Brandon Tatum and Candace Owens Discuss Black Culture, Faith, Family and the Battle for America's Soul
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Brandon Tatum and Candace Owens Discuss Black Culture, Faith, Family and the Battle for America's Soul
Brandon Tatum and Candace Owens deliver an unfiltered conversation about the state of Black culture in America, the attack on traditional family values, and the indoctrination happening in schools. From the feminization of men to the poison of critical race theory, they tackle why personal responsibility has been replaced with victimhood, how government seeks to replace parents, and what's at stake if Americans don't wake up. Both new parents themselves, they share what they're doing to protect their children from a culture that celebrates dysfunction over faith, family, and hard work. This is a call to action for every American to figure out their role in saving the country before it's too late.
The Crisis in Black Culture and American Masculinity
Brandon Tatum opens the conversation by addressing what he sees as a fundamental shift in American culture: the loss of personal responsibility. He reflects on how previous generations, particularly Black Americans who faced real systemic oppression during Jim Crow, never complained the way modern Americans do. He contrasts his grandfather's generation—men who lived through actual segregation—with today's college students who claim oppression because a conservative speaker comes to campus.
The feminization of men has become a crisis across all communities. Tatum points out that men today are wearing dresses, crying in public, and losing the boldness that once defined masculinity. He recalls how civil rights leaders like Martin Luther King Jr. showed up to protests in suits, presenting themselves with dignity and respect, while today's activists embrace emotionalism over strength.
Candace Owens adds historical perspective, noting that the average soldier who stormed Omaha Beach on D-Day was 22 years old—crying for their mothers as they crossed the English Channel into a slaughter. Today's average 22-year-old cries because Ben Shapiro is speaking on their campus. The contrast reveals how soft and entitled modern culture has become.
The Media Narrative and the George Floyd Question
Tatum addresses recent high-profile cases involving police and Black Americans, including Adam Toledo and Daunte Wright. He refuses to accept the media's emotional narrative, instead asking why a 13-year-old has a gun at 2 AM shooting in an intersection, or why a 20-year-old man has a warrant for armed robbery and is driving on a suspended license. These are questions about personal choices and parenting, not systemic racism.
Owens discusses her experience questioning the George Floyd narrative. When she simply Googled his criminal record and pointed out that he spent his life traumatizing Black people—including armed robbery with a gun to a pregnant woman's stomach—she was called an Uncle Tom. She asks a simple question: why should Black people without criminal records risk arrest by rioting for someone who spent his entire life harming the Black community?
The real issue, both agree, is that the media wants emotional reactions, not rational questions. They want people angry, rioting, and looting—destroying their own communities in the name of justice. Meanwhile, the fundamental questions about personal responsibility, fatherlessness, and cultural dysfunction are ignored.
The Collapse of the American Education System
Owens identifies the education system as the most important battleground right now. Schools are no longer teaching hard academics like math and engineering. Instead, they're producing activists who can tell you about feminism, racism, and sexism but can't solve basic math problems or change a light bulb. America is now producing the dumbest generation of kids ever, yet handing out more degrees than ever before—meaningless degrees in feminist dance theory, Latinx studies, and transgender studies.
Critical race theory represents an abomination—teaching children to hate each other based on skin color. Telling a child they are oppressed because of their skin color is racism. Telling a child they are privileged because of their skin color is racism. This is the exact opposite of Martin Luther King Jr.'s dream of judging people by the content of their character, not the color of their skin.
The goal, according to Owens, is to replace hard academics with division and victimhood, while simultaneously convincing kids they know everything when they actually know nothing. This creates a generation of angry activists with meaningless degrees who can't function in the real world.
Government's War on the Family
Both Tatum and Owens identify a common thread running through leftist policies: an attack on the traditional family. Whether it's transgender ideology, feminism, bathroom signs, or the MeToo movement, the goal is to undermine the family unit so government can step in as both mother and father.
When children are taught they can pick their gender and have corrective surgery (a nice term for genital mutilation), those children will never be able to have normal families. When feminism teaches women that men are the source of all their problems, women cannot have functional relationships. When welfare policies create baby mama culture, single motherhood becomes normalized even though it makes success exponentially harder for children.
The left wants to become your god, your daddy, and the solution to every problem—replacing the role that families, communities, and churches once filled. Tatum emphasizes that the loss of connection to God is the root of many cultural problems. His grandmother carried a Bible everywhere and would discipline with it if necessary. Big Mama's generation believed in God, church, and service—values that gave young people purpose and direction.
The Poison of Modern Feminism
Owens, now a new mother to a 13-week-old son, speaks candidly about how feminism has become a cancer. Feminists advocate for things that don't make women happy, yet pressure women to convince themselves these things should make them happy. The message is that women should want to be CEO of a Fortune 100 company while also having and raising children—an impossible standard that biology doesn't support.
The patriarchy didn't decide women would have children—God designed it that way. Men didn't get together in a board meeting to assign that role to women. And of all the accomplishments in Owens' life—all the important people she's met, all the places she's traveled—nothing compares to when her child smiles back at her or when she's successfully gotten him down to sleep. Family is the most important thing, yet modern feminism tells women the real meaning comes from climbing a corporate ladder.
Tatum adds that there's nothing wrong with women expecting men to be men—to hold doors, to lead, to protect, to provide. His wife is a powerhouse who could do everything on her own, but she respects his position as the man of the house. She expects him to pray every night for their family, to lead them, to work hard and provide. That's not oppression—it's partnership based on respect and traditional values.
The Hypersexual Culture and Social Media Poison
Owens points out that modern culture celebrates women who post half-naked photos on Instagram, calling it empowerment and freedom. She argues the opposite: thinking the only way to be heard or respected is by taking off your clothes is the highest form of slavery, not freedom. The culture that tells women this is the way to be valued is destroying relationships and families.
Social media has created an environment where people feel they can hit refresh and find someone younger, someone with a tighter body—all using filters that create a reality that doesn't even exist. This is poisonous to relationships and one of the biggest issues facing families today. Previous generations stayed together because they weren't constantly comparing their spouse to an impossible, filtered standard of beauty or success.
Solutions for Parents in a Poisoned Culture
Both Tatum and Owens, as new parents, share their approach to raising children in this environment. Tatum emphasizes being present—not just physically in the house, but emotionally available. He wants his sons to know they can talk to him, confide in him, come to him with problems. He wants vulnerability and intimacy with his children, not just to be the authoritarian figure watching football in the background.
Owens and her husband have made clear decisions: no social media for their children, and no public school education. She emphasizes that parents need to understand this is not the same country they were raised in. The public education system has become an indoctrination machine producing passionate socialist and communist activists who are passionate failures.
The solution requires individual action on a community level. Just like the Pilgrims and early Americans educated their children through neighborhood cooperation—I'll take Mondays, you take Tuesdays, you take Wednesdays—modern parents need to reclaim responsibility for their children's education and upbringing.
Why America Remains the Greatest Country
Despite all the problems, both speakers affirm that America remains the greatest country in the world. The simplest proof: everyone is trying to get in, not out. If you ask people who claim other countries are better than America—why do we need open borders? Why is everyone trying to get here if it's so terrible?
Chinese and Korean students may be better at mathematics than American students, but they use that skill to come to America, not the other way around. There's something fundamentally right about America that transcends individual metrics. America is an idea—the belief that hard work wins, that you can succeed regardless of your background, that freedom and free market capitalism reward effort and innovation.
This idea can only exist and thrive in a free market capitalist society. But America is being threatened from the inside out right now. Tanks aren't rolling in to conquer America—instead, the conquest is happening through schools, media, and culture. Anti-American sentiment is being injected into children's minds, teaching them to hate the country that has given them the most opportunity of any humans who have ever lived.
A Call to Action: Find Your Role in the Fight
Owens closes with an urgent call to action. This is a cultural war, and every person has a role to play. Maybe you're the rapper who can put together rhymes about Christianity, ethics, and family while keeping your clothes on. Maybe you're the financier who can write checks to support those artists and content creators. Maybe you're the writer who can research and expose lies in the media. Maybe you're the business owner who can hire kids straight out of high school and teach them real skills, undermining the college indoctrination system.
Both Tatum and Owens started their careers on YouTube with nothing but ideas and people who believed in their vision. When Owens started Blexit, people from around the world poured in support because they wanted to see the movement in every city. Individual contributions matter. Every talent matters. Every person in the room has something to contribute to saving America.
The time is now—not tomorrow, not next week. America is on the brink of losing everything that makes it great. The only way to save it is for Americans of every color—Black, white, Hispanic, Asian—to come together not as separate identity groups, but as Americans united by the idea that made this country exceptional. The division based on race, sex, and gender is a weapon being used to destroy America from within. Only together can Americans turn the ship around before it hits the iceberg.
Video Transcript
we're going to do something we haven't done before we decided that brandon and i are just going to go live on youtube right now and do a podcast brandon always starts his podcast let's get into this so i feel like we got to start with let's get into this and i wanna i guess we what i wanna start with is the reason i wanted to point out all the wrappers here is because there's you know stand up just the three of you guys stand up all three of you stand up [Applause] [Music] yeah we have people that are making uh music right now starting to make music in the black community that is about faith family god and individuality so i want to shout that out so let's talk about culture brandon we were just having an interesting discussion backstage why don't you why don't you start off and just tell me i guess what your viewpoint is on the direction that black culture and culture in general i think would be fair to say is treading right now in america well i think uh cultures you know people are so soft these days i mean this weak soft crybabies men don't want to be men anymore it's and it's across the board and you know you can see that with people who lack personal responsibility you know i was raised that everything that happened to you has everything to do with your attitude and the way you you know handle adversity it's not somebody else's fault you can't blame the white man you can't blame your cousin them you can't blame none of these people you got to look in the mirror at that person that you see every day and say do i want to win the day or do i want to lose do i want to keep selling drugs or do i want to put the drugs down and actually live a life of freedom you know do i want to be married do i want to you know keep sleeping with women i'm not married you know put myself in a position to have children out of wedlock those are decisions that you make as an individual and i feel like people want to pass the bucket to everybody else instead of looking in the mirror start looking in the mirror start being the best version of yourself and i think that that will change culture for the better i want to add to that because i actually had done an event the other night and um what you're talking about is a generational change the mindset has changed from one generation to the next and i you guys know my grandfather is my i am he's my biggest fan and i'm his biggest fan and he really is my idol um and it's so interesting to me to to have lived you know been raised by a man who lived through real racism when i say real racism i'm talking about real systemic oppression jim crow laws right a grandfather who grew up in a segregated south and to speak to him on a daily basis and to have him never complain about anything right then you find your average american today and they never stop complaining about anything right it's it's a non-stop complaining and so you look at the generation you say just a couple of generations ago the average age of d-day when when they landed those ships um in in france the average age of a soldier that fought it was an absolute slaughter fest obviously you know that omaha beach we got the bad beach it was just bad luck you know we went with the canadians the britons americas americans got omaha beach the average age as they were crossing the english channel they were crying saying that they wanted their mother was 22 years old 22 years old your average 22 year old today if i find i don't care what race you are right if i find a 22 year old today the average one on a college campus is crying because ben shapiro's coming to speak and i just can't deal with it it's pathetic yeah you know i was i was just at clemson uh speaking and they went they had all these people out there protesting and saying that our presence on the campus was oppressive to them and that it's somehow i don't know if it's hurting their grades or whatever because we're i i just don't i don't understand and and another thing with culture nowadays is people are so uninformed i mean they make such emotional decisions about everything you know they read a headline and that's what they go they'll die on that hill uh one perfect example and and i'm detouring just a little bit one perfect example is the the young guy that got killed the 13 year old boy adam toledo got killed by a police officer and if you look at the news you look at everybody's outrage they want to protest they got t-shirts already printed out and they're going this guy didn't have a gun the cops just murdered him in cold blood we need justice we need to demilitarize police and it's like you guys are completely missing the point you're completely wrong the kid had a gun it was unfortunate but he had a gun the biggest question that we should be talking about if people want to hold themselves accountable is why does a 13 year old have a gun at 2 am shooting the gun off in the intersection and running from police and and i'll add this other one in with the with uh dante wright okay you know i wish that people would not resist the rest i mean it's kind of it's just simple like i get pulled out by a cop because i'm wrong whether i'm wrong or not i'm not going to resist and i would live nine times out of ten for sure but the question is to me is that why is a 20 year old man on social media waving around a gun smoking a blunt with hennessy in his hand with a warrant for his arrest for um robbing a woman choking and robbing a woman at gunpoint and not showing up to court driving on a suspended registration what what culture what what type of young men are we creating that this young man is doing all these things at the age of 20 and he had a young daughter that is that to me is more baffling than the police interaction because all of these things that has happened in his life all of the choices that his parents made and that he made got him in a position for a police officer to make a mistake now don't get me wrong she should never be a police officer again in my personal opinion there's no way you should confuse a now there's a psychological reason why you could but there's no legitimate reason why you should confuse the two but all of these things led this young man to the position that he was in we see the same thing with george floyd we see the same thing with all of these people that are getting killed by police it's decisions that they're making and not holding themselves accountable and i think one of the things to ask ourselves is why we're not allowed to ask why right so you you have a situation that happens and everybody wants you to react emotionally and in an ideal scenario they want you to go out and they want you to write and they want you to loot and for whatever reason they want you to steal a tv from target because right now i feel like that's a thing right i feel like now actually people aren't even upset and they're just going yay it's still a tv from target night and we can run in and we can steal a tv but what i have found interesting is that these are really important questions why was people have guns why why did george floyd you're saying you're doing this because black lives matter but you refuse to discuss the fact that this individual george floyd aside from being a drug addict let's not forget when i first did that video everyone swore he was saint george they were saying that he had just gotten his life back together all of these lies were making their way around the world and i just asked a simple question i just googled his record right and i said if you're talking about preserving last you know black lives or helping black lives this man spent his entire life traumatizing black people he was arrested for armed robbery several times he spent nine stints in prison he was moving drugs so you're moving drugs into the black community you're getting arrested you know for armed robbery you put a gun to a a a black or hispanic woman you know a minority woman's stomach while her two-year-old was in the room her toddler was in the room you've traumatized black people your entire life and you want me to go out and riot in lieu on your behalf when on a day that you were ingesting drugs you were high on fentanyl isn't this just called like you know you know a cycle of crazy you want me to go risk being arrested so you have a bunch of people who don't have records who are told that they're supposed to be emotional they're supposed to go out they're supposed to riot they're supposed to loot in turn what is the circumstance you have one black person you know who died that day and it's what seems to be clear to me from his medical records is of a drug overdose whether or not let's not even discuss derek shobin just purely one person one black life and you are willing to kill how many black lives for that right we're heart we're hurting the black community and yet when two people get on stage and want to talk about that we're told we're the uncle toms where the coons because we are not falling for what seems to me to be a more nefarious media message which is that black people are only worth anything if they're outside and they're angry and they're rioting and they're destroying their own communities amen one of the issues that i see is that i feel like that many people you know including uh americans of african descent is what i like to call black people in this country like losing the connection with god is where i see the biggest problems there we're not connecting with god like we used to big mama used to have a big old bible that she carried around all the time and you get in trouble she'll probably pop you in the head with it in the name of jesus power so you know but we grew up in you know believing in god and grandma used to always say you're going to go to jail or hell if you keep going down that path selling them drugs and don't get your lesson grandma you say lessons you don't say go to school you can get your lesson i'm like give my lesson but but but that's that used to be valuable to us going to church being a man of god teaching young people how to be leaders and servants serving in the church and different things like that i mean even if you're not a christian you can understand service i learned a long time ago and the reason why i love this country so much is when i started serving with my life when i became a police officer and i had to put my life on the line and i said you know what i'm i'm i'm willing to die for people that i do not even know that made me more patriotic that made me feel like i have value and and the problem is that without god and without serving others our young people don't feel like they have value and they gain value from gangs listening to cardi b twerking and doing all this other crazy stuff and and they see the value there and that doesn't get you far in life that's not going to make you successful that's not going to put you in a position where you really want to be well and i want to talk about the education system because in my opinion i think it's the most important discussion that we should be having right now is what's happening to the american education system it's completely collapsed and if you look at what they're trying to do in terms of radically transforming the education system so first they started this initiative you know when i was young it was you have to go to college you have to go to college the pressure from the guidance counselors go to college you're going to be a failure right well when you think about that those are really the early seeds for taking over the minds of children making them think that the only way that you're going to be successful is to go to college because as we're learning today these people are going to school and they're learning to become activists that used to be reserved on a college campus we're seeing these people come out of college they're angry they're activists they're coloring their hair purple they're woke to the world they can tell you about feminism racism sexism give me ism and they can tell you about it but they can't do basic things like change a light bulb right so what we're doing right now is the education system especially with this new initiative called critical race theory um which is an abomination we'll get into that in a second it's an absolute abomination you're teaching children how to hate one another it's the exact opposite of what martin luther king's dream was right teaching people how to hate each other to say to a child on the basis of their skin color you are oppressed is racism to say to a child the basis of their skin color you are privileged is racism you do not get to look at somebody's skin color and assign a bunch of attributes to them that's a literal definition of racism but why are they starting this initiative in my opinion the star english initiative because first and foremost they seek to divide people but also because what they're simultaneously doing is they're replacing hard academics meaning kids today they they can tell you all about the problems in the world but they they can't solve their math homework right so they're not learning the hard academics like math engineering we're producing right now in america and i learned this through a thomas saw book this is the dumbest kids that have ever existed that have ever existed in america they know nothing they're they're failing their sats and yet interestingly there have never been more degrees handed out so they're not passing the tests but they're all getting degrees the question is is why why are we handing out meaningless degrees in feminist dance theory in latinx studies latin x studies which is like if you even use the word latinx i can tell you real quick you're not a latino right the whole language would have to be redone if you started replacing it with an ex everything is a girl or a woman they're teaching transgendered studies you know pick your gender what do you think is the evil and the goal in doing this when you're when these kids actually know nothing but you're convincing them with these meaningless degrees that they know everything yeah i think it's a diversion of the mind man you know you got them thinking about this this is important your gender how you feel and you know all these other things are important but that's not that's not reality you know i wish that they would teach people you know to be married and to raise a family and to be have integrity and you know i i talk to a lot of people this victim stuff that they create in people's hearts is i talk to people that disagree with me and many of them come from a perspective of being a victim i can never be this this is the problem this is where the problem is at and the way i was raised and the way i look at it now is that focused on solutions you know work harder than everybody else that has nothing to do with the color of your skin you know be a good person to other people and it goes back to god to me like when i when i got saved i started realizing that color don't mean nothing we're all god's children and we should treat each other that way and and at these universities they want to divert your attention and make you think that white people hate black people in it black people are oppressed and that that that is so far few in between that we shouldn't even be wasting our time arguing over that stuff is america racist america is not racist are there people in america that are racist yes people hate people since jesus them days and and it goes both ways when i was growing up you could never bring a white girl home are you cr raise your hand if if that's how you grew up just be honest and i'm not i'm not trying to put nobody on blast but it's like you can't bring a white girl huh what's wrong with you bro you're a sellout if you made straight a's you straight a's you put your pants on your ways you go to school you articulate yourself you sound really smart you're trying to be white as if that's a bad thing and those things i believe in culture needs to change i think and i know you agree with me candace that like i feel like black people in this country i'm speaking to black people because i grew up around black people i don't know what it's like to be white i didn't know what it's like to be black so i remember black people used to be way bolder smarter you know they they they demand prayer when they come into a room it's like man that brother is sharp man that brother is a leader they they walked around with their with their chest out and their head high i did i mean think about martin luther king in the protest they had suits on they're getting sweaty with susan martin luther king coming out of jail just with his uh his neck you know his uh one button loose with a towel they were respectable they were strong bold you see men leading and now [Applause] now i just see emotionalism i see the product of a failed marriage with single mom and i'm not i'm not bashing single moms but everybody out here know that that's not the way god designed it now if you got the cards play the cards that were dealt to you but but god wanted strong men to be in the family leading these young men to be courageous and teaching them what to do how to present yourself how to go to a job interview how to have courage and we we just have lost that and now it's this feminization of men now they're wearing dresses now they get into their feelings you know you are a man you are not allowed to have a feeling don't bruh cry in the car don't y'all remember y'all remember what's that friday he's gonna cry in the car y'all he cried in the car he wasn't out in the public crying and being soft i'm just gonna be honest man what happened to what happened to men and it's funny that you're that you're talking about that because uh what what all of these things have in common and especially when you look at the left is that it's an attack on family right so when whenever you look up at the left then you go they seem to be running in so many different directions like you know why are we talking about bathroom signs and we have nothing more important to do than talk about bathroom signs like yes like no no no all bathroom signs need to be changed you're like okay well what does that have to do with all you know races race race you talk focus on race race race race we need to talk about the transgender you know agenda kids picking the general there's now 27 you know genders feminism i hate men the patriarchy why are all these women so angry the me too movement well what does all of this have in common and the truth is that it's an attack on the family right if you are a child today in certain school districts they are allowing you know teaching children they can pick their gender and all this stuff and they that they are believing and fighting for the right for children to have corrective surgery is what they're calling that's a nice name for mutilating your genitals right at a young age um that child will never be able to grow up and have a normal family ever again right that's just what it means when you talk about women and this poison which happened you know for me i was forced to take in college a feminism 101 class which they called women studies 101. um you know we were taught it didn't matter what happened it was a textbook that we had it had every problem since the dawn of humanity that women have ever faced and the teacher would say you know this problem why did this happen and the answer was always because of men she wanted to train us to believe that everything that ever happened to us was because of men well what is she doing with that she's making it so that we're wearing rose-colored glasses and no matter what we think men are horrible human beings right and that's an attack on the family because you can't have a functional relationship if you look up and every time you see a man you see a problem right at the same time you have policies i call it you know baby mama culture that are saying to women that you you can do it by yourself you can do it all by yourself being a single mom and listen you are you can right but you shouldn't have to that's very difficult for a child to get ahead when they only have one parent it's very difficult so you routinely see this attack on the family and what's behind that in my opinion is government because in order for a government to grow that government needs to make sure you believe that every problem that you have they have an answer for not your mom and dad at home they want to become both your mother and your father and and they want to and they want to become your god too they want to be god they want to be your daddy i mean whatever you need get it from the big government and that's not right let me just two points that i was thinking about that when you were speaking candace is that they want to create the division between men and women this is just two parts of it men and women and in black and white it's funny because if you look at history of of the relationship between black and white people it wasn't all slavery right how did harriet tubman did she just somehow get on a cloud and just float away with all these black people to the north no it was white people who were dedicated to freedom i like the cloud idea though i couldn't think i almost said a spaceship but then i was like oh that's too wacky but it was dedicated white people who said you know what i want people to be free i want people to i want to help harriet tubman out when you think about the voting of abolishing slavery and giving black people rights and giving black people the right to vote uh white people voted for that there was courageous white people that said look i want black people to be free i want them to have rights like everybody else it wasn't just black folks it was white people that cared it was white people that wanted to see a future the north never had slaves they didn't believe in slavery and and i hate that they want to pit us against each other because we've always worked together to be successful there has never been a successful black man in this country in my personal opinion that there weren't white people that supported that person you look at me i'm a perfect example when i was in high school dunbar high school all black school right in the hood a white coach decided to be the football coach at our school changed our program we had nine d1 athletes and four all-americans on one team he he revolutionized our program for these young black kids that have no hope no future living in this in the projects in the city he did that when i had my son i had a son out of wedlock that's why i tell all y'all young boys don't you don't you do it don't mess with these little girls and then you ain't married because you know they they put that child support on you and all this other stuff man and then all right i'm gonna get off of that subject some of y'all ain't some of y'all putting child support on people now i'm just it's i'm joking okay so what was i talking about child support okay i got hung up on that one but let me get back to the subject at hand you know i just think that those things you know we've always worked together we've always supported one another and i really wish we would we would use that as a powerpoint for us and say whites and white people and black people have always worked together let's continue to work together let's not be divided men and women work well together you know you should be married the best time of my life is being married we have a newborn baby shout out to my wife she's at home right now take care of that little knucklehead you do you know how hard that would be if she had to do that by herself she tell me all the time she like i'm glad we were married cause i can't do i could not do this all day by myself yeah because that's not the way god intended for us to do it don't be mad don't don't don't breed i hope they will stop breeding these women that hate men and stop breeding these men that don't know how to take care of a woman i i can i just say this real quick feminism is just killing women i mean just just murdering them murdering their whole lifestyle i don't need no man i'm a i'm gonna be a ceo one day but then you want a good man well who gonna raise your kids oh okay okay you don't you don't like that okay i think people need to need to start really focusing on saying that two people together is invaluable and that you don't have you don't have to somehow be a ceo to have a worth women my wife is stay-at-home mom you know she's she's and i and i wanted it that way my wife has the freedom to do whatever she want to do but as a man i said i'm gonna provide for my wife well she don't have to work i want you to raise our child i want our child to be raised by one of us at least i'll go out and grind i'll go out and bust my tail but i want our child to be raised can you can you make sure that they're not getting indoctrinated can we work together to make sure they're getting the education they need being raised properly i don't i don't want somebody holding my baby i want i want my son's mama to be holding him to be loving him and nurturing him that's the way in my personal opinion that's the way it should be don't feel like you're less worthy because you're at home with the babies that's probably the greatest job that you can ever have and it's the toughest job it's the toughest job and obviously i'm a new mom too you know my son's 13 years old and i said it before and and feminism has become such such oh did i say 13 weeks what did i say what did i say 13 weeks i heard something on school 13 years 13 years i was like wait what did i say 13 weeks old um and and it's been you know that transition has been so tough and before i had my child i was i had already pitted myself against feminism because i i saw it as such a cancer all bad ideas come from from blue haired feminists and i and i started realizing they were advocating for things that don't make women happy and yet they're putting pressure on women to to convince themselves that it's supposed to make them happy telling women that yes not only do you have to have the children figure out how to raise children but also you should want to be the head of a forbes 400 you know forbes 100 company and it just doesn't work like that right there there there is a balance and bio biology is real you know the patriarchy didn't decide men didn't get together in a board meeting and say okay let's let's let's make the women have the children right god designed that men didn't design that right and when you have a child and when you have a child let me tell you of all the things that i do all the important people that i meet all the places that i get to travel in the world your biggest accomplishment is is when your child smiles back at you you know when you've when you've gotten your child down to sleep don't let modern feminists and this education system convince you that the real meaning comes from you climbing a corporate ladder because it doesn't family is the most important thing every single day [Applause] and it's become this evil and and you know i'm writing my second book on you know feminism because i've realized you know how hey how was the book yes believe it or not and i've realized that that right now society is trying to undermine biology in the most in the craziest way i mean even the concept of saying to someone you know to a man that you you should be more feminine that you should be we're in this hyper feminine culture but at the same time they're telling women that they have to be men society is man up women you should want more you should you don't need a man they're telling women that they need they're telling them that they need to be more feminine and that's such an evil it's such an evil to try to pretend that there's not differences there are real differences that we should acknowledge between men and women those are beautiful differences i want men to go out and be men but i also want women to feel like it's okay to go out and be a woman as well i i just feel like i want to stay on the subject of men and women like there's nothing wrong with holding a door for a woman that's you know that's the most i like as a man i remember we were at church when women would walk up the stairs at church you you guide them upstairs you hold their hand down the stairs what happened to men today where we don't feel that that's i don't know i guess because feminine feminists kind of make us feel bad for holding the door but men hold the door for women you know stand in their place i feel like nowadays if you saw a woman getting beat up right here men to be on the phone recording we are to protect women we are to be leaders you know there is nothing wrong with taking women on a date and paying for it and showing courtesy opening the door like those things i feel like we are just skipping out on and we begin to to not appreciate each other that way there's nothing wrong as a woman in my personal opinion to expect a man to be you know um graceful expect a man to to to be a man and lead i think nowadays when i see i have friends that are single and they're gonna probably be single forever and it's because they don't want a man to lead they don't want to lose their power and it's not about losing power it's about you know being selfless and those things can can build a great relationship in my personal opinion like and and i don't want to go down this path because we we'll be talking about relationship all night but i just really want us to get back to those traditional ideas of loving and respecting one another and being there for one another and standing up as a man in a relationship and for a woman to respect her husband's position in a relationship my wife is a powerhouse she can she giving people campaign clothes and everything i mean don't mess with korean or you will get shut down but my wife respects me as the man of the house my wife expects me to pray every night for our family my wife expects me to lead our family and to go out and hustle and work and make it happen that's my wife's expectation of me she can do it all on her own that's why i love my wife she can do it all alone she did it for 30 some years she was on her little apartment with a bald tires on her car check engine light on and everything i'm like you don't need no man yeah you do let me go get this all changed real quick y'all know i ain't lying tires be tires ball is an eagle i don't need no man anyway we also right now are living in a hyper sexual culture right this idea and i can't even stand it i mean women the butt cheeks all out on instagram everything is now for free i mean and if you really want to talk about why it is we all our grandparents we all say oh they were together forever right grandparents were together you know a different time well what changed um what what it means to be a woman we have this add culture now where people feel like they can hit refresh um and and find another woman this one looks younger this one's body looks tighter they're using all these filters and you're creating a reality that doesn't even exist i think social media is so poisonous to relationships and it's it's one of the biggest issues right now when the people that are at the forefront the people that are making the money on social media the people that culture is telling us should be celebrated are people that are are telling women that it's a form of freedom you know to take your clothes up on the internet i can't think of a higher form of slavery than thinking that the only time i can be heard or respected is if i take off my clothes right that needs to change so i want to start talking about some solutions because we both just had well you didn't just have a child but your wife just had a child we both um you know are at the beginning of this process of being parents and what would you say would be a couple of things that you want to do to your child that will help them survive in this climate in this world that we live in today be be present be there for them you know i have a 10 year old son so i'm doing this all over again 10 years later i feel like i forgot everything i don't know how i forgot how to change diapers and everything but anyway it happened but you know i would be present because it's a difference between uh being in the house and being present there you know some people are are there and their kids can't talk to them or you know when i was growing up man you know i feel like i i love my father he was a great man and he still is a great man you know he was a great father to me growing up and but i felt like the tradition and culture of beating your kids was a little more prevalent then and i feel like i really want to be the parent that that if i got to get you i'm going to get you but i'm but i'm going to talk to you i want you to know you can talk to your dad i want i want i want you to know that you can confide in me that i'm gonna be supportive of you we're gonna have these conversations i never knew what my dad thought about when he was younger you know my daddy never told me oh i was i was hitting on girls when i was this age i was trying to smash and all this stuff my daddy never told me that stuff about him i thought he was a good i thought he was a god because if i cut up he would tear me apart but i want to be you know vulnerable in that sense to my son to say look man you can come to me you could talk to me my 10 year old i hug him i tell him i love him i kiss him on his forehead i rub his back when he go to sleep like i want him to feel like i have that love for my father and my father isn't just this guy that's in the house watching football every day i want him to have a intimate relationship with me i don't have a daughter so i can't speak to that but that's what i really want him to have and now when he when he gets into trouble he get into things i want him to come to his father and call me on the phone and say dad man i'm struggling right here or dad you know i'm thinking about doing this or i got this girl i like you know i want to be active with the with this girl or whatever and i want to be able to coach him through it and for him to respect my opinions i think for me uh one of the things early on that me and my husband established is that we just don't want our kids to have social media we want to raise our child we don't want our child raised by instagram facebook twitter um and i think that that's becoming increasingly important you know we also have a really a policy that right now with the direction that the school systems are going into we will not put our child in a public education system and i think those are some easy easy solutions i get so often people say well what am i going to do what am i going to do like you know if i can't send my child to you know to school for six hours a day don't forget that america wasn't founded on the idea of that we had the department of education raising your children when the pilgrims first came here it was moms on the same block saying i'll take mondays you take tuesdays you take wednesdays right on the community level on the community level and i believe that right now we have to go back into that environment because what i am seeing coming out of these school systems is sheer evil propaganda right this is the stuff when you talk about hitler youth this is the stuff that we're seeing right now in american education systems where they're trying to create children that are married to the government that are passionate activists for socialist for socialism and for communism and that are passionate failures they're convinced they know everything and they have no practical skills i think parents right now in this moment uh need to wake up to the fact that this is not the same country that you were raised in right and what you need to realize is that you have to solve things on an individual level and then on a community level so we can we can keep talking about these issues all the day but you have to ask yourself a question what are you personally doing in your life how are you invoking change in your household you are not required you know to give your kids over to the education system they are your kids you make the decisions in your household yeah that's why i think we made the decision me and my wife made the decision for her to like i said to stay home i mean we could both be making money but it's like let's put ourselves in a position where you can be there and help you know i'm trying to convince her to home school she said she said no i love that i got a whole bunch of homeschoolers in here let me tell you this i went to speak at an event for charlie kirk um which was an incredible event i never i thought homeschool was like you know some crazy cult stuff you know i mean where like you're the only kid that's in home school and you don't have no friends and you're isolated just mom and daddy all day and then i went to this event and every kid there was homeschooled and they were telling they were educating me about homeschooling and they're like oh no we got recess we got a community we we do all kinds of stuff we go on field trips and i'm like what i thought you could only do that at a public school so i'm trying to convince my wife and y'all got to help her just hit her on instagram and say girl you better you better homeschool because of the same things that candice is talking about man they're indoctrinating your kids you know i don't have full control over my son but i see him doing it he'd be at the house and they got the little skype stuff going on and i'd be in the back listening and they they talk about aoc they talk about i i told they they said black history month came and they had all these people you can you write about they had rappers on there they had all these they had all these democrats and i said they don't have thomas so they don't have been ben carson they don't have they don't have any of these people uh clarence thomas like they had justices but they don't have anybody like clarence thomas they had you know not justices but they had other black people of influence but nobody like clarence thomas no other person in politics other than democrats i mean it was crazy to me and it's an indoctrination that happens but we as parents are responsible we can't keep pointing the finger at the school district you either go down there and and get in people's face about what's going on or you pull your kids out of school that may require you changing your lifestyle and and i'll say this and i know it's easy for me to talk i'm gonna keep it real it's easy for me to talk right now because i'm in a position to do this but i think when you begin to start a family you need to think about these things you know you need to think okay well maybe we can't have a big old house in two cars and a big screen tv and internet free internet maybe we need to cut it down and have a smaller house one car and we have internet no cable because one of us probably need to stay at home in this day and age i've heard so many people that reached out to me and said that they have some people have to quit their job because their kids cannot go to these schools and be indoctrinated the way that they are and y'all have to understand college is worse i go to colleges and i and the young people that that i mentor that i talk to that asked me for advice i say you don't go to college unless you have to if you have a specific degree that you're going that you know that you got a work work environment or work plan after you get that degree then you should go but other than that i don't know if i would go to college you know if you're a young man and you don't know what direction you want to go serve i'll join the military join when you're 21 21 years old join the police department i'll tell you what you'll have a you'll have retirement you'll have good benefits you can raise a family on your salary have upper mobility you learn how to serve you learn how to be courageous you learn how to work as a you know as a team you build a family in the military there's also other benefits of being in the military there is no parallel experience that you can have than going through boot camp like it'll make you a man i mean it'll make you value a lot of different things when you go through something that challenges your you as a person that challenges your your courage and your heart same thing with the police academy and i know we have some military people in here shout out to all the military people veterans active my boy topher i know he was in the military and so i also want to add that if you are a business owner how can you help start hiring kids out of high school give them an option because these kids are being told that they will be failures unless they go to college unless they rank up a bunch of debt to get a meaningless degree that teaches them no life skills and can only turn them into an angry person because you're wondering i did everything right i went to college i got a degree why can't i get a job well you can't get a job because you're not learning any practical skills you're not learning about the free markets and the economy and what people actually need and so as a business owner if we all made the pledge to stop to stop looking asking for college red you know to see what colleges they want went to on their resumes and say i'm happy to hire someone out of call out of high school and to teach them the skills that they need we could instantly undermine that system the college education system which is really just an effort as i said earlier to propagandize children and to undermine america you know america in my opinion is is is the greatest country in the world and and it's sad that right now we're losing this country very quickly because we're teaching and producing children uh with an anti-american sentiment to not realize that they are the most blessed people to ever live on the face of the planet ever ever if you were born in america it's that simple and people that question that people that say oh that's not true like you know you're not you're you're if you're born in america america's not the greatest country well they're asking this question why are they insisting that we keep our borders open if america's so bad why the hell is everybody trying to get into it right and i'm talking about from every country from every country you know they'll say oh well this country's you know this country china they're better at us in mathematics okay are a bunch of americans trying to get to china or a bunch of chinese americans trying to get to america it's the opposite way because despite the fact that yes if you're talking about individual metrics like that are are chinese americans and korean-americans better than americans at mathematics absolutely i mean koreans and chinese people better than americans and mathematics absolutely but there's something wrong with their country because despite being better at mathematics they want to come to america with that knowledge and that skill that they have and the reason for that is because the idea america is an idea the thing that brings americans together is not that we have the same race the same sex or necessarily even the same religion but it's an idea and a belief you know that no matter what hard work wins right hard work wins and hard work can only exist can only be rewarded in a free market capitalist society right now in my honest opinion america is being threatened from the inside out i believe that we are being invaded at this very moment because i don't think we exist in a time where tanks can roll in and say we're going to take over america but people that are trying to take over america are doing it from the inside out it's absolute poison that's happening the mindsets of people that are coming out of the school system are being poisoned with anti-american sentiment i do believe that we at this moment if we wake up enough people if we do enough of these events right if we go person to person if we make individual decisions like pulling your kids out of school that we can turn this ship around before it hits an iceberg but it's going to take an effort from every single individual person to person day in and day out figure out what your talent is because right now we're in a cultural war maybe you are the person who knows how to put some rhymes together and put out an album of good music and talk about christianity and talk about ethics and do it while keeping your clothes on maybe that's you right maybe you're the person that says you know what i'm not a good rapper but i know how to write a check right and i'm going to support this person don't forget me and brandon we started our careers on youtube i was a youtuber i had nothing but ideas and i had people that believed in my vision when i started blexit when we started this 501c3 people from around the world poured in and said we want to see blexit in every single city maybe you're the rapper maybe maybe you're the financier maybe you're the writer maybe you're the person that writes articles it makes people understand that this is actually not true you're the researcher you better believe that every single person in this room has a talent that can be contributed right now that can help us to save the country and that's what i want to leave this talk on this note of figure out what your talent is are you the rapper are you the singer are you the writer are you the person that can finance these projects it's that serious don't walk out of this room and go oh that was a nice event figure out how you're going to help because we are on the brink of losing this country there are people that want to divide us based on race sex gender and all of the above only together black white hispanic only together as americans to look around this romanized people of every color are we going to save this country the time is now not tomorrow not next week now brandon i think that's a wrap because we're getting the time thing thank you guys so much i think we have thank you and i want to give a shout out to a young lady with the tatum report hat on right there oh hey how are you that's my news site and she got the shirt too all right i love it thank you guys so much [Music] you
