silent, these people choose not to. And of course, every time they open their mouth, it's just a bunch of lies. mumbo jumbo. I I just I I can't even get over it. At what point do you look and say, "Hey, maybe I should just shut up." Like, it's it's pretty simple stuff. We're taught to be quiet majority of the time when we're kids. But I just don't get it. Especially being that nobody is not paying attention to you. everyone's watching every little thing you do and say. You would think that you would have some like brain cells to be like, "Hey, I should stay out of the public eye. I should watch what I say. Maybe I should leave the talking to, you know, the the little uh minions you have below you, Frank Turk, you know, cuz he's doing plenty of talking. Uh Rob McCoy, he's back to talking." But no, Erica just she's got to join that team. So, we're going to hop on to X right now, and I'm going to go over what Project Constitution shared. So, this is Erica Kirk uh Calvary uh confessions part one, the deleted Erica video. Erica Kirk desperately tried to hide. Five bomb bombshell clips. Uh the expose um the exposed Eric Kirk is a fraud, which we already kind of knew. Mega thread, the Eric Kirk illusion is completely unraveling. We just secured an hourong, previously deleted video of Eric Kirk speaking at the 2021 Good Things Women's Convention in California, and she accidentally exposed the entire operation. From admitting she manipulates men to inappropriate fixations with minors, here are the five smoking gun clips that she tried to hide. Not shocking. So, let's just jump into these clips. Hold on, you guys. We will pull this up in two seconds. All right. So, let's pull this up and let's see what she has to say. >> Wait, what's happening to me? And that's when the good things really started to happen. Wait, what's happening to me? And that's when the >> So, I guess people decided to make that one funny. I'm watching this uh live with you guys, so bear with me. Unbelievable. Let's listen to this one. I believe this is her actually speaking again. Project Constitution. Um, this is his page. If you don't follow him, please follow him. >> You guys are so blessed to have them as a part of your worship team. Unbelievable. I I am so happy to be back. For those of you who have no idea who I am, my name is Erica Kirk. I am married to the unbelievable husband of mine, Charles Kirk. Charlie. Um, yeah. So, last time I was here, I was a Fronve. Now I upgraded my last name to a Kirk. Not as many consonants in the last name now anymore. Uh but yeah, it was it's been an unbelievable ride since the last time that we were all together. You choose to love someone even when they aren't lovable. Just how someone chooses to love you when you're not lovable yourself. It's about having your priorities straight with regards to relationships. And I have seen this time and time again. Even coastal differences like when I was living in New York, the types of relationships that I would have that were workrelated were very transactional. >> Nice to meet you. Do business. Go on. In LA, it was like, hey, nice to meet you, but what are you going to do for me? >> One, yes, closer to being on the silver screen. Like, it's it's it's very very interesting the worldly relationships that we have and how we prioritize them. And of course, the worldly mindset is, "Yeah, but what's in it for me? What do I get out of it?" What? Oh, boy. So, let's see what he wrote here. He said, "Uh, Calvary confessions part two, the silver screen admission and transactional slip up." Right at the beginning of this clip, you can watch her attempt to force fake tears before introducing herself. But pay close attention to what happens the second she actually talks about Charlie instead of expressing a deep genuine love. She casually jokes, "Last time I was here, I was a Fran. Now I upgraded my last name to Kirk." An upgrade. She doesn't describe a biblical union. She describes a calculated social climb. I agree with that statement. I also think she should not even have the last name Kirk right now because she has done nothing to honor her husband's memory. But that is a whole another thing. But the second half of this clip is the absolute bombshell. She fully leans into the transactional nature of her relationships, describing her relationships in LA as, "Hey, nice to meet you, but what can you do for me?" Uh, one, yes, closer to being on the silver screen. Wait, did you catch that? The silver screen. Erica has repeatedly claimed she has never had any aspirations of being famous. The audio completely destroys that lie. It proves she was a Hollywood obsessed aspiring actress looking for her big break, navigating relationships based entirely on what is in it for me. Marrying Charlie wasn't love. It was the ultimate acting gig to secure her fame and social status. And she just confessed to it on a hot mic. I agree with that. I I personally think that Erica Kirk's behavior has always come off pick me, pick me personally. The the way she dresses, her demeanor, everything about it is selfish and very pick me. Uh I'm the best nose in the air. Like not one time have I ever felt like Eric Kirk comes off as like humble. I mean, I'm just saying we I also never knew who Eric Herven was until, you know, they off Charlie. Uh, whoever off Charlie. We'll just say that cuz we don't know for sure. But we do know it's not Tyler Robinson, right? So, let's read the third one. And listen, there's four videos, guys. Uh, Calvary confessions part three, the handler's confession, the neck moves the head. We have been warning you that the new TPUSA is compro is a compromised operation and that Eric Kirk was never just a wife. She was the handler. In this newly uncovered audio, she literally says the quiet part out loud uh to a room full of people. Listen to her exact words. The man is the head, but the woman is the neck, and the neck can make the head move whatever way she wants. Well, isn't that a romantic biblical thing to say? I mean, that sounds really Christian-like, but watch her body language and listen to what happens next. The second she realizes what she just admitted, she panics. She immediately gets defensive and stammers. It's not meant to be manipulative. This is the exact moment the mask slips. It is terrible uh terrible acting meant to cover her tracks. She isn't describing biblical marriage. She is describing an intelligence operation. She was pulling the strings the entire time. So before we play this, uh I think that she's always come off like this again. I think everything has looked uh right when she took over being the CEO. Uh too happy, too willing to step into the role. What happened to taking care of your kids immediately she's like on this press tour. She's like, you know, going around pedaling his book, all these things. Well, what happened to your children? You don't go from sitting at home and cooking and cleaning all day to jumping into this with like such devotion and honor and excitement if that's not really what you wanted this entire time. You know, that would typically be something you kind of fall into and you struggle at first because it's not what you really wanted. You weren't good at it, whatever. We haven't seen that from Erica Kirk. We have seen this like it's like she was on the sidelines waiting like tap me in, you know? Uh that's how it's always come across. I don't think she's ever done a good job. I don't think she's a good actor. I don't think the the the thing that lacks the most here is emotion in in being relatable, being empathetic, having compassion. In order for me to connect to somebody, if you're as cold as a rock or an ice cube, I can't I can't relate with that. There's there's there's no uh humbleness to even relate on. Uh, and and I just I think that that is what she is. I also think that she is um I don't know. She just to me she comes across calculated. That's just me though. Um, let's jump into this clip. >> One of my favorite movies is My Big Fat Greek Wedding. How many of you have seen that movie? I love that movie. I could watch it on repeat. And so there's a point in the movie where >> I hope there's a point to this story because we don't really care what your favorite movie is >> where the mom and the daughter are talking about this one moment before they're about to before she's about to get married and she's trying to convince the father to do something that he does not want to do. And they have the whole all the women are everywhere. It's total chaos. It's like absolute mayhem. And the mom, she's like, "Don't worry. Don't worry." She's like, "The man is the head, but the woman, the woman is the neck, and the neck can make the head move whatever way she wants." And I just was like, "Exactly. Cuz if you picture the physical body, and it's not meant to be manipulative. Some people are like, "Oh, I'll move the head wherever I want because I'm going to manipulate my husband." That has nothing to do with it. If you picture the physical body, you can't move your head without your neck. You can't. You >> Oh man, is that backpedaling? If I've ever seen it, oh my gosh, I can't take it. Your head is supported by your whole body and it determines which way the head will turn because a wise husband will listen to a wise wife. He will. Well, then what the heck happened to Charlie Kirk? >> I mean, uh, if he was wise, he wouldn't have ended up in a marriage with you. Let's Let's start there. Oh, there's more than four clips. I'm sorry. Um, I originally only saw four, but um, that's okay because we're here together in misery to listen to this schmuck. >> Uh, for trying to be appropriate here. Um, well, we could call her a demon. We could call her a Jezebel. We We I'm sure you guys let me know in the comments what what names you got for Eric Kirk that aren't cuss words. Um, anyway, like that could be entertaining. Um anyway, so you could tell I mean that you the mom was saying women can manipulate men. I mean it that that's what she was saying. Um and it's not biblical because men and women are a team. They're a union. Uh they're supposed to become one when you get married. And you are supposed to honor and respect each other. Everyone has their roles. Uh you know, gender roles, roles of a marriage, um things that women do, things that men do. Uh men are the leader of the house. They are to respect and love their wife. They are to to be the breadwinners. Uh they're the leader of the house. They're to lead their family when it comes to uh church and the Bible and and right and wrong and all these things. The man dictates all that. And so, yeah, it for somebody who uh went and got like a biblical degree, uh allegedly all these things, um I just don't I don't think you would make this joke about manipulation. Uh and you could tell after she said it, she was like, "Oh, that can come off the wrong way." Uh these people don't think before they speak at all whatsoever. So, let's read this really quick. Um >> Cavary Confessions part four, the conditioning slip up. If you thought the first clip was bad, watch this absolute master class in psych uh psychological projection. Uh which uh while trying to explain her biblical marriage, Erica goes completely off script and unprompted to loudly declare, "I'm uh I am literally choosing on my own to willfully put myself under the leadership of my husband. He did not condition me to obey him." Well, that's interesting because again, gender roles. Wait a minute. who said anything about being conditioned. This is a hyperdefensive, completely unprompted denial. It is the exact behavior um behavioral tell of someone who is uh desperately overcompensating for a completely fabricated dynamic. People in genuine loving marriages do not have to randomly convince a room full of people that they weren't conditioned. Uh it is terrible acting. It screams that she was managing an operation and playing a role, not participating in a role relationship. Um, yeah, I think we've all seen this and I think again she's very robotic like to me, but let's listen to this. >> So, there's a difference between being submissive and having submission versus obedience. Obedience would imply that there's force, some kind of forced action behind that. So, for instance, we have a family dog named Rudy. Rudy little dog uh tyrant. Uh he is obedient and conditioned to obey certain comm. >> She's a tyrant. I bet you her dog's an angel compared to her >> commands. Rudy will never be submissive. He will be obedient, but he'll never be submissive. The whole idea behind being submissive is that I am literally choosing on my own to willfully put myself under the leadership of my husband because I respect you. So there's a difference between being submissive I respect you so much that I had something to do with the of you allegedly. I ain't say it. I ain't say nothing. All right. Calvary confessions part five. the toxic marriage confession. If you needed any more proof to completely shatter the fake perfect Christian wife illusion Erica Kirk tries to sell to her audience, look no further than this clip. While trying to be relatable on stage, she recounts an old saying about the stages of marriage ending with the punchline, "The third year of marriage, they both speak with the neighbors listen." So, we're on track. Did you catch that? What? Uh, with a cringeworthy laugh, she casually admits to screaming matches with Charlie so that the neighbors could hear them. Uh, this wasn't the loving, peaceful, biblical union she profits off of. It was toxic, a volatile dynamic. She just confessed to it on microphone and thought it was a cute joke. The entire relationship was manufactured facade. We already knew that. Uh, I truly believe uh, real quick that, um, I'm going to stop making this bigger actually right now. Um, I I told you guys in a previous video I did when I was going over the Glen Beck interview really quick that there were rumors that they were getting divorced. They sold the big forever home that they bought uh they only owned it for like around a year and then they moved back into an apartment which is weird. Um, and then they weren't sleeping in the same rooms and I always said, "Okay, maybe they slept in different rooms the night before." But he had to come in and get his wedding ring and his necklace and he didn't kiss you goodbye, but he was writing new love letters every Saturday. Interesting. By the way, every single love letter that she still to this day will post on her Instagram. I need to see Charlie Kirk's real handwriting because the handwriting is so awful. I find it hard to believe that that was his handwriting. Like you can't who can even read that if this is really like his handwriting. and he was wring these love notes. Like, how did you read the love note? I mean, it's like chicken scratch times a gazillion. But I digress. Let's jump into this. >> How many in here have been married for three years or less? >> Ah, me too. Uh, they say that the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. And then the second year of marriage, the woman speaks and the man listens. God bless you. And the third year of marriage, they both speak and the neighbors listen. So, we're on track. Uh, but in our culture today, we have a tendency to overuse the word love. Girl, that's crazy because I could tell you, my husband and I argue, not one neighbor can tell you they heard our argument. So, no, we're not on track. No, that's not normal. Uh, my husband actually, like when we talk about fighting, like, you know, I'm Italian, right? He's Cuban, German. I'm Italian, Polish. So, you can only imagine how feisty those arguments can be. You can only imagine if we had a child. I always say if we had a kid, uh, he'd be in detention all the time. I always say I would have a boy. I don't know why. I always feel like I would have a boy if I had kids. Um, but they would they'd be in detention all the time. They would be so stubborn. Oh my gosh. If they were like each of us, I don't even know. We'd be in so much trouble. You know, they always say your kids are like a portion of what you were. And I'm like, "Oo, we'd be in so much trouble." Anyway, uh that's not important. But um I could honestly say that we we will start to raise our voices. It's never yelling. It's just, you know, you do raise your voice like an octave and we'll both remind each other like, "Can you not do that?" Like, "Can you not raise your voice?" Like, "I'm right here. I can hear you." Um it is not normal to take your arguments outside. It's not normal for the neighbors to hear you. If you share a wall, you live in an apartment, a condo, like you should be conscious of the the fact that other people share a wall with you and maybe they're sleeping and they work a different shift or whatever. Like, I'm not saying things don't happen. Obviously, life happens. But that's nothing to be laughing about. Like, if I was fighting with my husband and and these were like knockout dragout fights, I would not be bragging about that on a stage. Those are not moments I would be out there like parading around telling everybody. Um, yeah. I don't know. I you know I remember and I'll before we get into this last clip um I believe this is the last one. I'll leave you with this. When so when I got diagnosed with lupus and fibromyalgia, I lost my job. My grandpa died. It was like really bad. It all happened around the same time. And it was the last family vacation that we uh one of the last ones with my dad before he died. And my dad sat us both on the porch and he was like, "Listen, Wendy and I have been married for 38 years." And he's like, "Do you think we stayed married by me arguing out every point that she has or if she starts, you know, getting mad and picking at me like and vice versa. Everybody has to learn to be quiet. Pick your battles. go in a separate room, cool off, and either if it's worth arguing over, you come back to it and you talk about it, or you get over it and you realize it was stupid. And my dad was like, "Life is going to be hard, you know." And I remember people telling us the first five year, first five years of marriage are the hardest. And I remember being like, "That can't be true because for the most part, like we were having a good old time. Like I was like, this I married my best friend. I did marry my best friend." And you are going to have ups and downs and life is going to try you. I could tell you that, you know, 20 22 until now, uh, until getting through this houseire, we were tested and it didn't change our love for each other. I actually think we are so much closer. We have so much more respect for each other. There's a closeness that we don't even have to speak about because of all the things that we've gone through together. Uh, this unspoken respect, support, love. It's all these things. And I look at my husband, I'm like, that's my when you can truly be yourself in every form of yourself in front of somebody and them still love you and be like, you know what, we're going to do this together. We're going to get through this together. And that that's it. Like that's your person. And I can say that there were times because a lot of it's been on my end where things have always been kind of like crazy. My grandma died, my grandpa died, my dad died. you know, I just felt like I was like always bringing down, you know, bringing us down a little bit. You know, I lost my job. I got sick. All things I can't help. And my husband looked at me, he's like, "I love you. We're going to do this together. Like, we're going to figure it out." And that's hard to come by. And when you find it, that's that's your person. You guys should be not looking at that like, "Oh, this person brings me down, but we're going to get through this together, and this is the person I want to go through my downs with." And that's just how we look at it. Life is going to give you a crap sandwich all the time. more than not, I would say. And um don't expect, you know, this like easy, perfect life. I just I don't even expect that anymore. I'm okay with that. I'm okay with a hard walk. I'm okay with uh you know, Jesus carried his cross. And the whole, like I say in previous podcasts, you know, the job is to carry your cross. I'm just carrying my cross. It's hard. It sucks. But um I have to do it and you have to keep going. But anyway, uh for her to say that, it's just wild to me because um there is no need for yelling and screaming. I think when you are in a respectful marriage and in a healthy marriage, in a a marriage that is before God, I don't think you act disrespectful to your spouse and screaming and yelling and carrying on like that is disrespectful to your spouse and it's disrespectful to your children and the people around you. And I I just would not be promoting that. I don't think that is something to laugh about nor brag about. Uh so sorry for that part of the rant, but anywh who um if you're in a relationship where you guys yell and scream and it's a very toxic relationship, get out. I promise you there's better out there. I've been with almost married a cheater who left me for my bridesmaid. I'll tell that story eventually. Um my friend who's standing up at my wedding. Let let the trash take itself out of your life. Like leave it alone. There is better out there. I promise you, when you're not looking and you're focusing on yourself and you're becoming a better version of you, somebody walks into your life that you never thought you was going to be your person and they're your person. It happened to me. My grandparents always told me that's how it works. It's how it works. Anywh who, uh let's get into this. Uh part six, Cavalry Confessions, part six, the bizarre youth fixation as part of our ongoing investigation into the incredibly weird behavior and allegations of an inappropriate focus on youth surrounding Eric Kirk. This clip is a massive red flag. While attempting to pay uh play the ultimate moral authority on stage, she completely zeros in on the physical bodies and clothing of young girls. She starts by stating, "I think a 16-year-old should dress like a 16-year-old." And then oddly jumps to lecturing about 12-year-olds wanting to be 22. Uh given everything we are uncovering about the behind the scenes, including her alleged grooming of minors, this um imprompt comes across as incredibly creepy, overly fixated, and highly hypocritical. Watch the fixation yourself. I'm curious to see what you guys think of this. Like I said, I'm watching all of this live with you guys. I have not watched any of this, so let's watch this together. And and you guys let me know in the comments what you think of some of these videos. Be pure, not only in the way you act, but also in the way you look and how you speak and how you think. Our culture thinks that purity is prudish, that it's out ofd. Call me old school, but I think a 16-year-old should dress like a 16-year-old. I think a young woman should dress like a one young woman. I I believe that you should you should buy clothes that fit your body and not try to fit your clothes into body and your body into clothes that don't fit because there's a season of life for everything. And we have a tendency as women to try and skip seasons of women womanhood because we're looking at over here versus where you are right then and there. And I think that God has you in a specific season of womanhood because there's lessons that you need to learn. So if you go from being 12 to wanting to be 22, there's going to be a lot of heartache in between because there's a lot of lessons that you didn't learn. >> Okay, you guys let me know in the comments what you guys thought of that. All right, I'm going to give a quick little rundown of this. I think everyone when they're young always wants to be older than what they are. When you're, you know, when you're 14, you can't wait to be 16 because you can drive. When you're 16, you can't wait to be 18 because you can do what whatever you want in your mind, right? Little do you know that you don't know crap about crap. You don't know your butthole from a hole in the wall. I swear I say that. I am 37 and I still don't know sometimes. Okay, that's life. Uh, old and wise for a reason. I've said that. Um, every kid wants to be older than what they are. That's just life, you know. And then you get to those ages and then eventually after 21 you're like, "Well, dang." And then if you don't have kids, you're like, "Well, what's left now?" Like picking out a casket. I'm just kidding. Sort of. My husband and I joke about that if you don't have kids. But um and that's a joke because we enjoy our life without kids. I love my niece. I love my nephew. I I have plenty of I have dogs, so I'm technically, you know, a mom in a sense. Um but I'm just saying that we've all been there. Now, about the clothing, this is the parents fault. When I was in high school, I remember girls my freshman year were wearing mini skirts and stuff. My mom did not let me wear a mini skirt or any, you know, like a shorter skirt. Um, until I was a sophomore. Um, I, you know, my mom didn't allow me in crop tops. I didn't wear crop tops until I was an adult. Um, my parents, you know, I remember being in junior high and so this is probably, everyone's going to be able to tell my age, right? Aeropastel was in, you know, like the pajama pants with the arrow across the butt and like, you know, all the varsity letters on stuff and American Eagle was everything. Abberrombie and Fitch was everything. How, you know, that was like the thing, the Ebroi polos and like we wore the sequin belts and I like I'm so glad I grew up in the time I did. I just I don't know. So, I thought it was very fun. I wouldn't change it. Um although I do love rock and roll and like stuff like that, so I maybe I would I don't know. That'd be fun, too. Like all the big hair and like the leotars and I don't know. Um anyway, so um gosh, it makes me laugh how we dressed. Uh but anyway, the bottom line is is that the parents allow their kids to dress younger than what they are. It's not the kids' fault, it's the parents fault. Uh, hold on. The dogs are barking, you guys. So, sorry, guys. If you're a regular on this channel, you know, I have three little ones and the oldest one seems to love to bark to get the other ones to go off and then it's like a effect from there. Anywh who, um, but it's the parents fault. You don't buy your kids crop tops. I remember being in junior high and all the girls were wearing crop tops and stuff and we used to go to the roller rink. I know so many of you went to the roller rink. This is so off topic going from Charlie Kirk to this, but promise there's a point. I would come downstairs and before my parents were going to drive us to the roller rink, they'd be like, my mom was like, "Lift your shirt. Let me see what's under there." And I remember I borrowed a crop top from a friend and I lifted my shirt. My mom's like, "Get up there and change." Came back down. She's like, "Is there anything under there?" I'm like, "No." You know, like I don't have any other top under there. Um, but part of being a parent is you being involved in your kids' lives and making sure of what your kids are doing. Back then, my mom and dad worked opposite shifts. So, someone was always home with the kids, making sure the homework was done before you went outside. And when the street lights came on, that was your time to come in. Parents didn't tell you, "Hey, be home at this time." You knew, "Hey, when the street lights come on, my butt better be in in the house." What my mom made for dinner, we ate for dinner. My mom always said, "This is not a restaurant. If you don't eat what I made, then you starve. End of story. Like the there the options that people give kids nowadays is the problem, you know. And I for her to, you know, say, "Oh, well, you know, like the girls are it's the parents. It all stems from the parents." Like you guys should keep an eye on your children. If you can't keep an eye on the children, grandparents, you know what I mean? You I'm sure you can get some help. But like at the end of the day, I do think with both parents having to work, that's why we see, you know, parents struggling with having control over their kids or knowing what they're really up to because both parents have to work. Uh the only thing that really works is if you can get on opposite shifts. And that's hard to do. And that's not and I'm not saying this is a knock. I don't have kids. So I don't I don't live that life, but I could tell you that I watched two parents who didn't go to college, who lived paycheck to paycheck. My dad had holes in his clothes half the time and it was because they worked opposite shifts. My mom was a waitress. My dad was a truck driver to make it work so that someone was always with us. We never went without kids. We were always in sports. They kept us busy. We were never in trouble. Never in any major trouble at all whatsoever. We I didn't have a lot of friends growing up. I was teased. The bottom line is is that that stuff is all on the parents. if you don't buy it and you pay attention to what your kids are doing, that stuff doesn't go on. Again, I don't know why Eric even thought that that was something to like rant off into. Um, and wanting to be older when you're younger is normal. You know, it's like when you think your parents are the worst people in the world. You're like, I can't wait to turn 18 and get out of here and do what I want. And then you realize, well, dang, once you get on your own, rent, phone bill, gas, car payment, car insurance, uh, medical benefits, um, real life happens and being an adult is not cheap. It's not fun. It's going to work, paying the bills, going to sleep, going to work, paying the bills, going to sleep, and occasionally you get some fun. Um, I would give anything to be a kid again. So, yes, all kids want to go faster than what they should. And I'm sure we've all, you guys, let me know in the comments how many of you guys had grandparents or parents that told you, "Don't be in a rush to grow up. One day you're going to wish you could come back to this." My parents told us all the time, don't be in a rush. Don't be in a rush. Don't be in a rush. But we're always in a rush. So, anyways, that's my rant for that today. Um, on a last note, you know, it's very interesting that they apparently don't think, you know, prior to this, why didn't they delete all this stuff before they this whole plan came about allegedly this plan or whatever went on? Because you knew people were going to tear. Well, I guess they didn't. They didn't think people were going to go and like look through things again. I think they bked on everyone being stupid. But you think that you would have went and did some like homework of your own of like maybe I should get rid of this, maybe I should get rid of this, maybe we should, you know, whatever. And not only that, you can delete some stuff, but I think deleting everything looks really bad. Like at least if they, for instance, like now when you look up Andrew Kvat, you can't find like much of anything. A lot of his information is wiped off the internet and then he like wiped his ex. I did a whole video on this. There's only October forward. Uh, why would you do that? If there's nothing weird and there's nothing going on and like whatever, why would you wipe your ex? Why would you clean it? Why would you scrub it? It doesn't make sense. But when you do that, when you totally start scrubbing things, it looks really bad. Like, we've all been through teenage years. We've all made bad decisions. We've all been somebody we shouldn't have been at one time. We've all made mistakes. So, why not just make yourself relatable and just be like, "Yeah, I've done stupid stuff. Yeah, I've said stupid stuff publicly. Yeah, I have I made this bad decision. Yeah, I had sex before marriage, but then, you know, um I realized that, you know, I wanted to have a deeper relationship with Christ and, you know, I got rebaptized and I've changed my life. Like, that is so much more relatable and appreciated versus you pretending like you've been a saint your whole life. I have not been a saint my whole life. Okay? I have not. It's It's just life. It's life. I'm not perfect. I'm never going to be perfect. I don't even try to be perfect. Being Christlike is not possible. It is not possible to be perfect. Hence why we have Jesus died on a cross for us because he knew that we were never going to be perfect. That was said in church this past Sunday. He knew we were not capable of being perfect enough to get into heaven. And so he paid for all of our sins. He paid for all of our imperfect behavior so that we could have a relationship with God. And I'm not going to get into the whole church message. I'll I'll probably do another church me message, but I think I'm going to start making those for members only. Um, just because of how personal they are. I'm also going to start doing some membersonly content about like my life, things I've been through because I've been through so many different things. uh that would be good for people who are going through rough times or um breakups and and you know um I don't know I've just I've I've been through a lot like a lot and I think it's important to share your stories and what you've been through and hopefully it'll help somebody and touch someone else and it can change their their point of view or help them be encouraged to change their life. It's never too late to change your life. It's never too late to be better, to go to school, to learn something new. Um, no matter what someone tells you, that's not true. Um, life is limitless. You get one go around. Do it all. Do it all when you want, how you want. Um, of course, I mean, not how you want. Like, obviously, I'm a Christian, so I believe that, you know, I can't, it's not about how I want, right, in that way, but I'm just saying be happy. Be happy. if learning how to paint, learning how to golf makes you happy, do those things. Um, as long as it's not hurting anyone, it's not, you know, it's not bad, you know. Um, but anyways, please let me know what you guys think in the comments. Be sure to like, comment, and share the videos. Um, I appreciate all of you guys. You guys are truly amazing. Um, again, please subscribe to the channel. I have been going through the analytics and I've noticed that a lot of people watching the videos aren't subscribed to the channels, but they're watching content regularly. So, I would really appreciate if you would subscribe to the channel and um as always, I'm praying for you guys. God bless you all and I will see you guys all in the next one.