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Dave Rubin and Russell Brand Process the Shooting of Charlie Kirk in Raw Real-Time Conversation
Dave Rubin and Russell Brand recorded this unscripted conversation moments after learning that Charlie Kirk had been shot at Utah Valley University. With no confirmed information about his condition, the two friends grapple with shock, fear, and the broader questions this tragedy raises about political discourse, online rhetoric, and violence in America. Rubin, who worked closely with Kirk for years, shares personal stories while Brand reflects on the responsibility content creators bear in an increasingly polarized climate. This raw, unedited dialogue captures two people trying to make sense of an unthinkable moment as it unfolds.
A Moment of Unthinkable Violence
Dave Rubin opens with a heavy disclaimer: what follows is not a normal show. He and Russell Brand recorded this conversation just as news broke that Charlie Kirk had been shot at Utah Valley University. At the time of recording, Kirk's condition remained unknown, with conflicting reports circulating online. Rubin had planned to begin the episode celebrating his producer Sage's wedding from the previous week, but instead found himself facing every content creator's nightmare—trying to process a tragedy involving a close friend in real time.
Rubin describes seeing the video of the shooting, though he chooses not to show it. Recording at 3:01 PM Eastern time on Wednesday, he explains that one Twitter report suggested Kirk was at the hospital, but beyond that, information remained scarce. The shock in his voice is palpable as he struggles to articulate his feelings about a friend whose fate hangs in the balance.
Charlie Kirk: Provocateur, Christian, Friend
Russell Brand offers his perspective on Kirk's role in the cultural landscape. He describes Kirk as someone who undeniably provokes—a characteristic embodied in Turning Point USA's "Prove Me Wrong" campus events. But Brand emphasizes a crucial distinction: Kirk is authentic. Whether you agree with him or not, Kirk genuinely believes what he says. He's not performing for profit or clout; he's a Christian and a Republican for whom Turning Point USA represents his life's work.
Brand raises a troubling question: in an era where heated rhetoric has become almost performative, where people casually use phrases like "that person should be killed" online, when does discourse cross from the realm of debate into real-world violence? Kirk enjoys combative discussion, but the fundamental assumption is that such engagement occurs within reason and certainly doesn't result in someone getting shot.
Rubin shares his history with Kirk, recounting the year and a half he spent doing events through Turning Point alongside Kirk and Candace Owens. Those tours involved police escorts, pulled fire alarms, constant threats, people throwing objects, and someone dumping hot coffee on him. Both Rubin and Brand have experienced various degrees of hostility at public events, making this violence feel simultaneously shocking and, disturbingly, not entirely surprising.
The Stew of Cultural Toxicity
Rubin reflects on a question that has haunted him: can something be both shocking and not surprising? He believes the answer is yes, because that's precisely how he feels about this shooting. He traces the roots of this moment back over a decade to when he was among a small group of people questioning safe spaces, trigger warnings, and the casual labeling of everyone as Nazis. Mainstream outlets like The New York Times dismissed these concerns as making mountains out of molehills.
But Rubin's fear was always about the long-term consequences. What happens when you raise entire generations to be terrified of ideas? When you tell young people the earth will end in 12 years, that the country is fundamentally racist, add gender ideology to the mix, and then amplify everything through the doom-scrolling culture of social media? The result, Rubin suggests, is a toxic stew that makes violence not just possible but almost inevitable.
Brand connects this to the broader phenomenon of how commodities and topics become weaponized in political discourse. Whether it's the Cracker Barrel logo or Tesla cars, everything gets pulled into a machine that demands people pick a side. Even with something as serious as a shooting, there's pressure to determine whether it's good or bad for "my side." This tribalistic framing prevents genuine human connection and understanding.
The Van Jones Moment and Escalating Rhetoric
Rubin brings up a CNN segment from just two days prior that now seems chillingly prescient. Host Abby Phillip, discussing the murder of a 23-year-old woman in Charlotte, suggested the case was giving "fodder to people like Charlie Kirk." She specifically named Kirk—a detail Rubin notes doesn't happen accidentally but reflects a producer's decision. Van Jones then claimed there was no reason to think the murder was racially motivated, but that "people like Charlie" wanted it to be, despite video evidence of the perpetrator saying twice, "I got that white girl."
In Rubin's analysis, rocket fuel had been poured on anti-Kirk rhetoric in the 48 hours before someone shot him. Charlie Kirk had become what Brand describes as an "avatar" for the extreme right in left-wing circles—a token name you could invoke to represent everything you oppose. But as Brand points out, Kirk is also a person, vulnerable and mortal, whose life might never be the same or might even end as a result of his wounds.
The Impossible Balance
Both Rubin and Brand wrestle with their own roles in this ecosystem. Brand describes them as "the shock jocks of our time," pioneers in online political commentary who must now confront how they participate in creating an environment where violence becomes possible. Rubin admits he thinks about this constantly, particularly during his August break when he considered how to do his show better—"better" meaning in a way that might deescalate rather than simply narrate civilization's decline.
But therein lies the dilemma: how do you forcefully oppose bad ideas without contributing to an atmosphere of escalating tension? Rubin points to examples like the communist running for mayor of New York City. He doesn't want anyone to shoot such a person, obviously, but the ideas are genuinely terrible. How do you discuss horrible ideas without either righteous anger or mockery? And if you choose humor as your tool, as Rubin and Brand often do, does that sufficiently deescalate, or does it merely add entertainment value to the broader cultural conflict?
Brand suggests the answer might lie in grace—specifically, the Christian principle of non-judgment, love, and tolerance that Charlie Kirk himself professes. Rather than approaching political opponents like the mayor with mockery or ridicule, Brand proposes attempting to understand why such figures become successful, doing so with love and appreciation rather than entertainment value as the primary goal. He references the Oscar Wilde quote tattooed on his arm: "If you want to tell people the truth, you better make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you."
Live and Let Live—But What If They Won't?
Brand raises a structural question: perhaps the solution is devolving power so that different communities can live according to their values. If New York wants a communist mayor, maybe New York should have one. Some people want to provide gender therapy to their children; others want to raise them Amish. Are Americans going to shoot each other until only one set of ideas remains?
Rubin acknowledges the appeal of "live and let live" but identifies the fundamental problem: one set of people is okay with that approach, and another set isn't. What do you do when you're willing to leave others alone, but they want what you have or seek to encroach on your values and territory? This asymmetry, in Rubin's view, makes pure tolerance an incomplete solution.
The Kobe Story and Life's Fragility
Rubin shares a personal story about Kobe Bryant's death that illuminates the fragility of life. A day or two before Bryant died, Rubin was living in LA and happened to flip past the Lakers channel. He saw Bryant looking better than ever—healthy, bearded, wearing a sharp suit, embodying someone living his best life. Rubin watched for a minute, then changed the channel.
The next day, while waiting for an Uber to LAX, Rubin saw the news about the helicopter crash. He immediately teared up, despite never having met Bryant. His Uber driver, a young Black man in his late twenties or early thirties, was hysterically crying—bawling like a child. Rubin told him they didn't need to rush, and for half an hour they just sat there talking about Kobe, working through the grief together.
The point of the story, beyond its emotional power, is the reminder it offers: Rubin saw someone at the peak of life, and the next day that person was gone. This tenuous nature of existence applies equally to Charlie Kirk lying in a hospital with a gunshot wound.
The Brutal Reality Sets In
As the conversation continues, Rubin and Brand receive an update. Though the specific details aren't shared aloud, the gravity in Rubin's voice suggests the news is not good. Rubin mentions having seen the video of Kirk being shot and describes it as disturbing. The two decide to end the recording rather than continue processing in real time.
Before signing off, Brand offers a prayer—a genuine, heartfelt plea that cuts through the intellectual analysis that preceded it. He asks God to show them what can be authentically learned from this tragedy. Is there a way to reach out to one another differently? He acknowledges that the final video will soon have millions of views, with some people joking, others crying, and all attempting to deploy it for their own benefit and advantage.
Brand prays for comfort for those genuinely affected, for Kirk's family, and for fatal consequences to be avoided if possible. He reminds listeners that less high-profile people suffer and die every day in ways that don't impact the public because of lack of connection, but death is universal and inevitable. His prayer calls for appreciation of life, celebration of beautiful things like marriage and family, and for a way beyond the "incessant blizzard of entertainment, vitriol, and rhetoric."
He asks that he and Rubin, as participants in this media ecosystem, find ways to be "valuable guardians of something that goes beyond continually escalating these tensions." The prayer ends with a direct appeal: "In the name of Jesus, please look after dear Charlie and his family. Amen."
An Unscripted Moment of Humanity
This conversation represents something rare in modern political media: two people who make their living commenting on current events caught completely off guard by tragedy, processing it without preparation or agenda. There are no talking points, no carefully crafted narratives, just two friends trying to make sense of violence directed at someone they know.
The discussion raises questions without providing easy answers. How much responsibility do content creators bear for the cultural atmosphere? Can you forcefully oppose ideas while promoting peace? Is mockery a tool of de-escalation or escalation? Where is the line between passionate advocacy and dangerous rhetoric?
What emerges most clearly is the humanity of all involved—Kirk as more than a political avatar, Rubin and Brand as more than political commentators, even political opponents as more than abstractions to be defeated. In the face of real violence and potential death, the performance falls away, leaving only the recognition that these are actual people whose lives matter beyond their utility in political warfare.
As Rubin noted at the opening, this is not a normal show. It's a document of a specific moment when the abstract became terrifyingly concrete, when rhetoric met reality, and when two people in the media tried to grapple with what that means for how they do their work and live their lives.
Video Transcript
All right, everybody. So, um, obviously
what you're going to see today is not
going to be a normal show. Uh, Russell
Brand and I tape this just as the news
of Charlie was breaking. Um, as of
course everyone knows at this point, he
has passed on. Uh, we did not know that
at the time. There was a lot of
conflicting reports and we didn't want
to speculate. So, you're going to see
just our absolutely raw
um real-time emotion on this. Uh it is
this is a horrible episode for America
and I can only imagine what the
repercussions are going to be because of
it. So um hopefully uh you know we
didn't we weren't even sure what we were
going to do there. Obviously there was
nothing scripted. This was just two
friends talking about uh well Charlie
was a friend of mine and and a colleague
I would say of Russell then they had met
a few times um and just talking it out
in in in real time as something
unbelievably horrific was unfolding. Um,
so I hope it offers you a little solace
in this uh in this crazy time and
hopefully we'll be back to something
with a little more humor and a little
more our style next week. Okay.
All right, Russell. Um, I guess we're
doing something a little different at
the moment because uh, literally five
minutes before we just started this, we
have heard that our friend Charlie Kirk
has been shot at Utah Valley University.
Um, I saw the video. We're not going to
show it. I don't think there's any need
to show any pictures or anything. As of
literally right this moment, we're
taping this at uh it's now 3:01 Eastern
time on Wednesday. Um, we don't have
more info. I One thing I saw on Twitter
said he's at the hospital right now. I
can only pray for my friend and um I'm
sort of speechless. We just did a quick
powout for 60 seconds whether we were
going to even do this today. Sage
obviously uh got married last week,
which I was hoping to start the show
with today because it was such a
incredible um celebration of love and
everything that's right with the
universe. Uh but she couldn't make it
because she's uh you know, post wedding.
Um
I I don't know what to say, man. I I
actually don't know what to say. I I've
done a million of these events with
Charlie. Um I I know him well. We've
broken bread dozens and dozens of times.
You've done events with him. We've all
been part of this culture war thing. We
all to whatever extent we're trying to
do make things a little bit better every
now and again. Now I don't know if my
friend is alive as we're doing this.
This does not feel real.
Well, this is is you know when we work
in this space we operate on the
assumption that a lot of it's rhetoric.
If you think about like the subjects
that we sometimes choose we know that
we're using hot button subjects, hot
takes, the turnover. You do five shows a
week, I do four shows a week. You know,
we do a lot of shows. Charlie makes like
loads of content. And there's no
question that Charlie Kirk is a
provocator. But Charlie is also someone
that I use as an example of whether you
agree with him or not, you have to
recognize that he's authentic and
dedicated. He's not pretending. This is
what he really believes in. This is what
he really cares about. He's not
posturing. He's not trying to make
money. He's although I'm sure he is
making money, he's a Christian and a
Republican. and turning point is his
sort of raise on detra and life's work.
And I think that when something like
this happens, it's literally happens in
the last couple of minutes, even if
you're seeing this 24 or 48 hours later,
what's worth remembering is that we're
in such a contentious time that the kind
of rhetoric and vitrial that we all to
some degree engage in online, which
becomes to a degree performative. People
use rhetoric all the time, take grand
positions, use casually words like that
person should be killed or whatever. And
even Charlie's uh you know prove me
wrong stance, he's a kind of a person
who enjoys combative discourse. But the
assumption of course is that that is
within reason and certainly isn't
something that's going to lead to him
getting shot. I saw the foot I I because
there's so much hysteria and craziness
like just in online spaces when I've
heard like sone posted Charlie Kirk's
been shot I was like he'll have been
shot at someone's fired a gun and then I
like I watch whoa he's been hit by a
bullet so
yeah but like please God by the time
we're doing this it's not postumous and
we're talking about like you know God
rest his soul I pray that Charlie Kirk
doesn't die and if there's anything that
we can like that you and I can talk
about perhaps that what we can consider
Dave How do we contribute to escalate
intension? I mean, even Charlie Kirk
doing doing events like this is taking
into territory where he knows he's going
to experience opposition in order to
have interesting conversations, which
he's brilliant at and should be able to
safely do. But now we're discussing, you
know, he's been shot. So, like, what are
we supposed to learn from that? Maybe we
all need to calm it down a little bit
with the amplification of the conflict
and opposition in in in your country.
Yeah. I mean, this is a particularly
weird one for us because we we do this
for a living. We're supposed to talk
about these things, but we do we do both
know him. Uh we've we've been part of
these, you know, for about a year. For
about a year and a half, I did these
events through Turning Point with
Charlie and Candace. It was the three of
us all the time and we had police
escorts and fire alarms pulled and
people threatening us and throwing
things at us and had somebody dump a hot
coffee on me and like all of these
things and I'm sure you've been through
a lot of these things too. It's a little
hard to do the um
selfanalysis just as this is breaking.
You know, you and I think actually in
this space are pretty good at not
raising tensions all the time. We do
fall into stuff. Oh, the left does this
or this that. Like we all get caught in
that as someone that talks for a living.
You have to use shorthand
every now and again. But I but I think
and you you sort of said this. I mean
the broader point and again all we can
do right now is is pray. Like what else
is there that you could possibly do than
pray for Charlie? I mean I saw the
video. He was hit either here or in the
neck or you know it does it does not
look good. Um but beyond that, um
it seems it seems to me
that you have to be able to say whatever
basically whatever the hell you want to
say without being killed,
without being and this and this is the
this is the crux of what we've come up
against for so long. You know, like 10
years ago when I was amongst a few group
pe a small group of people that were
talking about why safe spaces didn't
make sense and why trigger warnings
didn't make sense and this thing of
calling everyone a Nazi, why it didn't
make sense and there and almost the you
know we we had all the New York Times
all these things always telling us how
awful we were and we were making a
mountain out of a mold hill and it's not
real.
But my fear with all of that was well
what what is going to happen when you
take a generation 10 years and it's
really more than that. You take an
entire generation or two or three
generations of young people and then
they're so afraid of ideas and you tell
them the earth is going to end in 12
years and you tell them that the country
is fundamentally erased. Like you do all
of these things, then you add the gender
part of it. Then you add just all of the
craziness of social media and doom
scrolling. Like we basically created
this like stew that it's not like like
as shocking as it was when I I got a
text about it first. As shocking as it
was, it's also not surprising. Can
something be shocking and not surprising
at the same time? I think so because I
because that's how I feel about this.
Yeah, that's right. I mean, in fact,
that's exactly the way I described it.
when Amy Winehouse died of a you know
drug related complications let's say
I it was shocking but also not
surprising and I reckon that that if you
think about it everything that happens
in the news we have to have a kind of a
take on it and we sort of pick a side
and you see how whether it's the Cracker
Barrel logo or you know or Tesla cars
literal commodities come into the
machine and we have to have like we have
to take a position is this good for my
side or bad for my side and I you know
even with something really serious like
this you have to I think this is where
it takes me to like I know Charlie Kirk
from doing a few podcasts with him and
what I think about him is I think he's
really interesting bloke I call him like
the right-wing rain man like he's got
this kind of like sort of autistic kind
of quality to him but he's ultra smart
and ultra sincere and he's a man of God
he obviously antagonizes a lot of people
and he obviously deliberately
antagonizes a lot of people but What I
suppose this makes you consider is oh
wow that antagonism is being seen as
something that warrants a violent
response.
Right.
Right. So what do we do with that? That
that's the again this feels crazy to be
talking about this just as this is
happening. Like we're like you know
tragedy. They say comedy is tragedy plus
time. There's nothing funny about this.
But like we're we're sort of like you
know like we're like narrating the end
of the world. That's what it feels like
to me in some weird way, which is a
strange thing to do. Um,
you know, at all of these events that I
would do with Charlie. Yeah. Like he it
was also different back then, just the
culture and things have changed, of
course, but like of course a portion of
it, you know, when when they name what
was the prove me wrong. It's it's
slightly anti antagonistic. This is in
no way blaming Charlie or anyone else.
There's one person who should be blamed.
That's the person who pulled the trigger
here, which I did just see a picture of,
but let's just let let that be the the
the person who did this. Um, but of
course there's an antagonistic nature to
all of this. But the exchange that you
have in a free society is there's going
to be some antagonism between people.
And that's the only way that ideas are
going to get out there. Once once you
start, you know, look, I guess the best
way you could frame this is look what
happened what, six months ago with that
um Luigi Manion, this kid who decided to
execute a health care executive on the
streets of New York. Now, it doesn't
matter what his physical problems were.
He had some back problems that I guess
he wasn't happy with his coverage. It
doesn't matter what you think about
health care or universal health care or
premiums or anything else. You can't
start assassinating people like once a
society gives an inch to that. And
that's one of the reason other reasons
I've been so critical of the left
because they've been so tacitly
endorsing violence and get in their face
and don't give them a minute's peace and
all of those things. And then you wonder
what what would people do if you jin
them up enough? Uh did you see uh
Russell uh I think it was two days ago,
you know, as this story out of Charlotte
is developing with this young uh the
23-y old girl who was murdered in cold
blood. Did you see the Van Jones thing
on CNN?
No. What did what did Van Jones say? I
know the story, but I don't know what
Van Jones said.
So, it's actually kind of crazy and and
I played it twice on my show in the last
two days because basically they were uh
that woman, what's her name who hosts
the show on CNN? Abby Phillips is the
host and she basically started the
segment by saying that this murder of
this young woman is basically giving
fodder to people like Charlie Kirk. They
specifically brought up Charlie's name.
That means a producer told her to say
that. She didn't just magically come up
with that at the 800 PM hour. They
wanted to somehow connect it to someone
like Charlie. And then Van Jones
basically said something to the effect
of, "Well, there's no reason to think
this had anything to do with racism, but
char people like Charlie want that." But
then, of course, the video leaked from
the light rail where the guy who
committed the murder said twice, "I got
that white girl." So just in the last 48
hours, the level of rhetoric that had
been ramped up against Charlie was
exacerbated was was, you know, rocket
fuel was put on that. And then somebody
tried to shoot Charlie today. So no, not
tried to, somebody shot Charlie today.
Obviously, if something breaks while
we're doing this, you guys let me know.
Until we're all exhausted by trying to
be right about this stuff, I think that
it will continue to escalate. Why would
we be surprised someone shot the
president? of course like someone with
significantly less efficient security
than a president is vulnerable to that
and I I reckon Dave that you know it's
weird isn't it because you think oh well
that could happen to me I'm a person in
the public eye that sort of says stuff
so I it could happen but actually it has
happened to Charlie now and your point
that he is become a kind of um token of
uh like extreme rightwing in leftwing
circles you can use the name he's like
the avatar for them. Yeah.
Yeah. You can use it like that. But now
in a way what you and I have to do and
perhaps the left will have to do is like
well actually Charlie's an effective
campaigner and activist and public
performer in the you know within the in
the forum that he operates in. But he's
also like a person. And now we've seen
that he's vulnerable, mortal, perhaps,
you know, at this point cuz it's like
literally 20 minutes ago. You know, he
might die as a result of those wounds or
Charlie Kirk's life might never be the
same. We don't know anything at all
about the consequences of that. So, we
can only really attempt to understand
the kind of environment that you and I
as online pundits, the kind of shock
jocks of our time, how are we
participating in this? I suppose
Charlie's different as well in that he
is explicitly political, i.e. He's
raising money. He's advocating for, you
know, the the the voting machines that
are used. He's getting involved. Charlie
Kirk, he's an effective campaigner.
You know, it's interesting. You're
right. We have to think about that. It's
something I think about a lot. It's
something that when I was off for
August, it's like what I'm thinking
about. And if I think about the show,
what I'm thinking about is how do I do
it better? And by better, I mean in a
way that will, you know, I always like
when people laugh at the show, right?
like they think it's funny and light and
whatever, but it's like how do we
deescalate the craziness? I I don't, as
I said a moment ago, like I don't want
to just narrate for the next 20 years of
my life the end of the world. You know
what I mean? Like, oh well, every year
it got worse. I narrated it. Okay, fine.
Like I I would prefer not to do that. I
think part of the problem here is it's
it's very with the forces that seem to
be on the march and the amount of um the
amount of institutional stuff that they
took from us and cultural stuff that
they took from us and all of those
things with all of those forces on the
march. It's hard. It's hard to
deescalate like like when you talk about
these people whose ideas are so bad or
so wrong. The the communist that wants
to run New York City or whatever. I
don't want anyone to shoot him.
Obviously, no one should ever do that.
But he has horrible ideas. Well, how do
we talk about those horrible ideas
without at least a degree either pure
anger, right? You can do it out of anger
and righteous indignation or you could
maybe do what you and I are pretty good
at. You can do it with a little humor.
that would be okay. But no matter how
you do it, it seems like the thing just
kind of continues. I I I don't know how
you get out of that. Maybe that's just a
function of where we're at in human
society now because of technology and
everything else.
I reckon with limitless grace that what
maybe we could focus on is the fact that
amongst his other explicitly declared
positions, Charlie Kirk is a Christian.
And the position of being a Christian is
one of non-judgment and is of grace and
love and tolerance. So when you and I
are talking about Mandani, I know that
you're um a Jew, Dave, and I'm a new
Christian. I would say like, okay,
instead of me approaching the subject of
Ma Dani in a way that's mocking or
ridiculing or deliberately emphasizing
things that I don't agree with, maybe
I'll approach this as a person that
doesn't agree with his political
position with the best attempt to
understand why he's become successful
that I can offer and do it, you know,
not trying to be entertaining, trying to
be loving and appreciative. that that is
something that you and I could literally
do,
right? Like that there's a way to do
probably more of that. And then of
course, you know, there's the Oscar
Wild. If you want to tell people the
truth, you better, you know, make them
laugh otherwise they'll kill you. So
like there's a there's also
tattooed on my arm, Dave, that on my
literally that's tattooed along my arm
there.
Wow. So Well, there's the point. There's
the point, right? like like you want
sometimes the mockery sometimes I think
the mockery of some of these people is
actually the only tool to deescalate it
because to say to constantly try to give
them either the benefit of the doubt for
age-old ideas that are terrible or
whatever like you'll just follow them
down the rabbit hole of it'll just be
endless they'll keep winning and you'll
just keep trying to turn the other cheek
in some sense and yet I I understand the
inclination to want to do that too I
don't know that look this is why we're
all different this is what's this is I
suppose is the beauty of humanity. We'll
all take attack at this differently. You
know, the conclusion that you come to on
how you want to approach this may be
slightly different than the one I come
to and and that you and I can always
slog through this the best we can. Um
well, that's why I love you. Like it's
it's that's the thing.
Yeah. Well, that is actually something
we can rely on and something that we
don't spend enough time in because it's
kind of cloying and sentimental and
don't seem somehow worthy of like you
know your wise cracking persona or my
British somewhat surreal approach to
communication. But what you know when I
talking I spoke to Laura Luma yesterday
and like when I was speaking to her
she's a person who takes extreme
positions and is a provocator. she's a
sort of a candidate for this kind of
attention and potentially those kind of
consequences. I suppose to a degree we
all are. We all have people go online.
There'll be people now doing jokes about
Charlie Kirk. Oh, I guess we proved him
wrong. There'll be people doing like of
course they will. And why wouldn't and
and I suppose the only thing that we can
pay attention to is well how do we
respond if uh people when we could
potentially score points and choose not
to when we could um double down refusing
to. So like what I feel about it in the
moment is I I do feel an inclination to
pray for him and to pray for the people
that are actually affected. In fact, I
heard a brilliant thing when um Kobe
Bryant died in the helicopter car crash.
The brilliant preacher
my like this man Michael Beckwith was
who's a brilliant preacher in LA was
actually in his sermon. He's not a
Christian. He's sort of like a
non-denominational preacher there in LA.
A lot of people attend the agape church.
Kobe died during his sermon and when he
affirmed that it was true, he announced
it to the congregation and there was a
gasp from the congregation and he goes,
"Before you all go there, remember there
are people that are actually directly
affected by this. He's got a widow. He's
got family members. So, let's bring our
attention to them because in the final
analysis, it's non-local." So much of
what goes on online in particular, Dave,
I think becomes a kind of performance,
you say, you know, there's going to be a
third world war. You know, this will be
the end of civilization. You recognize
that in order to get clicks and views,
you emphasize here, you cut there, you
thumbnail this way, you title that way.
This is a business. We're at the front
end of the communication business,
pioneering in the new territory online.
Well, actually, I suppose what we should
recall is that there are going to be
real life consequences to it. That's one
thing. We should recognize that while
all of us are discussing these issues,
none of us are saying, "Do you know, is
there going to be a way that if New York
wants to have a communist mayor, maybe
New York should be able to have a
communist mayor. Maybe we need to look
at devolving power. Maybe we should stop
squabbbling in the established sandbox
and start recognizing there are some
people who want to give gender therapy
to their kids and other people who want
to raise um Amish. Um what what are we
going to do? All shoot each other till
only one idea remains.
Right. Well, there is there is something
to be said about live and let live. I
think largely the issue is that a
certain set of people
are okay with that and a certain set of
people aren't. And what do you do about
what do you do when people when you say,
"Okay, live and let live. Have what you
have, it's over there." But when
somebody wants what's yours or wants to
encroach or whatever? Um, I'll tell you
a story that you're going to love about
about Kobe. Um, a few days, I think it
was literally a day or two before he
died, I lived in LA at the time and uh
they the Lakers have a channel. It's
like an actual channel. That's the
Lakers channel. I don't know if he had a
show or whatever, but I hadn't seen him
in a while. Um, and I flicked past it
and I saw him and he looked great when I
I stopped the channel cuz I I've always
loved Kobe, you know, I love basketball,
but I but he looked great. It was really
striking to me. He had a beard. He just
like looked healthy and you know when
you see someone that just like looks the
best of themselves and he was wearing a
really sharp suit and I watched for a
minute and then I changed the channel.
The next day I was waiting to go to uh
to LAX to the airport. Um, and just as I
was about to get into my Uber, uh, I saw
the tweet or whatever that that Kobe uh,
had died that the helicop about the
helicopter crash. I got into my I
immediately teared up. Like teared up.
Teared up. You know, I'm not like the
most emotional guy, but like teared up.
I've never met him, you know, whatever.
I get into the Uber and it's a young
black driver. He's probably late 20s,
early 30s or so. He was hysterically
crying. hysteric, balling, like the most
you can imagine somebody crying like a
child. And I got in and I said to him, I
I wasn't in a rush. It was really early.
I said, "Listen, I know what's going on
here. Like, we don't have to go
anywhere. You want to just sit here and
talk about Kobe for a while. I'm getting
chills up my spine as I'm telling you
this." And for about a half hour, we
just told stories about Kobe from the 83
point game to the, you know, coming back
during that season when he was on trial
all the time, blah blah blah. Um, and
and then he kind of was just working
through it. Just working through it.
Working through it. Um, I mentioned that
sort of for that part, but really it was
the previous part that I mentioned that
I saw this I happened to stop on a
channel thinking, man, this is a guy
living his best life and then I think it
was literally the next day he was dead.
And that tells you how tenuous this
whole thing is.
Is there any is there do we have any new
news since Yeah. Um, yeah, the guys are
going to text me and you something,
Russell. We'll just we'll just watch it
on the fly and then we'll decide how we
want to
I saw the
I saw the video of him being shot. It's
disturbing, man.
Obviously.
Yeah. All right. They're going to
they're going to send us something here.
Um
Oh.
Oh god.
All right. Um
me may not be coming back from that.
All right, Russell, I think this is what
we're going to do. Um, we're gonna we're
gonna stop now. I think that was
cathartic to some extent. And uh,
okay, let's um, let's end the show here.
We don't have to edit anything out. It's
all good. Um, let's leave it there for
now. And let's just let's just put this
up as raw as it is. We can even put it
up today if we want. Um, and let's let's
just leave it there.
Hold on a minute. Let me pray. Let me
pray.
Yeah.
Bloody hell. I mean,
if there's anything that we can
genuinely and authentically learn from
this, Lord, will you show us what it is?
Is there a way that we can reach out to
one another differently because the
brutality of that uh the final video in
particular, which will soon have
millions and millions of views and some
people will be joking and some people
will be crying and all of us will be
trying to deploy this in some way for
our own benefit and advantage. Can you
show us what you would have us learn
from this? And if this is um if this has
fatal consequences, please Lord, comfort
those that are genuinely affected by it,
that are closest to him. And may we
learn the lessons that we need to learn
from this. Because remember, all over
the world, less high-profile people are
continually suffering and dying in ways
that may not impact us directly because
of the associations and connections and
rhymes and resonances, but death is
inevitable. Lord, let us appreciate life
and let us find love with one another.
Let us celebrate the beautiful things in
life, marriage, togetherness, unity, and
children. And Lord, let us please find a
way beyond this constant and incessant
blizzard of entertainment, vitriol, and
rhetoric. And please, participants like
me and Dave, let us do what we can do to
be valuable guardians of something that
goes beyond continually escalating these
tensions. In the name of Jesus, please
look after Dear Charlie and his family.
Amen.